Is confronting the side chick/side dude necessary?

[Ginger1907]

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Do you think it’s necessary for someone to confront their partner side chick or side dude?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No, because I wouldn't keep a partner who had a side chick. And why confront someone who's also probably being lied to... But if he Wouldn't let it go, kept pursuing me as he's STILL pursuing others, I might warn them others what he's up to and from there on out, it's up to them if they wanna keep putting up with someone like that or not. Otherwise, if they move on without hassling me I'll move on and he can do his thing with someone else and they can figure it out on their own, not my concern. You get too old to put up with these stupid games people play..

[DSimus]

Ummmm... what?

[DSimus]

No. It's not necessary all the time. It would be if they're conspiring with your knowledge. But most of the time the "side" piece is completely in the dark because they're being lied to. Confronting an innocent person isn't the right thing to do, your partner needs to answer for their infidelity.