Why do women already in a relationship try to date me?

[Anonymous]

I haven't dated any women yet as I have focused on other endeavors, but the majority of women who try to get involved with me are dating or even married to someone else. I would never get involved with a woman like that because 1. It is adultery, 2. what would stop her from doing that to me? I don't understand why I appear to be affair material. I flirt with single women, but never seek out unavailable women, yet 80% of women who seek me are involved with someone else. I don't dress provocatively, I am very formal, and I don't mess around. I don't know why I get more interest from involved women than single.

[Avicenna]

Thrill seeking on their part

[Asker]

Possibly, but I am a rather boring intellectual type.

[Avicenna]

Here's the thing- those who cheat take what they can get and they might be attracted to that.

[Asker]

Seems possible, but don't know if I should try to be more boring or less as a deterrent.