Why does it seem like its so hard to find a girlfriend?

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I have everything going for me in terms of money, looks, muscles, and I have a nice house. Why dont girls like me im literally a catch. Pls help!

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Money, looks, muscles and a nice house are not everything in life. You may have all that but do you have what is really important in a relationship?

I am talking about a nice character, personality and suitable intellect. What you are describing are all very superficial assets. None of them is really important in a relationship.

I am not insinuating anything but you could have a criminal record, be an addict or have some other faults that push girls away rather than attracts them.

It takes more than money, muscles and a house to be happy. Look at you? You have all those yet you are unhappy. You cannot buy happiness with money. Have you ever done a self-analysis? What do your friends that know you for a while think of you?

Also, don't put too much emphasis on having a girlfriend. She will come when you least expect her. Patience is a virtue. You are still young. Good luck.

whirled_up_girl · Accepted Answer

I think the way people look for a partner has changed significantly. Back when I was young it was common for people to pair off with someone they dated in highschool, college or church. Nowadays finding a partner at work, the gym, the cofee shops etc. seemed to be more discouraged. Dating apps seem to be how people are meeting and there, and those only seem to be sucessful for a small percentage of people who want something serious. There is no good way to date anymore, unfortunately.

Anemone978 · Answer

Either work on your personality or you are going after the wrong girls..

Anonymous · Answer

You need social skills. How many women have you asked out?

Anonymous · Answer

Are you ugly? Muscles doesn’t make you look better in the face.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, obviously you are NOT the catch you think you are. Maybe spend less time looking at yourself in the mirror might help.

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Sounds narcissistic.

Wild_princess · Answer

Have you tried tinder?

LovelyJaneDoe · Answer

Lack of personality 🤣

WhitneySnow · Answer

Personality?

Anonymous · Answer

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