Guys, What is the most annoying thing women do on dating apps?

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Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

fools around in their 20's. but then waits to find a long term partner in their 30's. which often ends with them having a few kids by different guys. so they want to settle down with someone to help them raise their children from past hookups. lack of interaction to anyone who is average looking or lower. when they themselves are average looking or lower. uses dating apps to boost their self-esteem or to feel attractive. maybe even to partner for a bit of side fun. instead of investing in their relationship if in one. using dating apps to promote themselves on social media or pay wall sites. posts group photos without saying which person they are. if she just posts photos of herself in reveling outfits. she will only get guys who want to smash and dash. instead of a legit relationship. if she wants a person she sees as a high value partner. she needs to look and act high value herself. has unreasonable standards in a future partner. many modern girls these days seem to want a guy with. above average height, above average muscle tone, above average income, above average intelligence, above average looks, above average penis size. which already limits their choices to roughly 5-10% of guys world wide. if you factor in all of those requirements. so if she only wants one of those type of guys. she should be ready to share him with other girls. as there is a good chance those guys will never settle down. because those guys often have dozen of girls throwing themselves at them.

jadspop · Accepted Answer

Let's face it... Girls are the pretty ones... And there's always more guys out there then girls... Most men have to rely more on there personality and charm rather then good looks...

There are wemon like that to... But I feel like... Even a 5 or 6 out of 10 can get a guy just on her looks cuz someone will find out attractive... But for guess you have to be a 7 or 8 to get the same results...

Sorry... Personal observation aside... Men have to rely more on personality cuz there are so many men or there trying to get with you... So when it comes down to a swipe cuz were not attractive to you... It really threws out most of what we have to offer

I'm not saying out dosent go both ways... I know there are good like that to... I just feel like it's a little more of a thing girls do cuz they can afford to skip over a few good ones cuz there's always another one around the corner... It's not always like that for guys...

But that's all based on my personal opinion of what some girls do that bug me... And I'm sure I'm not alone in this one

Apope16 · Answer

1. Only headshots to hide she's fat 2. Ugly chic with a profile of several hotties. We all know the ugly chic owns the profile before we swipe more pics

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Every picture has someone else in it, they are wearing sunglasses in every picture, every picture is taken from a distance, every picture is a head shot, or they are extremely poor quality pictures.

NotKrispy · Answer

Women get greedy, and tbh men do too they don't focus on the actual love aspect they focus on the body. Do women and men both get caught up in the he's hot or she's hot part or she has a good job or he has a nice house. Rather than focusing on more practical values like, Is he nice, is she humble, does she listen, is he compassionate. So forth and so on. Many people use dating apps more as a crutch for a one night stand leaving one party with high hope for a brighter future. It's not really just women's fault it's guys fault too...

So many guys go into dating apps sending girls nudes and asking if they have kinks and so on. So girls have to put up a gaurd and pick and choose who they talk too... Y'all have to understand Women have waaaaay more options than us guys. Because as soon as they make their profile hornh guys are swiping and sliding into dms asking how big their breasts are. You all should try it out. Make a new account on a dating service as a girl (yes I'm encouraging catfishing) ad a cute pfp from online or of your favourite streamer or something. And then see how long it takes you to get matches of guys wanting to have sex... Trust me it doesn't take long... One time I tried this expiriment within 30 minutes I had received 100 messages form males alone.

Another time I received 100 from guys and girls within about 25 minutes.

As a male (I used a good looking guys picture from online) I receive only 10 messages within an hour... From females alone. Funnily enough I received like 30-50 from males alone within the next hour. Just goes to show something...

Don't believe me try it yourself...

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

That could be a long list, but whose to say guys aren't doing the same thing.

- they use pics from the Snapchat filters with the animal ears, nose, and tongues.

- they immediately jump into what didn't work in their last relationship.

- they men bash about being lazy, inattentive or not being able to take care of themselves when describing what they are looking for in a mate, like she isn't their maid and won't do their laundry or they expect all the yard work done without asking.

- they select single status and come to find out they are either married, separated, or they have a boyfriend but it is complicated.

- their profile pics are a very close up pic of their face so the only thing you see is just their eyes, nose, and mouth.

- all the pics on their profile are selfie pics of them doing nothing. They should be pics of them enjoying family, enjoying their hobbies, or out and about dining, events, mile markers in their life.

- lack of information in their profile like under hobbies the only thing you find is 'watching TV'.

- once engaged in a chat they don't say very much or they take forever to respond or worst of all they just stop responding and ghost you.

- when they state that men are expected to pay for the dates, have enough money to spoil them, or if you are well off they aren't interested. I understand that preferences are allowed but that is a pretty shallow among others.

- when they have one pic and it is not them or it is of a meme.

- when they list the things they liked or didn't like about their last date or last relationship.

These are the things that annoy me about women's dating profiles but as I stated. Men are just as guilty of these or more annoying things. I couldn't really confirm as I haven't browsed for men on a dating site.

