Im an indian girl and a white guy said he has feelings for me. but it's like he's more interested in my body, so should I say yes?

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Im an indian girl, living in America as a student. So a white guy said he has feelings for me and asked me out. But it looks like he is more interested in my body. I've never dated anyone, even back in india no guy asked me out, and I always get rejected by them, they used laugh at my face saying who tf is doing to date you... But this guy like 10 times hotter than those. So it was very shocking for me because I think im not an attractive person and he's like model or something, he's very handsome and popular too. Always dated good looking girls. First time I met him he was nice to me and after few meetings he started getting comfortable, so he complemented about my curves or should I say it was eve teasing or something but then my friends said it's normal in America if a guy compliments about your breasts or ass. But it's also Normal for them to have sex with anyone they want. Many times I caught him staring at me and sometimes my body. So do he really have feelings or he just want to get inside my pants.

[Hazelstar99]

Trust your gut. Sometimes we know things as they are but we underestimate our gut instinct. Hey everybody is ugly to somebody. Your friends are mean but that doesn't mean everyone view like that. There are 7 billion people. Do you not think there wouldn't be a single who would find you attractive, love you and support you? People are always there to make you feel miserable. It's you who have to get up, keep moving and love yourself. I would suggest you to cut all those people from your life who make you feel miserable. I did it and they still want to come into my life. That's my life and my life isn't a democracy. Neither is yours.

[iseekpinetrees]

Well sounds like a fuck boy. Probably just wants to fuck you. If you want that potentially go on a date or w. e and see where it goes. Otherwise just reject him. You could even give the whole your going to be in an arranged marriage thing

[N192K001]

Test it: Tell him abstinence before marriage is non-negotiable to you. If it is no problem with him whatsoever, then the probability of his interests being with you (& not your body) is higher (unless he plans to deceive and pressure you later). If he pressures you, keep refusing consistently, systematically, and firmly, for days, weeks, months, etc. The longer he says, he more likely it is that he is interested in you & not your body as much.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well he could be a player or he could not be. I think letting the guy know that he has to earn it is a good start. If he wants to go on a date with you, I'd say go for it but don't put out, you make sure he knows that as well. If he continues with being hyper sexual then you know its only sex he wants, however if he respects your desires to actually want something more then just sex then its probably genuine.

[triff]

This all depends on your culture as well as being a a sexdoll for this guy If he can only see your body and not the person it will just be set If you can settle just for that then thats fine If you don't want to be used carry on your search Is it worth it or would you rather have sex with someone who sees you first

[simonqq]

Well that's something you can try to find out. I mean you don't have to have sex with him unless you want to. If you do choose to have sex then don't do it hoping for a relationship just have sex if it's what you want. Go out with him and see where it goes.

Also maybe you are more attractive and interesting than you think yourself.

[slatyb]

Maybe both. You don't have to have sex with him. Its just a date. If you are inclined then go on the date and find out.

[Amyrella]

Go on the date but just don't get your hopes up , he could just be using you to just get in your pants

[Caunsos]

I your interested in him sure just set your boundaries. Sometimes physical attraction can lead romantic attraction.

[knight2468]

It’s common white people find girls from other races hot. So don’t have sex with him but don’t cut the relationship until you are sure This about your body exclusively

[Massageman]

Ten to one, he wants to get in your pants.
Should you say yes? That, kind lady, is up to you.

[ruel_09]

Its better tht u know him more and then take a decision wht exactly he is trying to convey you.

[loveslongnails]

I'm sure he has "feelings" for you - they're between his thighs just below his belt.

[AmeerX]

I think you should try him but don't let him sleep with you

[Lottifan]

To me personally I think all he’s interested in is getting in your panties so just be careful.

[joedunn500]

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[OddBeMe]

I'd say he likes more about you than looks. Go out and try to connect on higher level.

[Anonymous]

say yes but remember white men are bigger than the small Indian average

[ManMale]

He wants to fuck you, then dump you, and then go tell his buddies he fucked an Indian chick too!

[Stylish27]

i would not say yes if i was in ur place

[Anonymous]

All guys are interested in girls bodies regardless of which race/ethnic group they belong to

[Opinion Owner]

Are you afraid that your face is too unattractive

[Anonymous]

More than likely he just wants to get into your pants.

[ColHathi]

I'd guess he wants to get in those pants.

[chriscdi]

just be cautious when dating