What's it like dating with men in 30s?

[Anonymous]

I talked to some men who are in 30s. I feel like I'm talking to old men. they asked me a lot of questions instead telling me much about their life.
it's not like I'm not happy. but they made me feel like a kid.. I became nervous especially talking someone I like who's in 30s

[scott04sa22]

Last person I dated was my ex when I was 28 I've been single since. Most younger women don't like older man. I don't mind being friends with them and that's up to them if they want to be friends. Now dating them on the other hand is very different. She has to be in a maturity level. Her family and friends has to be ok with us. Her family might take some time getting used to us. Now with the age Gap if she's looking for someone who's like a father figure to her like NCIS Gibbs and Abby type relationship a few older guys might be opened to that as well if she never had a father in her life.

[samiammm]

It is kinda true.
You are a kid if compared to them, the age gap is kinda too big.

Also you are used to a different set of guys.
It is gonna be kinda difficult as they have a different mentality.


It will become normal over a period of time.

[Asker]

different mentality, example?

[samiammm]

A teenage is different from a guy in his 30's
We have a different mentality as a child and as we grow we change.

[Quackthulu]

I've only dated one guy in his 30s, still see him from time to time when I go back home. He has always been respectful, and yes, he has a hell of a lot of life experience that I don't. But he also knows that I have had plenty of experiences (good and bad) that he has never had to live through. Not sure a sample size of one helps, but I don't often date guys that much older than me.

[Asker]

which guy is more fun to date? same. age guy, older guys in small. age gap or. older guys in 30s

[CubanLove]

Awesome, they are way more mature.

[CubanLove]

If you aren't comfortable just keep a age gap limit, sorry I didn't read the whole post. I prefer men 30+ and older.

[Asker]

it's okay. I like their maturity. and I like. their career life which most of them are financially stable. and I felt uncomfortable when thinking if they see me as a kid only. and spontaneously I acted like a kid when talking

[Asker]

and I became extremely shy.. especially when talking in video call.. I hid my face from. camera often and he asked me why I didn't show my face much on camera 🙈

[CubanLove]

Just be youself and do not be hard on yourself, i am not sure how old you are but you could always make goals for yourself, as long as you are independent minded and have goals and are responsible that is most attractive to older men. Plus sex is usually better too lol. Dont be hard on yourself and honesty is key.

[Asker]

I'm 24 ..:)

[CubanLove]

Lol you are OLD enough stop being so hard lol!

[Asker]

haha. I don't know why I became so shy. I rarely talk to me tbh.. and it's hard for me to make eye contact. 🙈🙈🙈

[Caroline91]

It worked for me. I’ve been married to him for 10 years and it has been the most amazing life, so far. He was 37 when we got married, I was 22. It just depends on the people. He was far more concerned about the age difference than I was, but he got over it pretty quickly. I will never be sorry that I got this confident, successful, kind and caring man to build a family with.

[DiversityHire]

We want to talk about your life because, to us, our lives are fucking boring.

[Asker]

no wonder 😂

[DiversityHire]

So yeah, your life is much more exciting to talk about. Or at least that's what we tell ourselves.

[Asker]

I see.. but my life is boring either..

[DiversityHire]

I suppose we'll all have to learn to be boring together.

[Asker]

yes 😂

[DiversityHire]

What a beautiful world. 💜🤣