Guy from high school?

[Anonymous]

So I had a guy friend who was kind of flirty with some other girls but not on the level he is with me. Let’s just say he’s friendly. I know I’m different because he always used to like scaring me just to see my reaction and would call my name by doing it. Every time I would walk near him he would just say my name for no reason lol and I would say his name back. Once early in senior year I asked him to sit next to me because I forgot my laptop and he did it. it was dark and he was really close and he kept whispering to me how he felt uncomfortable ( he doesn’t like to be touched ) and I wasn’t even touching him. He would touch me all the time lol while teasing me soo? When I straightened my hair , he noticed and commented. We all went to cook out and a random guy said hi to me and my guy friend asked me if I was good afterwards. Once he called me out and was like “isn’t that right “ and said my name and I said I didn’t say that and he said he would never put me in an embarrassing situation. Then another time he moved seats in class and sat in front of me and he called my little sister his little sister. We graduated and lost contact. He was going to go to my college but went to another one for basketball. I wanna say he’s like the one that got away and I hope we’ll cross paths again. I liked him so much in high school and we had a lot of moments. I started thinking about him because I dreamed of him last night. Did he like me? What should I do?

[Kat4251]

Yeahhhhh. Don’t do anything. Personally to me you don’t meet the one who got away in high school. Like I know plenty of guys that I has a good time with and we had fun and stuff. But would I say they got away? No. Like for instance exact same thing with the one guy as you. The only difference is me and him we had the same dreams and we spent a lot of time together with each other and we went to ballets together cuz that’s what we liked. But I met my husband and he was my Prince Charming in a sense, not cuz he’s good looking but cuz he saved me from my life and created a better one for me to live in that’s doesn’t make me feel unloved. So if you wanna if he got away really evaluate what you want from your Prince Charming. Do you want him to save you? Do you want him to wake you up inside? Do you want him to go against his family for you? Or do you want him to be whole heartedly there for you and that’s that? And then ask yourself was there anything this guy from high school did that made you think for a second yeah. I can picture myself with this guy old on a porch watching our dogs and grandchildren play. Cuz I know I couldn’t with my guys from high school. But husband? God sometimes I wish we weren’t so young so we could just watch the days go by.

[Asker]

Dang I just wished I could’ve dated or spent more time with the guy that’s it lol. But thanks for your story!

[Mikelaughs]

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