MCheetah · Answer

Contradictions and bullsh*t. What she says:  "Height doesn't matter to me." What she leaves out:  "... As long as you're 6'0" and over." What she says:  "I care about personality the most." What she leaves out:  "... If you're a tall, hot, ripped white guy under 30, that is." What she says:  "I like a sense of humor in a man." What she leaves out:  "... About as much as I like his Amazon reviews on movies and opinions on hot dogs being sandwiches." ( Meaning, she doesn't care about your sense of humor at all. ) What she says:  "You need to be a nice guy with intelligence." What she leaves out:  "Nah, just f*ckin' with ya! Don't want to come off shallow, do I?" What she says:  "I hate ego in men!" What she leaves out:  "I just call it as confidence, instead of ego." What she says:  "I don't want a guy to treat me like a sex object or a piece of meat!" What she leaves out:  Has tons of cleavage pics, bikini pics, and slutty selfies on her profile. What she says:  "Why can't more guys have some balls and ask me out?" What she leaves out:  "HOT guys, that is. Not  your  short, ugly, average asses." What she says:  "Why are there no good guys anymore?" What she leaves out:  "... Willing to put up with my bullsh*t and treat me like a modern-day princess and spoil me with presents?"

Kittyboy · Answer

I only use Okcupid because the rest works even less for alternative people, and I present as a sub, pet, kinky and all straight to the point, so I don't get all the "usual problems" of "usual guys" with "usual girls"... what eternally remains is:

They never answer, simple as that, altrough they match, I assume that from your side a match is not much because you have plenty. Many don't know how to keep the conversation going, when the conversation exceeded 3 messages, which is a rare thing. Never doing the first step is a given even the most introverted and anxious of us have had to learn to go through, but if more vanilla-curious women could learn how to be 50% of the lead of a convo, that would be of great help to everyone; and what's weird is that it's not happenning here, it's not happening on non-dating sites, or less, it seems really related to the fact that no one really wanna do small talk in fact, but we feel like we have to. Conversations that go somewhere in my experience are "straight to the kink", or finding quick a common interest and enjoyment to discuss of real things outside the sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Face picture, not entirely body picture. Oh man it happen me once. She had cute face I was like hmmm sure. We meet up and saw her oooooh hell noooo I turn around. Left her alone.

I hate when people are not being upfront that gives you an answer they will always hide the reality from you.

Once I see face only I skip.

Messages won't reply until is your turn. Am I in a🤷‍♂️ barbershop waiting on my number? That brings an answer she need to fill entire of guys in her profile to chat and looking for the one at her taste. Then later she complaints about not finding the right man. ,🤷‍♂️ Well you ran/nail all of them. I ignore them.

Asking for small amount money or they tell you "aww man ordered but realized I don't have the money I left it at home". They even text you in the middle of the night saying I had tire blow out I need for the tow. Would send it on my cash app or Zelle. "I am not a ATM and if you need that tow 🤷‍♂️ we'll get on your knees and blow the guy off, bye".

ZackBan · Answer

Be indecisive. Like they WANT to let loose and do something crazy and fun like hooking up with a total stranger they met online but at the same time are too afraid to actually do it.

So they come on strong. Pictures, bios, heated convos, but when it's time to back all that up with a date (even a casual one not necessarily a hookup) they suddently chicken out and begin to doubt everything and can't make up their minds and pretty soon it's the guy's fault for being too forward (granted that a passive guy is also blamed for not trying hard enough)

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

They hardly reply And if: they only reply by 1 word responses like "K", "Hmm", "yea" When they have a selfie profile pic and you can't see their face because the hold their phone in front of it When you only see their face on her pics, it mostly means she is fat When she has too high standards When she is only there to boost her ego by getting likes but never interacting with guys Ghosting/stopped texting without a reason

Guanfei · Answer

-Being extremely picky. Most women on dating apps think they deserve a top tier guy when they're themselves average. Therefore, for men who aren't 10/10, those apps are almost useless. As studies show, only 2% of men get matches there.
-Ghosting. Women ghost all the time. They just can't say they're not interested, men they ghost are just another number they scrap off.
-Expecting men to do everything, from the first step to starting conversations and keeping it going, without doing any effort.

Vencam · Answer

From the most annoying for me
- Treating you like air if she isn't interested or like a good in the shelf if she is: never approach first, just waiting for you to do you best to impress her without giving any hint (VERY few have decent bios) about how to do so. And if clowning yourself for her didn't work... You'll realise a few days later as she still hasn't replied back. If you're lucky she'll unmatch soon enough, maybe
-Not bothering to write a decent bio: in my experience only between 20 and 30% of females profile have a satisfying bio (one that is more then: I like Netflix and chill out with friends and dislike guys lower then me)
I think that's about it...
Now, sure we could dwelve into how that can be natural with women having too many matches and so on, but I don't think that's the point of the question ^^

Archerer · Answer

Duck face pictures, perfect angle shots that hide their true size, no info on their bio, telling us "don't bother msging if..." (It is just a shitty thing to say, you are allowed to have preferences and deal breakers but to announce it in a shitty tone right on your profile? Bitch move.), wearing too much makeup. Those are the main things I guess, all of these are an automatic swipe left for me.

