What do men look for in a woman for a long term relationship?

[Anonymous]

[TheSpaceGnome]

She has to be an artist, a gamer, scientifically minded, atheistic, silly, hyper, fun, sweet, confident in her skills, joyful, cute af, polite, loyal and monogamous, and doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, and doesn't do any other drugs, and likes sci-fi, fantasy, animals, cosplay, cartoons/anime, collecting geeky stuff like action figures and model kits, and is lewd in the sheets and modest in public.

[HitsyHonesty]

Oddly specific and oddly similar@

[TheSpaceGnome]

@HitsyHonesty Similar to you? It's specific because I basically described the female version of myself (I want the kind of relationship where me and a wife are best friends and business partners who do everything together, so likemindedness is very important).

[Anonymous]

Kind hearted, loving, affectionate, nurturing, generous, likes kids, respects men, feminine in looks and character, loyal, low body count, healthy views of sex and relationships. And obviously, she is not a feminist.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Nailed it

[DudeDiligence]

Yeah this.

[AnusNdaPainus]

You forgot obedience

[DudeDiligence]

@AnusNdaPainus Nope, didn't forget it.

[DudeDiligence]

Most guys don't want an "obedient" woman.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@DudeDiligence because who doesn’t love to argue🙄
You sound like a doofus

[BourbonAndBacon]

@AnusNdaPainus You think "Kind hearted, loving, affectionate, nurturing, generous, likes kids, respects men, feminine in looks and character, loyal, low body count, healthy views of sex and relationships. And obviously, she is not a feminist" argues?
You sound like a doofus

[AnusNdaPainus]

@BourbonAndBacon yes because if she is uncooperative none of that matters

[AnusNdaPainus]

@BourbonAndBacon you sound fearful of your roles as a man

Women desire leadership

[BourbonAndBacon]

@AnusNdaPainus If you argue with a woman like that then its safe to say that you're the problem. Because I've got a woman like that and its Heaven.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@BourbonAndBacon that means you agree

[Opinion Owner]

@AnusNdaPainus Your solution to not liking arguments is having an "obedient" woman? You sound like a real piece of work.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Who wants a combative argumentative woman?

[Opinion Owner]

@AnusNdaPainus Do you think all women are either "obedient" or combative argumentative? Dude, you obviously don't have much expereince with women.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Do you think all women are cut out for marriage?

You obviously don’t have any experience with laws of nature

[Finchie40]

A loyal caring good heart girl with morals that understands what it means to be in a relationship a girl that knows how to remove selfishness and knows how to resist temptation’s. A girl that makes her man her number 1 priority that brings happiness into his like , not misery

[ronaldo75]

This is the question most men start to ask themselves as we get older. "If I do the right thing by this woman, will I be able to live in peace?". If the answer is no, or if the women says something like "what if you think you're doing right by me and you're not?"... Then leave. Run. Have sex then run away from her.

[Anonymous]

Stop blaming your agoraphobia on an entire gender. Grow a skin and get a life. You'll be happier, and the world will be a better place without one more bitter woman.

[Opinion Owner]

Yikes, sorry, I somehome posted this in the wrong questrion.

[Fireguy17]

Her personality, sense of humor, things in common/shared interests, trust, being a friend, how they treat others and a big one for me because of my work schedules being independent.
I'm gone a lot and can't be there to hold her hand all the time.

[ProbablyClueless]

Emotionally supportive, respectful, adventurous, hardworking, honest, peaceful to be around.

A bonus point if you are socially intelligent. The number of women who lack basic social intelligence is stunning.

[Unknown8264]

What do u mean social intelligence?

[ProbablyClueless]

@Unknown8264 Picking up on social cues, knowing how to phrase things without being abrasive, knowing when and how you should express opinions; that kind of thing.

[maroon_eyez]

Loyalty, caring and loving, supportive, open minded and adventurous, common interests, fun with a nice personality, good looking without being a top model..

[DarkWinterNights]

I don’t really date women I don’t see a future with. But I start considering a woman for LTR if we have similar values & beliefs, if she’s loyal, and demonstrates responsibility.

[exitseven]

I want somebody that shares my values, has a similar background, is loyal and has some ambitions. Also being physically fit and good in bed.

[MaxiMad]

A woman who knows what’s right and what’s wrong.

A women that knows that loyalty comes standard in a relationship It’s not a gift or a bonus.

[BigDog1989]

Lots of things but

Ultimately, it's going to come down to literally two things

If they want marriage
If they want kids

If you want either or, why stay with them, if they dont?

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Sane.

Mellow.

Brings peace into my life.

Shares a similar worldview and priorities.

At least attractive enough that sex is easy.

[FellowTraveler]

Mutual respect, compassion and compromise - all with a healthy dose of mental stability!

[MaxUsefull]

a woman of good character and low body count

[Pacquet]

Personally I look for self awareness and a growth mindset.

[Anonymous]

Effort. If she doesn't put for any effort in the early going it's not going to get any better as you go along.

[Pohjolan]

Someone I could trust with the house, kids and dog while I'm away.

[BLP11520]

Personality, smarts, humor. Decent looks. Similar beliefs. Honesty.

[sheikalana]

Someone who's caring, maternal, easy going.

[Slim57]

Loyalty, communication, compassion, nurturing, similar hobbies

[Jmmmfi4]

A NON-SLUT PREFERABLY

[DextroShade]

If she won't submit I won't commit.

[Sasha0426]

You looking for a side chick now?

[DextroShade]

@Sasha0426 no, my wife submitted so I committed.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Fit

Feminine

cooperative

[Bitterness]

Beauty mostly.

[enterr10]

Loyalty and kind hearted personality.

[you_asked]

Do bj’s slowly decrease over the years

[dolemite58]

sincerity, faithfulness, good morals

[slatyb]

A brain.

[Jamie05rhs]

Purity

[msc545]

Sanity helps

[Anonymous]

Loyalty and trust

[Anonymous]

a vaginahole