What do women look for in a man?

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tell me tell me no one talks about it. There's so much con information. What is the truth? The truth shall set us free!!!

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Just keep in mind that if you actually became/tried to be everything women say they want you would then be rejected by them because you're acting too much like a woman. Or they would pretend to be into you - which could be true on some level - but they're not into you as much as the guy who shows up and knows who he is & didn't need/want to ask women how he should be.

Better to decide who you are and then find someone who accepts you.

Check out my mytakes if you want more ideas from a traditional minded guy's POV.

elew4too · Accepted Answer

Women want a confident man. What “confidence” means from woman to woman varies. What a “man” is from woman to woman varies too. I know that answer is unsatisfactory, but women are too diverse to make a blanket statement of how they like their confident men.

Now, I have no idea why (of all the personality traits available) women seem to value confidence above the rest of them. Has never made sense to me, but almost all men like boobs and no one knows why either; so I imagine it’s like that

Assi2k · Accepted Answer

Can’t speak for other women but me, I want…

1. Madly in loves with me/ finds me cute
2. Similar values
3. Traditional masculine (independent, leader, strong, breadwinner, handy, protective, compassionate, good with kids)
4. Handsome, tall, fit, good style, hygienic
5. Playful, introspective, intelligent, patient.
6. And most importantly, wants to be married until death due us part! with 4+ babies and a puppy and a kitty.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Hypnotic eyes like the ones in your pic. Lol but anyways i like a goofy (not sarcastic) sense of humor, a respectful manner thats occasionally accompanied by a dirty mind (but not so much of sexual expectations), a great talker and listener, a sweet humble soul, a courageous nurturing nature, a pure heart, and a determined mindset. Hopefully he has a cute face, doesn't smoke, hardly drinks, is close in age, and believes in God.

Emiliamazing · Answer

Someone to evolve with. Someone who shares similar interests. When you date or marry, someone, your life changes and you change. You need somebody who can adapt to that change with you. You can care for and love another person, but if you can't evolve together, it will be a challenge.

Ligerzzero · Answer

All they want is money, and he has to be extremely attractive.

They don’t care about honesty and all that other crap that’s been said in the comments.

There are tons of men that these women say they are looking for, but because they are average looking and make an income, but these men still get turned down

dynamicyandere · Answer

For what women respond to emotionally or subconsciously, I’d say strong chemistry and natural energetic raw attraction.

As for a universally desired trait: confidence.

And pretty universal, though there are some exceptions: a man that has his sh*t together.

And then everything else really varies from woman to woman.

Some women may priority this quality or that more quality, etc.

begum01 · Answer

I believe most of the girls want to be with a kind man; so even though the definition of physical attractiveness alter girl to girl, kindness and tenderness is important.

Sour-rose · Answer

Paitence, a spine, a small d- And usually able to make money on their own. Don't need a leech

roryglimore · Answer

Personality is the most important thing in a man. A woman can't love a man who treats her like shit. They should be considerate even by the tiniest favors and kind acts! I would also add men who are great with people around them

SphynxUK · Answer

If I wanted a relationship, I look for good communication, intelligence and humour. Of course they need to be attractive to me, unless they are the rare ‘grower’ type that starts looking more attractive the more I get to know them.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Honesty, loyalty, hardworking, caring, respectful, mature, strong, confident, goal oriented, handsome, good hygiene, nice style, in good shape also, it’s a bonus if he’s hot.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

The truth is that we mostly look for a decent human being we can spend our lives with without getting tired of it. That's the basics. What makes a decent person, is mostly the same too for all of us.

DesiUwU · Answer

humor and the ability to feed me, as well as loyalty and a LITTLE bit of competence, i don't want much.

Anonymous · Answer

Caring, attentive, good/regular communication, likes passionate sex (not into rough), honest, and smells good.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

This site is full of clueless dudes. Seriously look at most answers we have here so far! It's embarrassing!

OleCat · Answer

What is desired in a man is steadfast love, and a poor man is better than a liar. Many men claim to be of steadfast love but a man of steadfast love who can find?

katestar89 · Answer

I think that a man will be a handsome. Kind. Sweet. funny. very thoughtful man

Anonymous · Answer

Someone who has everything I need rather than the things I want… the things I want are happy additives and the relationship ends up perfect

dolemite89 · Answer

confidence, status/money, good looks, good in bed, funny etc.

Sasha0426 · Answer

Honestly, nothing. I just want to be alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly women look for the man’s ability to support the family and his face, his height and his attitude and love.

Adaeva · Answer

Looks, intelligence, and money.

inhua · Answer

looks, money, status, height

alina177 · Answer

For what? As an offering to Satan?

Heolurt · Answer

Money and looks

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

Someone who's better than 95% of other men

TheMoreMiffed · Answer

Money

Anonymous · Answer

Loyalty, dick, respectful

Anonymous · Answer

Redpilled and based

Anonymous · Answer

FIDELITY

Anonymous · Answer

All they want is money, height and a big dick

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