Also when I finally actually get a response and there is absolutely nothing to work with, like I have to do 100% of the conversation, but I understand this a bit since girls get like 500 messages a day, but just saying "yeah" or "lol" it's like ok, where do I even go from there now?

But I found my love years ago and it wasn't online, and overall online is just a bad idea I wouldn't go back.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I have not been on a dating app for 5 years. But what bothered me was, you find someone who matches in almost EVERY way, and you send them a message introducing yourself, and you never hear from them. Weird especially if you have all that in common. I would expect some kind of response.

SjE78 · Answer

most of the women on Dating App's/Sites mostly look the same, sure different names and features but overall the same style and look...

otherwise the most annoying thing is not wanting to get to know who they match with and complaining that after it not working out they are having to go back on to the app to find someone else

DSimus · Answer

Post pictures with Snapchat filters on (or other heavy filters that distort appearance)
Post high angle photos to obscure their true body and face shape
Only link their Insta accounts in their "About me sections"
Have the conversational skill of wet potato chips

integrale77 · Answer

Multiple people in each picture all the same people making it impossible to determine who you are.

Every picture has filters on it I'd like to see the real you.

No description in your profile really you need to throw us a bone and help us start a conversation.

socksguy · Answer

Pictures with groups (with no idea who you are)
Reading messages and not replying (not talking about the "Hi" messages, the ones we put effort into)
Carrying a conversation, then stopping all at once.
Expecting the guy to start everything...

Pasiton5 · Answer

Where do I begin not read all your text and ask you again what you just said take so damn long to respond not say bye or see ya ttyl nothing just vanish, taking to other dudes at same time as you and you know they are when they say something way of the wall like so when will you be home Frank and your name is Bill stuff like that and lying fake photos just asking you to pay their phone bill or internet bill stop it ok not responsible for that not getting you a gift card just meet your ass damn

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

Things I experienced where: not responding at all, offer you to buy pics and/or videos, telling that you are ugly.
All the three are annoying. I mean I use to be respectful and nice and just up for a chat. And you say hi and maybe refer to smth you habe in common due to the profile, but they all react rude. That's so annoying and enerving.

Anonymous · Answer

1. Match with you and then never respond when you send them a message.
2. Only have pictures of themselves with other people or don't show their faces.
3. Ask you to follow them on Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, or some other social media site.
4. Ask for money.
5. Or ask you to sign up on another dating site.

slatyb · Answer

Lie about their appearance by posting old pictures or by posting deceptive photos. I met one woman and wanted to ask her "How old was that photograph? Looks like it was about 10 years and 100 pounds ago."

Another woman described herself as "a few extra pounds". She was 5'3" (160cm) and 250# (113kg).

ronaldo75 · Answer

I actually appreciate that women do this but one thing I find really pathetic is when they say things like "I'm too strong for most men", "I'm a woman of strong character", "little boys shouldn't message me" and then when I look that same woman up on facebook I see they're crying about no one responding to them hahaha

RenWalker101 · Answer

I think the issue with dating apps is that you don't get to see the person's whole personality.
They act as if a person's value is all surface level.
I do better at parties and on sites where I can really talk to women.

winterfox10 · Answer

A lot of women don't fill out their dating profiles very well, and then wonder why dudes message them boring stuff. Like you can't just post up a few photos and expect me to have a good opener. Tell me something about who you are, and get creative with your answers.

A_Nihilist · Answer

I personally dislike it when people as a whole put something on their profile along the lines of...
"If you're gonna message me with 'Hi' or 'Hey how are you?' then don't waste my time. Come at me with something interesting and unique."
... I don't know what it is that rubs me the wrong way about it. I get first impressions are important but damn. Imagine if that was your attitude in a real public setting?

MannMitAntworten · Answer

The same thing I hear men are guilty of... not reading the effing profile. I mean, geez, what is the damn point in filling the effing thing out if all they are going to do is ignore it? Worse is when they do read it and feel that somehow they will be the exception because apparently their shit smells rosier than others. No...

Sparda20xx · Answer

A couple of things, but if I was to narrow it down to just one thing it would be "Too lazy to fill this out, just ask". Just fill out the damn profile. No one is asking you to write a thesis. Just a, short summary on who you are and what you're about.

Anonymous · Answer

List asinine requirements like

- Must make at least 100k a year

- Must accept my 9 children

- Must be over 6 feet tall, hung, and wealthy (while at the same time looking like a land whale)
- Posts slutty pictures, but saying she wants a relationship..

Thank god im married, cause the dating profiles i saw before i met my wife were bad. and have only gotten worse since.. (I've seen pictures..)

Edanurus · Answer

"If you've ever voted X don't match"

I understand that you want someone who holds similar values to yourself but that just sounds like political tribalism to me and feels like it's intolerance of different beliefs than not holding the same values.

buckyboy · Answer

They expect pickup lines from us. Come on, growup!!

Do you girls use pickup lines when you want to approach a guy? You just start with a " Hello there, How you are doing. You look cute". This is normal.

But when it comes to apps, a normal approach is ignored and pickup lines grab the attention. I dont like this mindset.

If anyone agrees with me , please comment here!

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