Would You Date A Girl Stronger Than Yourself?

Question

I've heard pretty strong arguments for and against the idea... Could you date a girl who could easily overpower you? Please explain your answer...

crazyboy313 · Accepted Answer

Before actually answering this, we have to check on how guys think and react to situations. In this specific topic I would like to bring up that most guys (even me!😅) can have a very big ego, in other words: they think that they are the best at everything and will do everything they can to make others think that to. Now if we take in account that if a guy sees that a girl is stronger than him, he will most probably consider the girl as a threat to his social status, but it is almost only unintentional and instinctive. Now that we know this, it could be easy to say that it is not very probable that the guy ends up dating such a girl, but we also need to take in account that the physic is not every thing, and that personality and behavior of the girl is very important! And it might also happen that the guy see this as a challenge and want to go out with her even more. But who knows? There are a lot more of factors that need to be taken in account to make an oppinion on this and a few psychological studies would help!😂 Anyways, all this to say; I might not be against dating a girl stronger than me, but it will deppend on who she is!😉

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

First of all yes. I have dated women who were bigger than me weight wise. She was 200 pounds and I was 135. Pounding her and making her cum with whimpers is definitely an ego boost of arousal.

With that said... women are stronger than men. The hold grown people in their bellies for 9 months and then push them out of their 3 inch vagina. I dont know anything stronger than that.

ariadneR · Accepted Answer

I am a ft shorter than my boyfriend and 130lbs give or take lighter than my boyfriend, there is no way that I could take him. Unless he let's me of course
But I dont think I could date someone that was weaker than me, I know that sounds shallow, but if you can't open a jar for me, what happens to my needs

Neugier · Accepted Answer

If he isn't stronger than me he is likely unhealthy or too young, so it's better, if he is stronger than me. I neither like big muscles (because I would be a bit scared) nor small muscles (because of health and fitness). Having average strength is best here👌

bookday · Answer

A girl who is stronger than me? Yeah why not?

I mean, I don't want to stay in a world where guys must be stronger than girls. Ladies, you guys do much more than what guys can. I mean, you guys are able to give birth. That on its own is something. The strength to push a baby out of your womb. We, guys, will never understand, let alone go through that.
Next thing, physical strength. Measured by how heavy a person can lift? I understand that men are stronger in this sense but women can be too. I don't mind.
Agility. It's a 50-50 split on this though. But who really cares?

The main thing that "Guys are stronger than girls" is bullshit, to say the least. I couldn't care less. I'd say in terms of strength, it's an even 50-50 split.

Then again, this is just my opinion.

JKingOff · Answer

Sure! As long as she was gentle with me, lol. Just as much as most women don't have enough strength to physically contend with their male partners we men understand that and thus use a gentler approach whenever we interact with them. I honestly don't really care if my partner is stronger than me or not. How you use the strength is what determines whether or not your partner will stick around. To be completely honest I actually prefer strong partners. It makes my life a lot easier because I don't have to work twice as hard to protect someone who can't defend themselves. On the other hand if there are two fully functional, and physically capable adults defending the family as opposed to one things will go a lot easier. Plus it also means that I can do other things with her as well. Hunting, martial arts, plus I would finally be able to find someone who can spot me lifting weights.

Edson · Answer

Yeah, most girls instictly go for strong guys because it's natural for the male to be the protector and if a girl likes me knowing she's stronger then it must be because she likes me for more significant wholesome reasons which would probably feel nice, to be in such a deep relationship.

indfit297 · Answer

Well yes, strong girls are incredibly tough and sexy according to me. I really love strong women. They don't necessarily have to look muscular, the fact that the strength is there is enough. I have a lot of respect and see some strong women's workout pics and videos because it's usually more difficult for them to gain muscle and strength. Being into abs/belly punching, I really love the idea of having a challenge with a strong woman. I don't mean to sound weird but I'd love to touch and feel a strong woman's muscles and work out with her. And in short, yes I surely won't mind dating a stronger woman. :D

longlicker6969 · Answer

Depends on what your definition of stronger is. Decisive, intelligent, goal driven women can be incredibly sexy and definitely partners for the long haul. Watch the updated "Stepford Wives" with Nicole Kidman and Matthew Broderick if you need to know why. I married one, so I definitely know what I'm talking about.

MuffinBoi · Answer

I wouldn't mind, sure. But if we were to fight, I've got the legs. Oh yes, that's right, my legs can very easily allow me to... ... run away faster than you pushed the "Continue Reading" button.

