Does grabbing coffee mean a date?

[yt6789000]

I asked a girl I know if she wanna grab a coffee sometime and she’s like ya we can do that. I’m just wondering if it’s a date

[jabariw18]

I feel like most girls look at it as a "risk-free" date so if she rejects you later she can just say "Oh I thought we were just getting coffee." But if you like each other then you can move on to the next level. I think it kinda works for both parties so the girl won't feel committed to the "date" and then the guy can get a chance to actually get to know her rather than get rejected before she even gives him a chance on an actual date. Unfortunately I've gotten rejected on virtually any and all dates I've ever asked a girl out on, except 2. One I met on Tinder (which is the only time a Tinder girl has ever followed through.) and the other was a girl from work but she turned out to have some major trust issues.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s only a date if you both acknowledge it’s a date & in this case both of you are just going out for coffee & who knows maybe your little coffee non-date dates could lead to something more.

[Anonymous]

To me no, And if the guy said it was a date I’d say nah we just got some coffee as buddies. Others might count this though.

[TooDrunk4Sex]

i never really found it important 2 distinguish these two. u get a girl alone and there's plenty of opportunity 2 kiss and grab whether we wanna call it a date or nut

[slatyb]

Not until you actually agree on a specific time. A coffee meeting is mostly to gauge interest and attraction.

[AlexanderAnttila]

Not for me. Grabbing a coffee is just socializing. If it's a date they want they say it's a date they want.

[Twinrova]

I'd not consider it a date; rather, I'd take it as an indication that she likes you and wants to see if this leads to something more.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

It could be considered a date or just a get together

[InferiorElegy]

Nope it means grabbing coffee, especially if you're ugly.

[ManMale]

No, it is not. Just pay for her coffee and go back to work. Her mission accomplished.

[rames54]

No it's not it's a prelude to one Maybe but not always

[Anonymous]

It usually means a burned hand, mouth , tongue or stained shirt.

[idkwattoputhere]

Casual date.. pay for her