When a girl says you're persistent, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

I snapchat her often. Am I annoying her? or? Should I take it as a sign of disinterest? what should I ask her?

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*being persistent

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I already unfriended her. I'm embarassed that I even became such a simp lol. Thanks everyone.

[Not_Average]

Don’t ask her if that was bad or good. Just read your response to someone else’s opinion. That’s really weak behavior. Extremely weak. She’s picking up on that, hence why she doesn’t value her time with you. Back off entirely... if she hits you up, be busy. Go talk to more women. Go on another date. If there’s any attraction left, she’ll eventually ask why you don’t hit her up anymore, then tell her, “You didn’t seem interested so I moved on. Not a big deal.” That simple.

At this point, she knows that you value your time and are most likely seeing other options. All of a sudden she’s working for your attention. This is where you need to keep a woman in the beginning stages of dating them. The ball is in her court right now and you’re working for her and it’s turning her off. You’re acting insecure and asking her for validation. She’s losing interest. You’re a high value man, so act like it.

[Asker]

Yep. True words. Thanks. I already unfriended her on snap. Im embarassed lol. I jus realized how big of a simp I was lol

[Not_Average]

Don’t sweat it lol we’ve all been there. Another piece of advice is to not go with an all or none approach. Women are like cats. They come and go as they please. The more you try and control this natural phenomenon, the more unattractive you become to them. There’s been plenty of women who seemed as if they had no interest in me at all, and then they hit me up months later looking for a hookup. Best way to go about this is to be chill and calm at all times no matter what they do. Keep it simple and don’t take these things personally. You need to show them that you’re unaffected by them. If they choose to leave, oh well. If they choose to stay, cool. Women are driven by emotion and sometimes they don’t even know what they want at the time.

[Asker]

So should I just ghost them? until they try to hit me back?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

You really don't know what it means until you keep going and see what happens next. Just remember not to get too excited. If you ever need a refresher on being a man, just watch Clint Eastwood. Fistful of dollars shows many qualities woman like in a man.

[yucychan]

A word of advice. Don't act persistent.
Act aloof and as if you don't care.
Try to go about it like "If she responds, it's fine. If she doesn't responds, it's also good".
Pay attention to other people and things besides her.
It will drive her nuts.

[Starrr01]

Persistent just mean you’re actively pursuing her. It’s not a negative connotation. I would need more to the story though to judge if she likes you or not. Don’t overly do it and unfriending her was unnecessary

[sunshinet123]

That’s is every girls dream for a man to be consistent and persistent. It shows you really care about her and she will eventually give into you. But remember not to be needy and do not do everything she asks of you. Be mysterious, generous and consistent. Make reservations and plan dates but don’t always be available to her.

[winterfox10]

It doesn't sound like a good thing to me. It sounds more like "I feel like I'm giving you nothing/turning you down, and yet you continue to hit me up. I am vaguely uncomfortable with this, but not enough to be rude to you. I'm hoping that by telling you that you are being persistent, you'll get the impression that I'm not putting effort into this interaction."

[WesBrewer]

it sounds like she thinks you want to date her, and you talking often feels like you hinting at her over and over again, if you aren't interested in her say "I'm sorry I just wanted to talk with a friend" if you want her then say "is it working?"

[JPrez]

Some girls like the chase and like a guy who's persistent. However, there are those that dislike it and you come off as clingy, needy and irritating. Hard to know which one she means in this case.

[Newhead]

You should use your honest discernment on this one, do you think you are bothering her? if so then stop.

[Drumlin2001]

Dosen't feel like a good word. To me it would say that she dosent really want to hear from you. Are ypu friends? Are you trying to make it more than friends?

[Arivor]

I doubt she would say that to you if you had not already taken hints from her that she isn't interested in you.

[SandandWaves]

I take it in a good way because you get things done fast

[RACSKC0B]

Stop asking her (in whatever way you're doing it) to hook up.

[ririissleepy]

If she said it ove rtext it us definitely a sign you should back off.

[Cataphract]

Usually it means to back off. Unless she said it in a flirty way.

[Darknut]

Wait. In the words of Jack Nicholson in that Adam Sandler movie, he says that persistence is the key to winning a young ladies attention. If you are calm as well as witty she will respond.

[Citizenkirk]

Is she's smiling when she says it, or giving you a critical look?

[RoastedToast]

Depends on the context of how she says it. There's a fine line with persistence being attractive and irritating for a woman.

[sheikalana]

Means you're trying really hard. Don't text her that often that can be pretty annoying.

[Anonymous]

Yes. You are coming off as pushy. It is polite way of saying "leave me alone".

[Asker]

Ok. Should I take it as a sign of disinterest or that she just wants to be left alone?

[Opinion Owner]

I would. It sounds like you are bothering her.

[JSmuve]

It means that she doesn't have the same interest in you as you do in her

[Anonymous]

What sentence did she say it in? The context is the answer.

[HonestThoughts]

tbh it means you're being an annoying simp. Act like you don't care and don't need her, make her chase you. If that doesn't work then find a new girl.

[Marriedwith2]

If you are hot, it's endearing. If not, it is stalking.

Women are extremely easy to figure out.

[MountAverage]

Hard to say from our perspective, but most likely it was meant negatively.

[captain_voidwalker]

It means your 1 phone call away from jail time, leave the bitch alone

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend says I was so persistent years ago when i meet her.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Ask her but she sounds annoyed

[Asker]

I asked if me being persistent was bad and she didn't answer

[Gwenhwyfar]

She’s really annoyed

[Asker]

k ill unfriend her

[Asker]

*ok i'll

[Gwenhwyfar]

Don’t unfriend her! Just stop being so persistent.

[Asker]

but she's annoyed so she clearly doesn't have interest

[Gwenhwyfar]

You can still be friends

[Asker]

I unfriended her. didn't want to waste her and my time if she isn't interested.

[Gwenhwyfar]

U could've just stayed friends...

[likelyOK]

That she is probably not interested

[spartan55]

Persistent = pain in the ass most of the time.

[Beautyforeverybody]

Means you should give her some space

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Yeah that sounds like you might be annoying her

[fonduegirl]

Your advances are annoying. Stop it.

[TacosRAwesome]

Does she seem interested or avoiding you?

[In_Trance]

It means you're an idiot

[Asker]

Says you the idiot?

[DWornock]

It means you are not hot and she wants a hot guy.

[DWornock]

It can also mean you are a rapist as defined by Mary Koss; that is, she had sex when she really didn't want to but you kept asking.

[Cherokeehp]

You’re annoying her.

[Anonymous]

She wants you to snap even more!

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s wrong to be persistent

[Anonymous]

It means he wants to get up in that booty.

[OddBeMe]

Stop bothering her.

[Anonymous]

you're persistent?