Why women only interested in me when i'm in relationship?

[Anonymous]

When im single they are like "Oh, you are such a good friend! " And when im in relationship they flirt and make a mess and try to get between me and my girlfriend. They like want me around but do not want me to be in relationship? Why?

[jennifer_bloom]

Not everyone dates for love - some do it for control or power or money for security or an ego boost or attention or loyalty and service or emotional validation. It's why so many people kill people they claim to love, their definition of love is only selfish ownership and possession, and has nothing to do with compassion and care and altruism.

[smashleyy]

Because one of the shitty things us as women like to do rather we’re conscious of it or not is putting ourselves in competition with other women

[MrOracle]

It's called "pre-election" - if you are with a woman, other women assume that you must have something decent going on. And many want what other women have.

That can actually be used to your advantage...