Guys, if a woman wants to hook up before you two go on your first date, would you still date her?

[straightmax12]

Like, would you consider her a hoe? Would you consider her worthy of dating?

[Clear_Skies10]

It depends on her reasoning. If she explained to me that sexual compatibility is extremely important to her, and she wants to see how the sex is with me first. Then we can decide if we want to bother going on dates and seeing if we're compatible emotionally etc. I would kinda respect her unusual approach to dating, and I would want to see how it goes.

[straightmax12]

She could do that after you two finish the first date.

[Clear_Skies10]

She's all about the business. If the sex isn't good you don't get a date, lol.

[straightmax12]

Then, most likely, she's all about the sex more than having a relationship with you.

[Clear_Skies10]

It's a priority for her for sure.

[Cormac995]

Noooooo there's no way a girl like that would be faithful long term if they're that loose with their body. The same is true for men. If he's got a high body count woman should see that as a red flag too.

[straightmax12]

So, sex should happen after the first date or later in the relationship?

[Cormac995]

Yes, loves sex is problematic for tones of reasons ranging from mental health issue with depression and it's also been proven every time you have a new sex partner it psychological alters your brain and makes it harder to form attachments and bonds with other people in both romantic and friendships.

It literally causes you to slowly dissociate from other humans if you do it too much. Thats why porn stars all say the same crap about not it being impossible to date even when they do find someone who is willing to date them, they can't form a deep enough connection to love because they've been fucked by so many different people it's changed their fucking brain.

This also isn't even factoring in how often it leads to unplanned and unprepared pregnancies and single parent households resulting in trauma abandonment and attachment issue themselves and even worse the spread of STDs which is worse now than it has been since the 70s, I think. Even if you're pro-abortion the best case of action is to avoid needing one in the first place. Abortions are dangerous and can permanently damage your fertility increase chances of miscarriage or even make you barren.

This is why it disgusts me with how blunt and fast people are about sex. Everybody just fucks now nobody makes love.

[WhiteThought]

No. She is already letting me know she is not worth committing to.

[straightmax12]

Because she wants sex before the first date?

[WhiteThought]

Precisely

[Anonymous]

I'll just leave this right here.😆

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-UB0owFSNw8

[BonzoInBitburg]

She's for the streets.

[straightmax12]

Do you believe that she's in the relationship just for sex?

[BonzoInBitburg]

She's not into the relationship part, just sex

[straightmax12]

Do you believe that sex should happen after the first date or is she still for the streets for wanting to have sex after the first date?

[BonzoInBitburg]

If you want a short term relationship, have sex as soon as possible. If she's a keeper, wait. Relationships that start fast, end fast.

[qwerty2469]

Lol. No. Trash.