He hasn't texted in 10 days. Should I give up?

[Anonymous]

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He texted me this morning.

[robertKugler]

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[Anonymous]

Initiate contact again. I know you want it to be him, but you have to show interest also. This doesn't "mean" anything necessarily on his part. He might simply not know what to say maybe? As far as "giving up", I wouldn't look at this specific thing, I'd look at your conversations over all. Does he seem interested otherwise? Like I say, this doesn't necessarily mean he's not interested. He might think because he hasn't heard from you either, that you aren't that interested in him? Yes it could be that he's not that interested, but it may not be either. Women seem to want guys to be the first to do everything, but the problem with that is it doesn't "show interest" on your part, and we need to see that also.

[Asker]

We've been seeing each other for quite some months now and I think he already knows I'm interested.

Maybe he is a pussy and couldn't say it to my face, so he just disappeard.

[Opinion Owner]

Just text him and say something like "hey, haven't heard from you in a while, how's it going?" See how he responds.

[Shadow_reaper]

Yes if it's been a week and nothing and if you've sent a text and he hasn't replied. Then that should be your sign.

[Asker]

I initiated the convo last time we talked, and he replied.

[saffoler]

Probably, unless he got really sick or someone died.

[Asker]

I'm sure neither has happened, but a few weeks ago he told me a lot of things have been going through his mind lately.

[horsenrhinounicorn]

You can resort to mailing him a letter or email. Depends if his phone is lost or damaged. See if his online accounts are active. It’s hard to tell what happened to him if he didn’t respond. If you know his friends have them check on him and make sure he is ok. Typically at this point, you should get ready to move on

[serious]

He hasn't texted you but you also didn't text him right?

[Asker]

I was the one who initiated contact the last time. And that was exactly a week ago.

[serious]

Since you initiated contact he never replied to you right?

That is disrespectful. Yes

[serious]

In that you should give up. He doesn’t seem to be interested.

[Asker]

No, he replied.

[serious]

Okay so what is your question then? What is your issue?

[Asker]

As I said, last time we talked was a week ago. (I initiated it, he replied)

But he hasn't initiated a conversation with me in 10 days.

[serious]

Yes so it is the same thing. He has lost interest.

[Bhavin2184]

Ask him the reason first if he is reason that indicates he has no interest than give up on him

[andreasderjuengere]

If all you have is texting - then you never had anything anyway.

[Theundisputed01]

So if all you do is text regardless of relationship or friendship you don’t really have anything?

[Asker]

I've been seeing him since last July. So, no. It's not just texting

[theCobbler]

Depends on the situation and variables unseen ! Is he still active on social media? If so, then its time to move on! If no, maybe he's busy or a major life situation ... text him and ask !

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. Learn, once your effort isn't being returned back then move on.

[1stranger]

Yeah, hasn't replied.
Well, do you love him?

[Asker]

I initiated contact a week ago and he replied. I like him, and we've been seeing each other for quite some time now.

[1stranger]

Very good. Well, what is the problem? Why did you ask this question?

[Asker]

Because he hasn't initiated contact in 10 days?

[1stranger]

I can't fully understand. But don't give up if you like him.

[Asker]

I meant the last time we talked was a week ago (When I initiated contact)

[Anonymous]

"He texted me this morning". Yeah 10 days later. Clearly he has no interest in you or cares about you.

[Girlygagger]

Did he reply but just not initiate? If he replied then it might be worth a shot.

[Asker]

Yes. Also the last few days he haven't been active in social media (which is very unlikely for him) But he has been online on Whatsapp once or twice. (For a few seconds)

[Girlygagger]

Just go for it you don’t know maybe he’s busy or got distracted. I have a friend like that who will sometimes initiate with me a lot but then get distracted for a while unless I initiate for a while.

[thisisausername9999]

if he's not dead then you should give up on him

[Thatsamazing]

Why haven't you texted him in 10 days.

[Asker]

I initiated the last conversation we had.

[Thatsamazing]

So what? Have you texted him in ten days? If you want to text him, text him.

[Cryptic-Game]

Yes. You ought to give up.

[ecfresh]

Yes.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Yes, you should.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Probably

[Gwenhwyfar]

Good 😊

[Drumlin2001]

Yep.

[dudeinohio]

yes you should

[COMMODOREII]

I would.

[Smirnoff23]

Yes.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Just give up!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Beg for your life. It's good for both of us