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1. Match with you and then never respond when you send them a message.
2. Only have pictures of themselves with other people or don't show their faces.
3. Ask you to follow them on Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, or some other social media site.
4. Ask for money.
5. Or ask you to sign up on another dating site.
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Wow great response. I can't believe you deal with all that.
We do it's shit
Thanks, but I felt like I should keep it short. So I left of the lesser annoying things.
I actually appreciate that women do this but one thing I find really pathetic is when they say things like "I'm too strong for most men", "I'm a woman of strong character", "little boys shouldn't message me" and then when I look that same woman up on facebook I see they're crying about no one responding to them hahaha
I think the issue with dating apps is that you don't get to see the person's whole personality.
They act as if a person's value is all surface level.
I do better at parties and on sites where I can really talk to women.
A lot of women don't fill out their dating profiles very well, and then wonder why dudes message them boring stuff. Like you can't just post up a few photos and expect me to have a good opener. Tell me something about who you are, and get creative with your answers.
I personally dislike it when people as a whole put something on their profile along the lines of...
"If you're gonna message me with 'Hi' or 'Hey how are you?' then don't waste my time. Come at me with something interesting and unique."
... I don't know what it is that rubs me the wrong way about it. I get first impressions are important but damn. Imagine if that was your attitude in a real public setting?
The same thing I hear men are guilty of... not reading the effing profile. I mean, geez, what is the damn point in filling the effing thing out if all they are going to do is ignore it? Worse is when they do read it and feel that somehow they will be the exception because apparently their shit smells rosier than others. No...
... I no longer bother with dating apps. All were just a waste of time and effort.
A couple of things, but if I was to narrow it down to just one thing it would be "Too lazy to fill this out, just ask". Just fill out the damn profile. No one is asking you to write a thesis. Just a, short summary on who you are and what you're about.
List asinine requirements like
- Must make at least 100k a year
- Must accept my 9 children
- Must be over 6 feet tall, hung, and wealthy (while at the same time looking like a land whale)
- Posts slutty pictures, but saying she wants a relationship..
Thank god im married, cause the dating profiles i saw before i met my wife were bad. and have only gotten worse since.. (I've seen pictures..)
"If you've ever voted X don't match"
I understand that you want someone who holds similar values to yourself but that just sounds like political tribalism to me and feels like it's intolerance of different beliefs than not holding the same values.
They expect pickup lines from us. Come on, growup!!
Do you girls use pickup lines when you want to approach a guy? You just start with a " Hello there, How you are doing. You look cute". This is normal.
But when it comes to apps, a normal approach is ignored and pickup lines grab the attention. I dont like this mindset.
If anyone agrees with me , please comment here!
Ha, yea I agree. It's so corny and fake feeling