Absolutely not. As nothing about him being charming and cute but the fact that he cares about relationships so much he's not going to risk it being with the wrong kind of people. So if you're not looking to have anything really serious then I highly suggest you don't date him and let him be with somebody who will. I never been with anybody either and I'm quite happy. You're not supposed to be in love, you supposed to love. If you find it concerning, again you don't need to be with him. You won't be the only girl that he would have to remove. Cuz then it'll just open up the door for him to find the right person.
I know of some people who choose Medicine, Law, Dentistry, etc. And they are way to busy to have any type of relationship. So I don't think it's a red flag if a guy has never had a serious girlfriend.
You should change your question to,
"Is it a red flag if someone has never had a serious intimate relationship?"
Because there are women like this too.
The problem with people who have never had a relationship by that age or haven't had a partner in years is that they are oblivious to a lot of important aspects of relationships. The 30 year old woman I dated last year hadn't had a boyfriend in 9 years and was clueless.
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Perhaps life and career kept him busy? Maybe he just doesn't have the same drive as a normal guy to seek those things. To many unknowns to know if it's a red flag at this point.
As a guy of 42 who has never dated, kissed, or been in love, I can identify with him. I don't think you should be concerned about this; I only think you should be considerate of him, treat him well, and try your best to make him happy.
this question pisses me off because, it's a reminder how cases like this happen to men more than women, it looks socially and biologically impossible, for a woman to reach her 30s or more without ever having had a boyfriend before, and it makes me more mad when people will say things like "who cares?"?
Maybe. However, after I graduated from college I wasn't interested in dating anyone for about 8 years. I was, instead, focusing on getting my life together. Perhaps he did the same thing.
No it is not a red flag maybe he doesn't trust people
Either
1. You found what all the other girls missed
2. He's a psychopath.
Don't judge a movie by its trailer.
Same could also be said about humans
No. I doubt you can say it is a red flag. Many men just aren't interested in dating women due to the way women tend to use men now.
That's like 60% of guys.
It's a reminder that cases like this, something that you would never expect to happen to a woman
Spill blood over there
You have to start from somewhere so wtf?
Be very cautious
He doesn't have money... 😞
Seems like it
No experience ☺️
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