Jjpayne · Answer

I'd totally do it, simply because she would feel more comfortable around me as she has control. But I'm also not opposed to having her be the strong one. But I'd say that I'd like to join her, if she is passionate about health, to work on getting to be fit like her

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

When i started the dating phase, i met a girl, taller than me, more buff and she took me down like it was nothing in arm wrestling, she played some basket but her jump shots were 👎. So! She was taller, stronger than i am but she couldn't accept the idea of me being shorter than she is.

Anonymous · Answer

women don't need to overpower you with brute force. they can attack you in every way even physically and watch you become a laughing stock who can't defend himself because courts are biased toward women and all domestic violence shelters in the US except for one don't accept men, despite the fact that women initiate the majority of reciprocated domestic violence and most unreciprocated domestic violence is perpetrated by women. so if they're physically stronger than you it makes no difference. they're still more powerful in the law

Makeushiver · Answer

Unless I thought that we were going to have an unfriendly encounter. I dated a 6'6" female basketball player. I'm sure she was stronger- it worked well in bed and seemed to give her confidence since she made it clear from 1st encounter that we were going to end up between the sheets that night- she was right. Also dated an Olympic gymnast she may not have been stronger but amazing flexibility- which can be pretty amazing sexually

Grond21 · Answer

I don't have any problems dating someone who is stronger than me. Although, I don't like the jacked woman look. So if that was part of the package, that I wouldn't be interested. Other than that, more power to her. If she wants to work out a lot and get stronger to me, no problem

worldscolide · Answer

Considering for a woman to be stronger than me she would have to look like the following image, there is absolutely no way i would date a woman that is stronger than me (bench press 350, and leg press 1600 pounds.

Aaron80 · Answer

Physically, yes... would give me extra drive to push myself harder, and might get both of us even stronger... however with proper technique, having physical strength to overpower someone can become the weakness if properly trained... mentally, yes I would love being challenged in ways that create a thirst for knowledge... it's the one thing that cannot be taken from you once earned. If she uses the power for good bonus!

nawtee_me · Answer

Absolutely, I am okay with who I am and if a girl is stronger than me I am okay with that too. Dating and feelings are not about a persons strength but about how comfortable they are with themselves and one another. Hell, if she kicks my butt I may like it... ;) and may need it from time to time also... Keep me in line... lol

Freddy78361 · Answer

Yes but not without qualification. Most strong women have muscular bodies with low body fat. I find that attractive. Strength also comes from a disciplined workout routine so she has a focused mind and priorities. I admire that.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah... I don’t get why some dudes hate a woman being stronger than them. Like, is your ego that fragile or something? I remember in high school I had the biggest crush on a really muscular girl that was and probably still is stronger than me. I never said anything because I knew my friends would bully me about it, but looking back; I wish I would of at least talked to her.

berserk945 · Answer

I like the idea of her being able to handle herself, because the reality of life is I can't always be able to be there. So if she can solve the problem herself I like that, however i always will feel the need to be equal in strength or more so just because I'm a guy.

Jam321 · Answer

I would love to date a girl stronger than me. But that does'nt mean that she would hurt or humiliate me in a releationship. If she love me and take care of me then i would love to date her.

Mellontikos · Answer

No, but I can bench 315lbs for reps. Very few women are going to be able to match that, so I have no worries there.

laurieluvsit · Answer

YES!!  OMG!!!

thisisausername9999 · Answer

I dont see how a women can be stronger than me unless she lifts some serious weights, so honestly I don't know. I feel like being that strong may alter her appearance but I have no knowledge on this topic so i might have no idea what im talking about

Anonymous · Answer

Lol, most guys are turned on by strong girls like Ronda Rousey, Paige VanZant, Michelle Waterson, Gina Carano, that's why I think they would date a stronger girl, lots of guys secretly like being dominated by women ;)

Ericalovescats · Answer

I'm bi curious so yes lol :)  Although guys might have an issue with it if they're athletic but if they're nerdy probably not.

seanras · Answer

It's pretty uncommon.  But in the dating scene I see there are more guys okay with it (as long as they find her hot) than there are girls who'd be okay with a boyfriend who is physically weaker.

DiegoO · Answer

If she shows signs of been an abusive person, no. The ultimate weapon is the mind. Don't fear someone stronger than you, fear the mind of who always have the will to harm your physical/or/and mental integrity.

