Does the color matter?

[Anonymous]

So i'm a virgin.. in the beginning it was because i wanted to do it with my one and only for the rest of my life but now even if i get a chance to get serious with someone i back off because i developed this insecurely about the colors of my bits and the crack of my booty... It may sound silly but that's all i think about , i find myself down there really ugly and soooo dark.

I'm beautiful with a killer body shape, and my skin color is white with rose shades , so by the feedback i get , i think what i leave for imagination can be expected as a little over the top but in reality i'm not , so i get afraid to get naked infront of anybody even a doctor...

What do you think , am i overthinking it?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Would you get dressed and walk away if the guy you were about to sleep with had a circumcised two incher? Probably not. Genitals dont look pretty. They're not made to look pretty. Whoever you end up sleeping with will care way more about penetration than what your bits look like.

[Joshydavid25]

I think darker private parts are gotdamn sexy.. 😋.. They just do something to me especially on lighter bodies.. But you are definitely over thinking it to the highest bidder.. Especially if you are as nice looking as you describe yourself.. You have absolutely nothing to worry about.

[knowseeker]

Wait for your one and only. You had a reason to keep your virginity till then. Why are you changing now?

And no, color won't matter to him at all.

[Asker]

there is no change , it's just an insecurety that keeps me from even getting to engage in a potential serious relationship with a potential "one and only" .. so whenever it gets to the flirting phase i back off..

[boggboss]

U are doing some crazy overthinking remember what u find ugly about yourself don't matter to how others will view u

[In_Trance]

Does the color of your future partner matter to you?

[Asker]

Not really , i really don't care.. now that you mentioned it , once my mom told me that even men have dark hairy balls so don't worry... And i didn't mind , i know it's natural..
But i just can't help it , especially when random guys DM me about their fantasy it seems like they expect a "bleached porn star" based on my looks , that's why my concern with my partner is for me not to be up to the expectations

[In_Trance]

It's probably a good idea to have that conversation with any potential partner. You should take into consideration if that is their actual fantasy whether you can fulfill it or not. It's perfectly fine to say no

[Asker]

Thank you.. that was actually helpful.. i never thought about talking about that... I always thought about never letting a man go down on me or do it with lights off.. but i guess i was kinda selfish just thinking about myself and didn't even consider the other opinion when the answer was as simple as communicate... Thank you , you really helped

[Daffotul]

probably because men won't care I don't think