Potential problem with wearing shoe lifts while dating?

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'6" Asian, too short, but with lifts I'm almost 5'8" which is ideal height.

The idea is to get girls to like me at first sight and by the time we are on bed they no longer care that I suddenly shrink 2".

However in theory it can be dangerous if the girl is about 5'8 too and she is same height as me when on lifts but taller than me when barefoot.

I personally have not been in such position. But it has been my nightmare because sooner or later the time will come.

[ciitruskiwi]

Just date a girl who likes you for you. And yes there is a chance they will care that you shurnk. I would not because you 5'6 but because you felt the need to lie about such a trivial things and if you're lying that early into the relationship about things that don't matter and aren't important then what else are you willing to about?

[ciitruskiwi]

I would care not because you're 5'6*

[Asker]

Who said anything about relationship?

[ciitruskiwi]

Well I definitely wouldn't sleep with a liar either. Who the fuck lies about something so trivial? The second you shrink 2 inches is the second I'm off that bed and out that door. I'm 5'4 so a guy being 5'6 is fine with me, a guy lying about his height is a no.

[Asker]

I've been with a couple. Most around my height. No one was off the bed so far.

[ciitruskiwi]

Well some girls like liars I guess

[Asker]

Not at all. They probably just either didn't notice it or not care so much. Lifts or not, I would still shrink because everyone wear shoes outside. The problem is with lifts you shrink an inch more than normally.

[Anonymous]

It could be uncomfortable for you, and disappointing for your potential partner.

[Asker]

It is certainly uncomfortable for me without the lifts.

[Asker]

And I didn't say anything about potential partner.

[Opinion Owner]

You did mention dating, unless you mean going on a date with yourself?

[Asker]

dating doesn't mean partner. could be just zero night stand.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you need a partner to have sex otherwise it's just masturbation. Don't get caught up with the technicalities of the word.

But if your goal is simply to get them into bed then you shouldn't have a problem. Maybe you have the looks or the dick to compensate for the mini lie

[Asker]

Yes, that's right. Well definitely not dick :(

[MiamiMadness]

Don't do it bromosexual, lying about stuff like that just back fires eventually and it's hard to keep up so find one who doesn't care, there's plenty out there

[Asker]

just shut up

[MiamiMadness]

Being an asshole gets you nowhere

[Asker]

No, but being taller and better looking gets me somewhere.