Why do only women who are in relationships show interest in me?

[Anonymous]

It happened to me a lot of times that I flirted with some women, I showed interest in them, they showed some interest in me, I asked them out, they accepted. And then during the date they told me they were in a relationship or they told me after the date. One woman didn't even tell me about it after I flirted with her and asked her out. She seemed to become reluctant at some point so I thought she changed her mind, only to find out from other people later that she had a boyfriend. How could I trust women when I have a relationship if this happened to me so many times? They didn't cheat, but they crossed some boundaries.

PS When it felt like it was the right moment to kiss a woman, she told me that her boyfriend recently broke up with her, but she wants another chance with him.

[Guy13]

You are obviously desired. you ought to ask one of them one time. Then you can move that knowledge into every other relationship.. What do your girl friends think?

[HateyouxD]

You're obi lacking what their partners dont have...

[HateyouxD]

I said that backwards lol

[HateyouxD]

You HAVE what the bfs dont have

[Truthatanycost]

Or maybe he doesn't have what their partners lack having.

[HateyouxD]

@Truthatanycost what?
Lol if the partners are abusive or neglectful OP could be reassuring and positive is what I'm saying

[Truthatanycost]

I know what you were saying ha.

[Asker]

Not necessarily. I probably bring to the table what their boyfriends don't bring to the table at that moment

[Asker]

They are probably not abusive and neglectful, otherwise those girls would leave them for me. I think their relationship might have become too boring and I bring some intensity and excitement into their lives.

[Truthatanycost]

Sometimes they get their physical needs met from one guy, and the emotional needs met from another...

[HateyouxD]

@Truthatanycost true. So OP you sound like you already knew the answer to your question lol