Guys, would you take a woman home for sex after your first date?

[Anonymous]

A guy i was talking to on here did that more than once. Dosen't even know the stuoid bimbo and ends up getting hurt. I feel like men are not gentlemen anymore.

Updates

+1 y

Also to add an update he didn't even talk to them before the date or having sex with them. As in know at least a little bit about what he was getting into. Let's just say all of them were cheating whores before he meant went out with them.

[Lionman95]

No that´s far too quick for sex. After the first date I don´t think I know a woman to have sex. It´s also not my kind of style because to me sex is part of a committed relationship.

[Asker]

A true gentleman. :)

[Lionman95]

Thanks for the MHO, I´m rather a learned gentleman. Since I had to learn that finding a partner is more pleasant that way.

[love_conquers_lust]

Haven’t done it yet. Don’t plan on it.

[Asker]

Another gentleman. :)

[coachTanthony]

Never she would take me home it’s 2023

[Widower123]

For a true gentleman, definitely no sex on the first date. This is only my standard, but I need to have an emotional connection with a woman to want to have sex. Yes, I'm a dude, I think about sex all the time and especially when I was dating before married life. But like your friend, I had sex the first night with a couple women. It never felt that great and the stupid feeling of sex equals love would take over. Of course, get hurt like your friend. I learned from those times that what I like is to get to know them first and see if there is chemistry for a potential relationship before hopping in the sack.

Problem is that women usually have the power (it's what's between their legs) over men and if they offer up themselves to the man (especially weak men) on the first date. Guess what? They're having sex. I know that some women think that if the sex is bad then they wouldn't date the person. The flaw is that good honest, men, will deny their advances until there is something more than just a body count.

[bobinnes00]

Yep, I would and have done it. If the sexual chemistry is there, definitely.

I think the best relationships are sexual from the start, we don't live in Victorian times.

I don't judge, if you want to wait until the time is right that's up to you but don't judge others if they decide to start a sexual relationship straight away.

[TalkWithoutSpeaking]

I have a girlfriend now but if I didn't, I don't think so. Unless it was a one night stand type of situation. If I had the intention of dating her and eventually getting into a relationship with her, I'd want to take it at least slower than sex on the first date. Way slower.

[miafryer2004]

On the contrary, as a woman, I have been on dates with men who didn’t want to take me home for sex but I persuaded them because I’m the one who wanted to have sex with them on the first date.

[Asker]

I couldn't cause you dont know them yet.

[miafryer2004]

True but if I’m sexually attracted to them then I need to hook up with them and usually regret it later but I can’t help myself.

[LoverOfBooty23]

Well said @miafryer2004

[glennos89]

I wouldn't even consider it 🤷‍♂️

I like it when some tention is being build up to the point of having sex. The sex will be much more exciting if you have to wait for it. Let the imagination also do his thing

[sean1234]

No way, even if I knew her from work for many months... no... NO!

[DarkWinterNights]

I wouldn’t. But a lot of guys would. Sex has lost its intimacy in todays society. Men don’t have to be gentlemen to get laid, so they aren’t.

[Philyouup]

i had one one night stand. it was fun, i have to admit, but i think we both knew we were just scratching an itch ans not
planning a wedding down the road. lol.

[DJB72]

Not a chance! I'll take her home and say goodnight but not more

[hammeronfire]

If she wanted to yes. If not, then no. Consent matters and it’s definitely something that should be decided before we even get to that point in my opinion

[Thirsty4more23]

That’s horrible and I would never do such a thing. I am a gentleman on the streets 😎

[Willlovewinintheend]

No, but I am not paying any money for her meal unless she gives me sex.

[Wise4myage]

Sure, if sex was all I was after and she felt the same. Then why not?

[sean1234]

What? and you call yourself wise4myage? Like not!👎

[Wise4myage]

@sean1234 Whatever.

[LoverOfBooty23]

If she is into it and we hit it off sure. I have done that more than once. We both wanted it and no one’s feelings were hurt.

[Anonymous]

Nah i don't take garbage at home..
I can book hotel room

[LiamJHayden]

I won't even kiss on a first date.

[The_Smart_Engineer]

Nope I wouldn’t. It’s too early to do that…

[Nifrayu]

Highly unlikely for me.

[GrikGad]

Nope. Make her earn it.

[jahaims]

Nope

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

D'pn' on ya.

[Kristierose]

Hell yeah