QuestionMark19 · Answer

Yes, I'm not really sure why. I find many different body types attractive. So her being physically stronger than me isn't really an issue.

jearm · Answer

For me that situation simply wouldn't happen. Not many men in this world can overpower me let alone women.

DevikaButts95 · Answer

Hell yea. I tend to be with guy's who are already weaker than me too. Lmao.

WhistleForTheChoir · Answer

I wouldn't date anyone, but I wouldn't see a woman as somehow less attractive for being stronger than me. That would be pretty impressive actually, as I'm quite strong.

HonestWeirdo · Answer

yes. I wouldn't have a prob with it. I have no macho pride. every woman I have dated has stronger legs than me. I am also ok if I lose a game of pool to a woman. it makes me laugh how it annoys guys so much.

Geminiheart69 · Answer

Great question.. I've always wanted to mess around with one c how that goes, but am a pretty strong guy not ripped but chubby husky strong. I haven't met a lady that can match me in strength yet 😭 to go a round or two.

BuckWild · Answer

It is it advisable to date a woman that cannot best you in a fair fight.

YHL6965 · Answer

Yes because, if strength ever becomes a factor in a romantic relationship, I would probably be long gone. Besides, it can have its perks, in bed for example.

OpenWine · Answer

right now any girl can be stronger than me, I sit at home a lot since things are closed.. I have no issues with that, in fact a sporty female is better than a fat one

Quidthonian · Answer

Yes I would. I would trust her not to over-power me. However, I think she would come in "useful" when some muscle is needed. Or when I would need someone beaten up.

zagor · Answer

Yes, I wouldn't have a problem with that. I once met a girl built like a NFL tight end who was beautiful. There are a couple girls I've met who are about 6'5 who were pretty hot.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I dont think I can I'm 6'5 270 pounds I work out regularly she'd have to be super huge and hella muscular to accomplish that she'd be manly asf so I'd have to say no to that

Shyguy206 · Answer

Oh my god yes. The fact she can do things independently and is strong enough is hot. Im dating a girl who is able to lift me up and down like a dumbbell and I literally wanted to fucking rip her clothes off and pin her to a wall. Idgaf if it's not "lady like". It's not bad having a girl who can do as much as you can. 😍

gemgem · Answer

Sure. She can protect me when we’re out late at night.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

She would have to be a superfreak to be stronger than me. I probably wouldn;t be interested unless she was hella feminine

Knuxx · Answer

Sure. After time in the military it wasn't hard to learn that strategy and technique. So even if I can be overpowered I can still finesse a situation.

Zweihander · Answer

Don't see how strong girls are a turn-off to so many people

MadGent · Answer

Absolutely, it shows that they can commit to something as hard as working out and dieting or that they care about themselves. For me, I really don't care, as long as the muscles aren't pro weightlifter level, I think we're good.

nodnol32 · Answer

I definitely would! I love it when a girl is physically stronger.

datgirl · Answer

i wouldn't date a guy weaker than me. I like strong men

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Yeah why not? Curvy athletic women are usually hot.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, it's cool for a girl to be stronger than a guy

KatherineJ · Answer

No because I wouldn’t date a girl! Too much drama! 🤣

clampfan101 · Answer

If still looked feminine, muscles are often hot. Police ladies, firefighters, and athletes all include hot women.

Anonymous · Answer

I have never encountered a girl stronger than me in real life. If I did I would consider it but she wouldn't look very feminine

Massageman · Answer

Sure. I need SOMEone to move the patio stones in the yard.

CharlieDMX · Answer

Definitely. Thinking that the man should be the strongest one is a retrograde way of thinking in my opinion

Johnnyready · Answer

I never like the violence, and also I am a competitive man so I will try to be strong than my date, and also I can pay hard, or gently up to her.

ali92ka · Answer

So funny 😂 As long we are not going to fight there is no reason to refrain from dating.. if we fight I must to be faster running 😂😂😂

Tonystark0 · Answer

But off course there are many benefits she can chop wood Carri me training me maybe change my oil or my brakes And the sexxx would be amazing!!👅🔥😍

robocop666 · Answer

Yup a tank from the LFL is my first choice e

Surely · Answer

I guess you would be more careful to not piss her off!

WalkingCorpse · Answer

Sure but she better carry me on wedding day cuz i ain't walking

Iron_Man · Answer

That would be insane eventually we would have to end up putting the gloves on

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

i'd be scared... she could decide to just TAKE... my virginity at any time... Q w Q

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