Why is it so hard to get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[Newhead]

Because when we have to force things, sometimes it is the universe's way of protecting us from it, or showing us that we are not ready. Work on yourself first and be happy about being alone, this is when somebody will be sent your way. You're still young so don't get your hopes up about settling down with your first love, there may be some lessons to learn before you find your lifetime partner.

[Newhead]

Thank you for MHO.

[Aniya06]

You'll find one at some point
But if you keep believing that you won't it'll stay that way
just wait for the right person... someone who truly cares for you <3
The time will come <3 <3
Good luck !!

[TheFlak38]

Because the attention women seek is all over the place now with all the apps elevating the vagina to the most astronomical heights. She doesn't need you. She can upload one selfie on instagram and within minutes get thousands of thirsty comments telling her how beautiful she is.

[ObscuredBeyond]

There is so much fear and distrust today, that it's hard to find a date in the first place , let alone a commitment. Unless you're willing to simp for a thot. But you're usually better off single.

[WesBrewer]

because the world is cruel and not as dandy as we were taught it was, making friend girls and finding GFs through them is a good option.

[Anonymous]

Well are you smart and funny? Well dressed and in shape? Do you hold any toxic beliefs (anti-vaccine, pro Trump, anti feminism, flat earth)? Do you have a good degree and job?

[Asker]

I am an English teacher with the graduate degree of 3.00

[Opinion Owner]

Ok I don’t know what that number means but sounds good. What about the other things on the list?

[Asker]

I am 6ft 1 and handsome but not very handsome
my problem is I have a very hairy body
I tried laser hair removal and it just reduced the hair

[Opinion Owner]

Umm no girl cares about hair. Are you funny? Fun to hang out with? Hold any toxic beliefs?

[Asker]

I can't hang out now. there is quarantine and schools are closed due to covid 19

[Opinion Owner]

You are an English teacher but didn’t understand what I wrote?

[Asker]

ok I lied the answer complicated. I lost my mom 1.5 years ago and I have other private family issues. so, I am depressed and sour now but I was nice to hang out with before

[Opinion Owner]

so it looks like you need to work on your mental health first before finding a partner right?

[Kiss_Me]

Dates or a girlfriend?

The first is hard to find. The second is easy. All you have to do is ask.

[ChrisG30]

This picture sums it up (from MGTOW)

[ChrisG30]

All we have is average jane who is not actually average at all but rather poor.

[Browneye57]

Cuz you're boring AF. You have to do the work, first.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Now the thing, with some things, it is way more difficult when you put in too much effort. A warriors greatest weapon is patience

[scott04sa22]

It takes time. I got my first date coming up and it's on my 35th birthday.

[Liam_Hayden]

It isn't. Unless you are unrealistic in your expectations.

[bclbn77006]

it is not difficult to get a girlfriend but knowing the way to get is difficult.

[cnhinton]

Stick to sex dolls and porn.

[jimmy2]

Chill you will find one

[ChrisG30]

I havnt found one, yet I've been on 100+ dates and approached over 800 women in 2019 alone.

[cnhinton]

@ChrisG30 Trust me, you don't want a relationship. 99% end within 5 years (these are facts you can Google). They are full of drama and anxiety. You just need some hookup.

My last girlfriend stabbed me, kicked me and put me through so much emotional trauma.

[In_Trance]

Because that's how you believe it is