It happened to me a lot of times that I flirted with some women, I showed interest in them, they showed some interest in me, I asked them out, they accepted. And then during the date they told me they were in a relationship or they told me after the date. One woman didn't even tell me about it after I flirted with her and asked her out. She seemed to become reluctant at some point so I thought she changed her mind, only to find out from other people later that she had a boyfriend. How could I trust women when I have a relationship if this happened to me so many times? They didn't cheat, but they crossed some boundaries.
PS When it felt like it was the right moment to kiss a woman, she told me that her boyfriend recently broke up with her, but she wants another chance with him.
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You are obviously desired. you ought to ask one of them one time. Then you can move that knowledge into every other relationship.. What do your girl friends think?
You're obi lacking what their partners dont have...
I said that backwards lol
You HAVE what the bfs dont have
Or maybe he doesn't have what their partners lack having.
@Truthatanycost what?
Lol if the partners are abusive or neglectful OP could be reassuring and positive is what I'm saying
I know what you were saying ha.
Not necessarily. I probably bring to the table what their boyfriends don't bring to the table at that moment
They are probably not abusive and neglectful, otherwise those girls would leave them for me. I think their relationship might have become too boring and I bring some intensity and excitement into their lives.
Sometimes they get their physical needs met from one guy, and the emotional needs met from another...
@Truthatanycost true. So OP you sound like you already knew the answer to your question lol