Girls, What is the most important quality you look for a man, when considering a long term relationship?

[_SOARER]

You can name a few if you want. Whats the most important things you look for when dating or looking for a romantic companion? :)

[meetkitty123]

I look at his mannerism. How polite is he. Is he spitting f bumbs or is he offering to open a door for someone
Does he show some reserve
I come by with a low cut pushed up top does he say "you look nice today" or do I get the 🐺 whistle followed by a "damn!"
How does he treat others
If someone makes a mistake does he say "its all right it happens" or does he say "whats the matter with you are you stupid?"
How romantic is he
When picking me up does he get out of the car and opens the car door and gently shuts it when im inside or does he remain seated and when I get in asks "what took you so long?"
Men Chivery shouldn't be dead. It needs to be up and running.

[_SOARER]

That's very sweet tbh
I used to be chivalrous but a lot of people dont like it nowadays

[meetkitty123]

🙄 they just find it different and put a guard up to make certain its not fake... Too many conners out there but im sure the more they got to know the person and see its not a front they certainly would love a chivalrous personality
Its like the warning of if something sounds too good... They are just making sure its not a sham before admitting to liking it

It's actually smart I do it too shouldn't let a new sweet smile make you careless

[_SOARER]

:/ Haha this is why guys are confused
If they are chivalrous girls think its "Fake" or something, so when we stop acting chivalrous its "he's not a gentlemen" haha :)
Its a balancing act I guess

[meetkitty123]

Yes lol
We want it
But we need to be sure we ain't being conned or played
No one likes to be lied too
We live in a world where "give benefit of the doubt" can no longer be applied trust has to be earned

[_SOARER]

I will keep being macho forever haha :)
So at least everyone around me knows its genuine, hopefully my future girlfriend will see that too <3

[meetkitty123]

Lol MACHO man doesn't need to mean not having a heart... In fact quite a few MACHOS have big hearts
Macho
could simply mean tough brave protector
And a Macho doesn't have to mean rude or lacking in manners...
There can be good MACHOS
Or there can be jerk machos
A MACHO on the outside a gentleman in the inside best way to go... She'll see it

[_SOARER]

I am mexican, so being macho is about being a gentleman :) But also being a traditional man <3

[meetkitty123]

machismo bueno y puro 😉
Los latinos presente!

[_SOARER]

¡Guauu! mi gente <3

[meetkitty123]

thanks for the mho

[modelUN242]

• Showing that he has flaws instead of trying to be a perfectionist, after all, we're all human.
• Kind and empathetic to children, elderly, respectful of authority figures.
• Resilient and gives good advice, likes to guide not control.
• Prefer someone who's not very extroverted or talkative, like reserved people, saying few words.
• Good listener and is able to criticize and take criticism well, not personally.
• Believe that the world is not a bad place, but not very sunshine and rainbows, I like more of a realistic, serious person but also funny.

[_SOARER]

That's one hell of a list!

[bobalife]

A genuine good-heart with morals, a good connection/compatibility, liking me for me and vice versa, stability in different forms, and makes me feel like I am the most special girl in the world (romantic)~
Respectful towards me and others, gentleman by his lady, and makes me laugh are also really important too :)
That bestfriend & romantic type of relationship~

[bobalife]

P. s. definitely someone who is willingly to grow and wanna grow with me is key.

[_SOARER]

I agree on that last part! Its amazing when you feel all the different kinds of love for one person <3
When you love them as a friend, as a romantic partner, and hopefully one day as a family (wife) <3

[thegirlfromthething]

The most important thing is that we have compatible life goals and lifestyles. A long-term relationship won’t work if we don’t agree on things like where to live, what kind of family/relationship we want, and how to spend our time.

[_SOARER]

I agree with you. Having a similar vision, is essential for a long term relationship.
If one person doesn't want kids, and the other does, those are big compromises long term :/

Thanks for answering! <3 :)

[Unesjomajo]

Emotional intelligence/Empathy
manners
respectful
familyorientated
trustworthy
Affectionate
more on the reserved quite and serious side but still funny

[_SOARER]

A lot of women here are saying that want a reserved man haha
Maybe I should work on that! :)
Thank you for answering!

[Starlight_Whimsy]

I used to say Intelligence, but that intelligence won’t mean jack without drive/motivation.

[_SOARER]

Yeah men need to have some ambition in their life! Thanks for answering

[keyboardsmash]

Honestly, just trust and generally good at communicating. Someone who isn't a muscle head "I'm masculine so I'm obviously the best man around" is so a plus

[_SOARER]

Communication is fundamental :)
I might have to work a little bit on the 2nd part :p haha
thank you for answering!

[Anonymous]

That he must be an introvert, doesn't
use social media and doesn't like to talk to other women except me, his mom and sis.

[_SOARER]

So you want a reserved family focused man! Those are good qualities for sure. They allow for stability! thanks for answering honestly :) <3

[Opinion Owner]

Haha, thanks for the great question. I liked your question and you can see who I am, right?

[_SOARER]

It just shows me someone liked it but not who haha
I don't know who you are :/ <3

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha, I think cos I am anon.

[_SOARER]

Yes I think thats why too! :)