IAm not talking about me because iam 174 cm or 5'9 but i feel bad for short men, very bad, if i was born 5'4 i dont know what i would do... the height surgery?
You can always read online, in any page, that 90% of women in this has height preferences, that they would never find a man shorter attractive, approach a short man, etc... but the thing nobody teld is what short men can do about that? Or there's nothing they can do? This is the best advance that women have: tall women are considered pretty, men in general dont care about height.
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How can a short man compensate their height to be more attractive to women (besides being rich), to enter dating preferences and requirements?
The problem with you men is that you focus TOO MUCH about women, dating pool nonsense, so-called sexual value market garbage, your height, money, etc. STOP! I'm being serious. STOP.
Stop reading that online garbage. Ask yourself WHY you are trying to attract a woman? Do you want to get married? Do you want children? These are the most important things to consider. Men and some women are focus too much being a people-pleaser that it's turning off people. Many 5'4 men can find women to date. Many women do not care about height. They are reporting something FALSE, to get you people arouse up with doubt, envy, jealously, insecurity, etc. Stay away from that garbage. Many women who are petite normally date guys around the same height. Unless they are just obsessed with looks, hormones, etc. Most of them are just lusting and wanting these guys for sex. That's it. Girls like me or women like me don't really CARE about that stuff. Yes, height can be a factor concerning intimacy. For example, a shorter guy that my height is like a brother. I can not see myself being able to be intimate with them. It is no fault of their own. But it's not really mine either. I just can't. But one thing I will say is for any man and woman, to stop obsessing about this nonsense about men and women WANT.
Build healthy self-esteem, leave that porn and masturbation crap alone. Get into the things of God. And live Godly lifestyles. Build friendships with the opposite sex and even the same sex. Learn to love yourself. And focus on your life.
And you're wrong about that. Men do care about height just as women do. You can't speak for everybody. But you can only speak for yourself. If these women do have a height requirement, ask yourself, and for them what is the benefit of such height. Most don't even have rational reasons. The same I had to ask men concerning premarital sex, what is the purpose of sinning before God? The same answer applies. They just want to screw you and that's it. All it is, is selfish people attract other selfish people.
Again, nobody should be approaching anybody without logical reasons. I will always be friendly to everybody. I get mocked just for being friendly or not sexually interested. They don't want to be friends. They want sex. That's the problem. Until you men learn to build better relationships with women, more women are going to either pull back, stop, become guarded, become aggressive, personality and character changes, etc. These women now care and become more shallow and selfish because again, you men want sex, and you don't care how you get it. Not all of you, but you will cause them the p-word, gay, or simps. If you are only going to approach us for sex, women are going to want to best looking men available without feeling like they are going to vomit. And most importantly, the best sexually attractive looking children to pass on genes. That's it.
Whats your height, because you already say that a guy your height is undeateable for you, just for curiosity... but thats the thing, how can short men be attractive, and dont deceive yourself, height akways matter, and women dothe same wanting men for only sex but men at least find tall women attractive, women dont do the same with short men
Height does not really matter. I don't conform to that garbage. I make up my own mind, and listen to what God tells me. I'm petite myself about 5'3. You guys are already attractive. Everybody is attractive and unique in their own way. You have to learn to LOVE YOURSELF as you are MADE. Your mindset is what makes you unattractive. And the biggest issue is trying to force that on other people. Do you think I want to date a guy who wants to force me into believing one way as to opposed to what I already know for myself? No. Again, it has 0 to do with what men find attractive. Treat everybody with respect, kindness, and love, and learn to be willing to love people who may not always be attractive to you. this is only a vessel. A body. You have to learn to love the soul of the person. Because all of that attractiveness physically and sexually diminishes with age.
A mature person would understand that physical looks won't matter. I just personally chose that shorter guys are impossible for me to date and be serious with other than friendship. But that doesn't mean I can date a giant either. It's being reasonable, rational, and logical about this.
