Guys, Why men are so attracted to married women?

[MMM31]

I have far more admirers than I used to have while single

[PrudentGuy]

I think its the sexual confidence that emanate from her during casual conversation, especially when that conversation involves sexual topics.

Personally I never had sex with a married woman.

But I do enjoy chatting with them and found some even flirt innocently with me.

And TBH, I like those flirting sessions. And when I get more familiar with her, yes, sexual thoughts do enter my mind but I withheld any more advancement from her or me.

[Anonymous]

It is not that married women have admirers. It is just old women take life seriously and don't just jump to conclusion that guys are out to get into their pants.
Like I have known single woman who are older than me and we get along well as friend. It is not that I am attracted sexually to them but I feel happy to be with them. They are quite intelligent if you ask me and it doesn't feel shallow

[MMM31]

I can see/feel the difference between sexual attraction/admiration and friendship. It is very clear.
Why do you assume that married women are old?

[Ripper_E]

They want what they can't have sort of thing,.
I like who I like. If they happen to be married, that's unfortunate but it doesn't kill my attraction.

[MMM31]

Would you have sex with a married woman?

[Ripper_E]

No. If her husband consents to it, then yes.
Otherwise, no.

[MMM31]

Would you have an MFM threesome?

[Ripper_E]

I would not. Threesomes just aren't my thing. I would have sex with her alone. I don't want another guy there.

[MMM31]

utopia

[Ripper_E]

what do you mean?

[MMM31]

I mean that open marriages are rare.
For instance, my husband wants threesomes but he doesn't want me to have sex alone with a guy

[Ripper_E]

There is no difference between that and a threesome except that he would be participating. Either way, you're having sex with another man. I would not be comfortable with someone else participating. I would want to be alone with his wife. Not like I'm going to try and steal her.

[MMM31]

I think you dont get what I mean

[Ripper_E]

What do you mean then?

[EWillke]

Less attachment issues. If the guy wants a casual relationship without getting tied down then married women are the best. Bonus is she probably won't go talking about it if you're trying to have a few sidechicks

[Anonymous]

It's interesting you say that considering it is women who are known to be more attracted to married men.

https://www.pulse.ng/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/why-women-are-attracted-to-married-men-according-to-science/swjw2nj

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I'm not but maybe you are flirting more because you know that you're married. You have a built in excuse for not taking things further. My guess is that you changed, men didn't

[MMM31]

I don't think so. I always wanted to go further as I'm very sexual

[Avicenna]

We’re attracted to single women, not ones in a telationship

[OddBeMe]

My theory is your confidence is higher and you aren’t trying as hard talking to guys. Same for married guys. We talk to chicks and the pressures off.

[MMM31]

Yes! Very true actually. After getting engaged I stopped feeling pressure at all

[Gedaria]

That's how the cookie crumbles.
Sadly my crush is married so I fall into it...

[Wise4myage]

I think a lot of men look at sleeping with at married women as a challenge.

[Xoirwinkan]

I don't know about that. When I find out that a girl is taken, I look away from her boobs, haa!

[Anonymous]

I don’t know, I never was , I thought that was more of a woman thing liking men that are married