I would prefer to date a guy who doesn’t smoke. Smoking cigarettes, vapes, pot etc is not attractive at all to me. But I’ve met lots of people who say that I’m being picky because I don’t want someone who smokes. It’s honestly hard trying to date because literally every guy does some sort of smoking. I don’t like the smell of cigarettes or pot and as for vapes, everyone I have met that uses them blows smoke all in my face and they can’t put it down. They can’t just have a normal conversation or a normal meal without getting their vape out. Am I weird for feeling this way. Should I just deal with it? And why is it so hard to find guys who don’t smoke?
Is something wrong with me because I think smoking is a turn off?
That's not wrong. Smoking is kinda obnoxious, especially cigarettes. And nothing is more annoying then some asshole with a smelly vape stinking up a room but because they like it, they just puff up a whole area.
It's not a deal breaker for me because I do partake socially from time to time. But I do prefer someone who doesn't especially since to me it hints that that person might be of low character.
Not a bad thing at all. I've only dated two smokers, and never wanted to, and never want to again. It's not your fault they're addicted, and mad that you didn't chose them because of their addiction. If people give you crap for not dating smokers, maybe they don't need to be in your life anymore.
nothing wrong, everyone has their own preference in partners. personally, I don't like guys who smoke too. firstly because I used to have asthmas and breathing in those air isn't very pleasant for me. second, due to the smell of it and third, smokers usually can smoke up to a pack a day.
No. Nothing is wrong with you. Smoking is dangerous to health. There is absolutely nothing good about it. I fully agree with you about smoking; it is an immediate and absolute turnoff and deal-breaker for me.
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