This one is for girls who are 178cm (5'10 or taller). How tough has your dating life or love life been as a tall woman?

[Anonymous]

What challenges have you faced? Have you managed to overcome them? Are you only looking for taller guys or are you open minded and able to look past height differences? I would love to know since I'm 177 cm tall and I am open to dating taller girls than me and even if she wears heels it will not bother me.

[KitKnickKat]

I’m exactly 5’10!
I’ll be honest, I’ve tried dating guys shorter than me but I couldn’t do it unfortunately. Now that’s just me, but even if a guy is my height or an inch taller I’m happy with that! My current boyfriend is 5’11

[Asker]

Do you wear heels when you're out with him?

[KitKnickKat]

i try not to, but if i want to he doesn’t mind haha

[Asker]

Thats good. Im assuming the heels are more than one inch and for that evening you are taller than him :p

[Petra150]

So it's all in your mind, but don't you take your own insecurity out at then shorter guys even though they 9/10 time do give fucking shit about our height, as I'd experienced most guy really love me takker than them and found me a treasure to them

[KitKnickKat]

yeah! i’m only taller than him for a bit😊 plus since im already tall i hate wearing heels 😂

[Petra150]

Don't know if you'd read other of my comments and questions in here , most of them is exactly about this issue. Tall women and shorter guys as I think it's one of ALL times great Taboo's somthing very much written about, but IRL people seldom mentioned bit, and hold it for themselves, by the simple fact we are embarrassed by our preference and too men are ekstremt scared to admit there deep sexual attraction of us tall girls, as everyone have gotten this false impression a guy is tall and bigger than us, ands guy isn't manly enough if his shorter than us... try to imagine what problem that give everyone who are attached to me... I'm 204 cm tall and love to se my height as a goods gift rather than a curse from Satan. And I'm very good looking too... my hubby gone through hell for me, and he's only 181 cm tall , he'd given me two wonderful girls 9 & 5 year's old. For him and every other guys shorter than girls they are attracted to I'll Rio out my 💓 to bring my history and hope girls will change their attitudes and most of all there fight inside themselves about how they perceive themselves among others. I hope so much we could message each other , you seems to have a good mindset and we are both tall and know how society is

[Asker]

Very beautifully written @Petra150, your opinions and replies to opinions have been like a breath of fresh air. Its not only your height which if a gift from God, but you as a person are a gift from God. We need more people like you who have a heart of gold in this harsh world. Stay blessed.

[Petra150]

Height can never be a gift from good, it's rather a curse for other, guess you men must feel horrible seeing all then tall guys get looked upon as stars just because us girls ( well some anyway) treat all men shorter than themselves as shit, while a tall guy can be a child abuser or a mass muder and look like shit, and still be put on a throne as a gud, due to some few cm.

[KitKnickKat]

@Petra150 that was very well written i agree! thank you for your input😊💕 it’s nice having different perspectives on such a common issue

[angeliquedevereux2]

I'm 5'8 but I'm still gonna answer 😅
Shit. I've been told the line 'too tall' a million times. All my friends are shorter than me. The tallest guy i've been with is 6'3, but now im with someone 5'6 👌

[Asker]

Do you wear heels when out with your boyfriend?

[angeliquedevereux2]

Nooo. I hate heels in general

[laura_meliaxx]

It doesn’t bother me as long as it doesn’t bother you. Most guys I’ve been have been shorter than me, no more than probably about 2-3 inches. I don’t mind about wearing heels with a guy that’s already shorter or the same height as me :)

im 179cm / 5.10.4”

What do you like about tall girls?

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. I just fell for my girlfriend and she just happens to be taller than me. It doesn't bother us and she even wears heels. she's the happiest she's ever been. I wouldn't change a thing about her. This question was posted before me and her started dating.

[laura_meliaxx]

Does it bother you in the bedroom that she’s taller than you? I don’t think most Guys/girls really care when it comes to it or if they find you attractive.

[Asker]

It doesn't bother me one bit. I have played a part in helping her overcome the insecurities she had about her height. Me being the shorter one doesn't bother her either. We're able to look past the height difference and focus on the bigger picture and are happy with what we have.

[bigmisssunshine]

It was easy. Most girls in my country are around 1.75m tall.

[Asker]

Oh wow. Where are you from?

[bigmisssunshine]

The Netherlands. Most guys are 1.80 or taller. My partner is 1.96

[Asker]

Oh alright. Makes sense now. The Dutch are known for being amongst the tallest people in the world. I'm 177cm and my girlfriend is 188cm and she loves her heels but getting them in her size is a problem.

[bigmisssunshine]

Yeah true. I once dated a smaller guy (he was adopted from Haiti - 1.65 or so) and I felt like a giant. I thought height wouldn’t be an important factor but it was. I don’t wear heels so that isn’t important for me

[Asker]

Yea, seems like height is somewhat important to everyone. She initially rejected me. She said she's too tall for me but after a couple weeks she said she'd rather be with the right one than find a taller man and we're happy together now.

[bigmisssunshine]

That’s great 😊

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. Hope you're having a lovely weekend :)

[bigmisssunshine]

You’re welcome! Wish you the same 😊

[JosyJosy]

Not tough at all. The problem was more that I couldn't catch feelings for some reason, while they did. That was the tough part, my height didn't have anything to do with it

[311WasAnInsideJam]

I'm an intimidating presence, physically. Kinda offputting when you're flirting with a girl who's 5'4.