Girls, What is the most important quality you look for a man, when considering a long term relationship?

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You can name a few if you want. Whats the most important things you look for when dating or looking for a romantic companion? :)

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

I look at his mannerism. How polite is he. Is he spitting f bumbs or is he offering to open a door for someone
Does he show some reserve
I come by with a low cut pushed up top does he say "you look nice today" or do I get the 🐺 whistle followed by a "damn!"
How does he treat others
If someone makes a mistake does he say "its all right it happens" or does he say "whats the matter with you are you stupid?"
How romantic is he
When picking me up does he get out of the car and opens the car door and gently shuts it when im inside or does he remain seated and when I get in asks "what took you so long?"
Men Chivery shouldn't be dead. It needs to be up and running.

modelUN242 · Accepted Answer

Showing that he has flaws instead of trying to be a perfectionist, after all, we're all human.  Kind and empathetic to children, elderly, respectful of authority figures.  Resilient and gives good advice, likes to guide not control. Prefer someone who's not very extroverted or talkative, like reserved people, saying few words.  Good listener and is able to criticize and take criticism well, not personally.  Believe that the world is not a bad place, but not very sunshine and rainbows, I like more of a realistic, serious person but also funny.

bobalife · Answer

A genuine good-heart with morals, a good connection/compatibility, liking me for me and vice versa, stability in different forms, and makes me feel like I am the most special girl in the world (romantic)~
Respectful towards me and others, gentleman by his lady, and makes me laugh are also really important too :)
That bestfriend & romantic type of relationship~

thegirlfromthething · Answer

The most important thing is that we have compatible life goals and lifestyles. A long-term relationship won’t work if we don’t agree on things like where to live, what kind of family/relationship we want, and how to spend our time.

Unesjomajo · Answer

Emotional intelligence/Empathy manners respectful familyorientated trustworthy Affectionate more on the reserved quite and serious side but still funny

Starlight_Whimsy · Answer

I used to say Intelligence, but that intelligence won’t mean jack without drive/motivation.

keyboardsmash · Answer

Honestly, just trust and generally good at communicating. Someone who isn't a muscle head "I'm masculine so I'm obviously the best man around" is so a plus

Anonymous · Answer

That he must be an introvert, doesn't   use social media and doesn't like to talk to other women except me, his mom and sis.

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