Was I right for saying no to sending a drunk girl nudes?

[Anonymous]

So for context my girlfriend had a bit too much to drink and, while over the hours we chatted she sobered up quite a bit, but my gut feeling told me she wasn't fully sober even if she wasn't fully drunk. and while she said it was okay and wouldn't care in the morning. I just didn't go through with it and while she thought it was sweet and she didn't care if I sent one. I just felt like shit if I did send it, I like this girl a lot and I told her that and that I didn't wanna screw this up because I listened to a sort of sober/drunk her. So while she seemed fine with it I feel horrible. And I guess I'm glad I didn't but the fact that she still seemed fine with it bothered me a little

[Sour-rose]

Yes. She was drunk, if she saw that in the morning, god knows what would happen. She freak, she be turned on, she say she's turned on but she actually saved them in her phone and now will expose you to her friends for them to take said picture and flash it online where it's the internet...:)

So yeah, good job saying no.

[Anonymous]

You exercised your right to say no, your right not to consent to something you were uncomfortable with. There’s nothing wrong with that.

[EnglishEuropean]

You acted like a gentleman. That can be shocking to modern day women who don't have any experience of it, and could be misinterpreted as a lack of interest. But at the end of the day I'm sure she will respect you more as a result.

[jshm2]

Look kiddo.

Doesn't matter if you're male, female, if it's your wife, or boyfriend. Never, ever send nudes you do not have option to delete on. That kind of shit is how revenge porn gets around

[genericname85]

i don't think sending nudes would have ruined anything. what are you worrying about?

[joeldalton]

I don't understand... she's your girlfriend. What's the issue?

[driven159]

I would be more concerned with her drinking than a nude picture