I sent nudes to a catfish?

[Anonymous]

Please don’t judge me. I made the biggest mistake of my life last night. A guy I was talking to on tinder asked me for my snap. We were talking and then the conversation became sexual and he sent me pics of his d*** and I stupidly kept up the conversation and long story short, send him pics back. Of my boobs and bum. Again i have no clue what i was thinking and i feel terrible. I figured he was a catfish because i couldn’t find him on any social media and his snap score was low. Anyway, when i refused to send him pics of my down there, he got annoyed and then told me i got catfished and i guess he had looked me up on fb because he said my full name which i never told him. I kept asking who he is and he said i know him but i think he was lying. Im just paranoid that he somehow had saved my pics without me knowing and i’m scared he will leak them somewhere. He didn’t say he had or will do anything, he pretty much ended the convo and i said ill block him and he told me to go ahead. So i blocked him but im really paranoid!!! Please help me calm down I've never done anything like this in my life!

[drsatan]

Don't let them win.
No shame and no guilt. You did nothing that most of us don't also do, just some scumbag might try to threaten or blackmail you over it but don't give in.
If he does, and anyone you know has a problem with it, just tell them, yeah, you showed your tits to someone you thought you was having some consensual fun with and then they blackmailed and exposed you.
You are 100% not at fault!

[Asker]

Thank you, made me feel better. I hope he doesn’t have the pics saved in the first place, I didn’t get any notifications but he might’ve had other ways.

[Yammy]

That's happened to me before. But they tried blackmailing me instead

[Asker]

How did you resolve it?

[Yammy]

I blocked then and I think everything is fine now

[Yammy]

Them*

[Asker]

Good to hear. How long has it been? I’m super paranoid and I don’t even know if they have my pics

[Yammy]

2 years I think

[Asker]

Ok you should be safe then

[Nikki1989]

Nothing you can do. I sent pics to a guy that I later rejected, so he posted the pics to his blog and to this day they are still there. This is the nature of the internet unfortunately.

[Asker]

I’m sorry that happened to you, at least we both have learned a lesson though. Never sending any pics ever again

[FireSky7]

As long your face does not appear in the photos, who cares? 😉

Never show your face in naked photos! 😎

[Iron_Man]

Pent your sins and never do it again

[saggittarius039112]

When did it happen?

[Asker]

Last night :(

[saggittarius039112]

No judgment. I don't know tinder well but i can try and help

[Asker]

I did get rid of him and he didn’t say he had saved the pics or anything. He basically told me he’ll block me himself when I kept asking who he is and why he’s catfishing people. So I ended up blocking him and there hasn’t been any contact since. But I feel really bad inside and really paranoid he could try to add me on social media again. Im mostly scared because I don’t know if he screen recorded or somehow saved the pics

[saggittarius039112]

Worrying is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it won't get you anywhere. So breath a little. Was there alot? Anything Incriminating?

[Asker]

I showed 2 pics of one of my boobs. And 2 of my bum, one without anything on :( He kept asking for more saying he needed motivation to finish and I kept refusing after because I realized it was going too far

[saggittarius039112]

Then they really have nothing. Dont let it get to you too much.

[Asker]

Thank you for helping me feel better. I’m just going to be super paranoid for at least a few days

[saggittarius039112]

Just be careful.

[Asker]

I definitely will, never sending any naked pics ever again. Lesson learned