I have met a good amount of short guys over the years growing up. And the biggest problem I saw with them regardless of age, so-called race, skin color, religion, etc is that they don't respect what they have. They're not CONFIDENT. And no matter, again, all of these and height included, if you not confident, if your always depressed, lack happiness, insecure, etc those are major turns off. So many women are turned off because short men have made a reputation of themselves were their bitter, angry, unhappy, etc compared to taller men who tend to be very popular, extroverted, outgoing, secure in their attachments, etc. It's mostly psychology. I got a parent that is short too. I got it from them. But what makes them attractive to so many people is their CONFIDENCE. They mingle, they have fun, they are open, they get to know people, have something to offer, etc. It's your spirit. If you don't respect who you are, who else on this earth will other than possibly your parents? A classmate of mine in elementary school is a midget. Yet he was very likable, everybody including me loved him. And he was no more than the height of a toddler, yet he came from a family of midgets. He didn't let that stop him. And thus he attracted lots of women. Everybody wanted to be his friend. He eventually got married and I think have kids with somebody else who is also a midget. But there were plenty of average-height women who would have dated him. And I think a very few did. And YET. They TOO had a height preference. He wasn't rich. He came from a middle-class family, went to an average school, average job, and yet he's successful. Get it? You have your own unique gifts you're born with. Work with what you have.
I'm not perfect with my looks either. Some find me beautiful, others find me pretty, the rest me ugly or average or less attractive. Does it hurt? Sure, because you try to fit in. BUT as I got older, secure, and mature I stopped giving a damn what others think as long as I know God and my loved ones love me. And most importantly as God is first, that I also LOVED ME. Call it naive, call it childish, call it prudish, boring, I don't care. This is who I am. How GOD made me. And anybody who doesn't like it can take a hike. That's life. So understand that there are those who get this and those who are still learning the ropes and others confused like a chicken without its head. You people have to understand its psychological conditioning and you're being conditioned and mind-controlled on who to like and who to accept, and who to hate and who to reject. Notice how some things on-trend and how a certain type of looks physically is acceptable and others aren't. They show and conditioned you this through the media, movies, books, etc. And you being conditioned. Learn to THINK for your SELF. Don't let others think for you. God is the only one who matters in everything. That includes his opinions and you can find that in the Bible. Either way, learn to love yourself. And don't fall for the social trap.
Just be confident, confidence is attractive, if you show that your insecure about your height then other people will see that but if you act like your the talllest bitch on earth then everyone will believe u.
If the short guy is a good person, pointing him toward SE Asia. Lots of wonderful short women there that will be happy to meet him. They will have zero problem with his height. They will enjoy being with him, like taking care of him, and look forward to a long term relationship/marriage.
First choice would be the Philippines because they speak English there. Find a young college grad that is a school teacher would be my advice, because they are often more settled. Or a nurse, since they can get work in North America fairly easily.
He would need to spend some time there. And to get to know the woman (and her family) for some time to be sure of who she actually is. But very, very easy for a short guy to find a fantastic wife that will lovingly meet his gaze at eye level.
You never will because you're obsessed with feeling sorry for yourself and talking about how unfair the world is. You don't take the advice you're given, you always have an excuse not to, then you just end up asking this same question over and over again because you're still miserable. I don't get it.
So you're saying millions and millions of men should become singers? Entire populations where average height is that should become singers? I know you didn't think too much but please a realistic answer, I dont even know whi tha fuck is that guy, Davy Jones wasn't the one from pirates from Caribbean?
You asked how a short man can compensate for his height. I gave you an example of how one short guy compensated and was considered a teen idol at one time. He was the lead singer for the rock group The Monkees. I never suggested that millions of men should become singers; that would be absurd!
But is a cliché that short men must compensate beung funny, like the court jester, I ask about being physically attractive, and Iam very sure your friend would have a bigger dating pool if he were taller
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