I’m clearly NOT my types “type”. Don’t get me wrong tho , because hot attractive guys DO approach me… as do the unattractive ones, as a matter of fact.. any man i EVER dated , talked to , in a relationship with , slept with , or even flirted with etc … ALLL approached me FIRST. And it’s actually more attractive people than unattractive , it’s just once i get to know a guy i think looks good, his intentions are almost always sexual ONLY. Witch is OK because I’m sexually attracted to them as well, but I actually want something MEANINGFUL TOO. Where as the ugly guys always try way harder to fight for my attention. I want to assume that the hot guys actually treat ALL their women like this , because they know they have lots of options, but at the same time … I’m not sure if it’s personal. What do u guys think?
I say this over and over again, and I get plenty of hate for it, but you are proving me true.
Nearly all girls today want - and pursue almost exclusively - the top 10% guys, with looks playing a large role in that rating. But girls don't seem to realize the impact of that choice. Those men have nearly EVERY woman available to him, because each and every one of them thinks that SHE is going to be the special one that changes him from a player into a faithful boyfriend or husband - but those guys have NO reason to settle down with any one girl. Why have one when you can have 100 or 1000? There are rare - RARE - exceptions to this, but this is all you or any other woman is going to get from the vast majority of these hot guys.
You can pursue these guys, moving from guy to guy, and, yeah, you'll live their high lifestyle for a while, and go to some parties and maybe some vacations, but you are going to be disposable and replaceable to most of them.
You've been trained to expect to get this kind of guy by society and especially by social media, by having what seems to be access to the hottest men all over the world - but there are 100 women for every one of those hot guys, and even after they run through the first 100, they can move to the next 100 that the next hot guy has already had. And then the next.
You are free to pursue who you want, but you should be very clear about what you are likely to get if that's who you pursue, because it's easy to fool yourself because you WANT to believe, despite plenty of evidence to the contrary.
If you pick a man based on his looks, and not on his morals and values, you would be a fool to believe that you will have a good long-term outcome.
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You're not the brightest bulb on the Hanukkah bush, are you? You're just figuring this out now? I think it's time for you to grow the fuck up, you're not in high school anymore. Shallow school girls look for "cute" and "hot" first, adult women look for guys who are not pieces of shit and not bums. It's time for you to start looking for more meaningful qualities in guys than appearance or that's all you'll ever get. You're just going to be another piece of ass to "Mr hot" who has 5 more superficial girls like you on the side throwing themselves at him.
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What @MrOracle said lol
This seems like trolling. You're spoiled AF, you only talk to Chads who don't want to settle down, and you then have the audacity to complain about good men being too short/ugly/broke for your sh*tty garbage standards? You can't be f*ckin' serious.
Unless this is a troll post, you 100% deserve to be alone. You're not even young. Or attractive looking. You've got like, five years left, max, before hitting The Wall, and you still have the dating mentality of a bratty 19 year old. No substance whatsoever, and you don't seem to bring a single worthy quality (not even looks) to a relationship. Why TF would ANY quality man want you?
@KrakenAttackin, @TruthBringer, am I wrong here or misreading anything?
The attractive guys that want a relationship DO have lots of options so they often won't accept a woman that has a past of casual sex. There is the answer. Have casual sex = attractive relationship oriented guys will lose interest in you. Actions/decisions have consequences. The past is unchangeable.
The piece of advice I always give to women in your position is to take a look at what you lead with in your interactions with men. How do you meet men? Where do you meet men? What do you do to connect with men once you start talking?
Many times, the reason men only want sex is because they haven't been given anything else to connect with besides your physical beauty.
What @MrOracle said...
The reason why most women don't understand this is simply because they don't want to...
When all is said and done. You grow old with a personality, not a face. And this coming from someone that looks half their age and is very attractive with baby soft skin!
Because those hot guys can and do like with a new women every day or possibly more than that
Why would they settle down and stop spreading their seed as nature intended
The 'unattractive' guys will settle down and be unlikely to cheat generallyI am super smart, super rich (thanks to the first fact) and super romantic, but you will never learn about that because I am just looking like the typical sub-average dude top girls like you would never date (a few kilos too much).
Sadly, it is extremely rare for either gender to get both in the same package. And men have the different burden of having to do the approaching. The dating market is so maladaptive today.
Pick the guy, that meets your standards, but also, be realistic about what you want. I would lean more toward the guy that treats right.
What are you offering besides sex?
Also, hot guys can basically fuck and date anyone they want, they aren't fucking only you.Who said you're sexualy attractive?
I chased sex because I have many options.🤣🤣🤣
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