This guy I talk to online invited me over to watch a movie. I turned it down and asked to grab a drink instead. He's open to that but I am still confused as to why he initially invited me to his house.

Maybe he wants / plans to have sex with you 🤷🏻♂️

No, I wouldn't want a stranger in my house on the first date that I met online.

for me-it would be just as stated... though, i'm socially awkward... so...

Without going out for coffee or drinks? Yeah he just wants sex

Isn’t that what serial killers usually do 🤔 that is strange , especially when it’s a first date, I wouldn’t do that

Fuck kind of date is that? Sounds like a booty call rather than a date

No. Don't want her assuming anything about income or living habits

He's a cheap Bastard? we are in a "Lock down" he wanted to get some of that... you choose

No first date gets hotel not going to give up the bat caves location like that.. don't even know if the pussy is good

If my house was clean yeah. But there is an uncomfortably 🐘 type of so this is your house, good and bad ways. Haven't you seen a thousand ways to die

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scott04sa22 Follow
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Maybe he wants / plans to have sex with you 🤷🏻‍♂️

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art84 Follow
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No, I wouldn't want a stranger in my house on the first date that I met online.

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for me-it would be just as stated... though, i'm socially awkward... so...

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- Asker
  
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  You would not?
  
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- Sabretooth
  
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  i have asked-simply to watch a movie.
  
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Demerson35 Follow
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Without going out for coffee or drinks? Yeah he just wants sex

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- Asker
  
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  Oh man, it's disappointing. Thanks for the input
  
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Anonymous
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Isn’t that what serial killers usually do 🤔 that is strange , especially when it’s a first date, I wouldn’t do that

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Hypnos0929 Follow
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Fuck kind of date is that? Sounds like a booty call rather than a date

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themythos Follow
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No. Don't want her assuming anything about income or living habits

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Waldoe Follow
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He's a cheap Bastard? we are in a "Lock down" he wanted to get some of that... you choose

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No first date gets hotel not going to give up the bat caves location like that.. don't even know if the pussy is good

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If my house was clean yeah. But there is an uncomfortably 🐘 type of so this is your house, good and bad ways. Haven't you seen a thousand ways to die

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MrCreep Follow
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I don't like men or bars or alcohol I mostly don't enjoy any time I spend around people I don't want to know.

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honestly, I don't think it should be frowned upon, especially if you live in a colder climate and everything is closed cause of the pandemic

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Wowboi Follow
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He want to make you his family and make babies with you lol

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David_Bayer Follow
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Why not but only for a meal or Netflix or something like that.

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Anonymous
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first date bad idea you don't know if the guy could sexually assault you drug you rape you or god knows what best to meet in public places

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Willoughby23 Follow
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Yea that’s pretty much an invitation to hook up I've done that and hooked up on several occasions

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Anonymous
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no, and if some man wants you to go to his house from the first date he could want to rape you so don't trust him easily

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Unless we already new each other well I wouldn't ask her to come over

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spartan55 Follow
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What are you confused about?

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007kingifrit Follow
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normally no but nowadays... maybe?

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- Asker
  
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  Why is it better nowadays?
  
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- 007kingifrit
  
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  because pandemic
  
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- Asker
  
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  If the guy who invited me over mentioned once that he is looking for "friends," would it be a bad idea to go? I'm more into looking for a relationship
  
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- 007kingifrit
  
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  he doesn't want a relationship, he wants sex. friends means sex
  
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- On_cloud_wine
  
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  No it means he doesn’t have any expectations from her.
  
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- 007kingifrit
  
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  @On_cloud_wine that's never how men think
  
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- On_cloud_wine
  
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  Unless you grew up together?
  
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- 007kingifrit
  
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  @On_cloud_wine i had one female friend since i was 8. banged her all throughout highschool and college and afer on and off.
  
  when she got married and got pregnant i lost all interest
  
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- On_cloud_wine
  
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  Nice story.
  
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In_Trance Follow
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Never. First is always out somewhere

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- Asker
  
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  What is the likelihood that this guy only wants a casual fling?
  
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- In_Trance
  
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  Depends on the guy. If he invited you over, then very likely
  
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- Asker
  
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  I see. If I am looking for something serious, I shouldn't entertain him right? He once mentioned how he's just looking for friends
  
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- In_Trance
  
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  Uugh. That's a red flag
  
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Physics-Man Follow
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I don't think so. Probably as a 4th date instead.

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Gedaria Follow
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He wanted to get to know you very well.

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SenseiSeptred Follow
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He may very well be a home-body and an introvert?

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AmeerX Follow
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I know I would like to go to neutral place

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jahaims Follow
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Only if we were friends first

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lucas262 Follow
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I doubt I'd ever tell her where I lived.

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Agem123 Follow
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He's only trying to smash.

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dragoblack Follow
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If she is comfortable with it, sure

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JohnFord Follow
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Sorry darlin, but I think he was expecting sex...

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scooogy Follow
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Such would only bust a nut on you and move on.

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Twalli Follow
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COVID-19 or he likes sex on the first date

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imfreeze95 Follow
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Hell no I’m very picky about who I let in my home

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more_than_a_guy Follow
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Depends on the vibe, if it's cool, so yes

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If things went well, I would.

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Yes its my safe place.

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We all know what will happend next

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jimmy2 Follow
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No too many scamers out there

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ackeem1 Follow
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If i just know the person its an no no

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Whatever919 Follow
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No i don't expect her to trust me too early

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I would not no.

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  Thanks. Why do you think a guy would do this?
  
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- Phoenix98
  
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  I couldn't say for sure there are a lot of reasons.
  
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lightbulb27 Follow
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Nope

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No. I prefer neutral ground.

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Ninjazzed Follow
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Hell no.

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No way. Too risky.

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sp33d Follow
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I'd rather not.

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COMMODOREII Follow
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Hell no!!

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bklynbadboy1 Follow
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No way!!!

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OddBeMe Follow
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Seems iffy...

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msc545 Follow
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Absolutely not.

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badfurday2020 Follow
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Covid 19

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Kladya Follow
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Yeah sure

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