It depends how chubby. That woman in the pictures is not even chubby in my eyes. I would suggest to avoid people who want you to change for them, it's a pretty big red flag. They will always ask you to change or pressure you and it will become a living hell for you.
NeverEnding either I know somebody that lives with their ex partner and their new partners some sad situation don't change for nobody unless it's warranted
Don't change your body unless you want to. A girl I know dated this guy that was heavier than she liked. Since he was losing weight because he wanted to she was willing to give it a shot. They are still together and he's near his target weight. If the only reason you try to lose weight is because he wants you to, it'll be nearly impossible
For all the women out there who are perhaps contemplating whether or not you're attractive, with the extra poundage that's packed so solidly onto your figures -- please, please, please don't lose a single ounce of weight... keep every bit of your luscious flesh right where it is... because you are breathtakingly gorgeous exactly the way you are.
It definitely depends on how you are sitting or standing. If you a slouching our hunched over it will appear that you have chubbier stomach than you actually do. Keep your posture in check. That being said, you are not chubby at all and I don’t think you have to lose any weight.
i know you like this dude but these are the type of guys that can never be enough, you can lose that bit of belly fat and then he would want you to change something else, you gotta find a guy that will accept you for who you are, dont make a dumb mistake by changing for this guy cause thats a whole path you dont wanna go down, no cap
he sounds like a real catch... honestly if you can't find a guy that wants you as you are of which i would think there are many then just stay single rather than changing yourself... if you do plan to try to lose weight then only do it for you
If that picture is you, then your not chubby. But while physical health is important, I think personality and character are way more important to a long term relationship.
Im chubby too so i know how it feels. It takes a little more time to find the righr guy but don't change for anyone. You can still be healthy and chubby and look pretty
Plus, the way your posture is in the first pic is what everyone's body does when they slouch.
If he is already critisizing your appearance and you are not even dating yet, best believe that he will find other, "flaws" that he likes to point out later on. This is a warning sign that he is a judgmental person. This could slowly negatively effect your self esteem--If you let it that is. So, I would be cautious of this guy.
to be honest you look good and i dont think you are chubby maybe between fit and chubby I mean one can always be more fit but I would have no problem dating you as youn are now... in 2 years
Move on he's dumb and will make you always feel insecure about it. Your a beautiful girl and I actually wouldn't even call you chubby you just look healthy to me.
Okay honey he is a moron if he is claiming you are too fat for him! The picture shows you with rolls yes but literally everyone has those when they sit like that unless they have NO body fat. Don’t let him treat you like that!
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It depends how chubby. That woman in the pictures is not even chubby in my eyes. I would suggest to avoid people who want you to change for them, it's a pretty big red flag. They will always ask you to change or pressure you and it will become a living hell for you.
NeverEnding either I know somebody that lives with their ex partner and their new partners some sad situation don't change for nobody unless it's warranted
Don't change your body unless you want to. A girl I know dated this guy that was heavier than she liked. Since he was losing weight because he wanted to she was willing to give it a shot. They are still together and he's near his target weight. If the only reason you try to lose weight is because he wants you to, it'll be nearly impossible
For all the women out there who are perhaps contemplating whether or not you're attractive, with the extra poundage that's packed so solidly onto your figures -- please, please, please don't lose a single ounce of weight... keep every bit of your luscious flesh right where it is... because you are breathtakingly gorgeous exactly the way you are.
It definitely depends on how you are sitting or standing. If you a slouching our hunched over it will appear that you have chubbier stomach than you actually do. Keep your posture in check. That being said, you are not chubby at all and I don’t think you have to lose any weight.
so he's making you change for him, thats pretty fucked
Yeah i guess it kinda is
i know you like this dude but these are the type of guys that can never be enough, you can lose that bit of belly fat and then he would want you to change something else, you gotta find a guy that will accept you for who you are, dont make a dumb mistake by changing for this guy cause thats a whole path you dont wanna go down, no cap
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he sounds like a real catch... honestly if you can't find a guy that wants you as you are of which i would think there are many then just stay single rather than changing yourself... if you do plan to try to lose weight then only do it for you
If that picture is you, then your not chubby. But while physical health is important, I think personality and character are way more important to a long term relationship.
Meh. He's just being a dick and fetishising skeletons.
Best move on kiddo. You'll develop as you get older and he'll just be screwing his fleshlight.
Im chubby too so i know how it feels. It takes a little more time to find the righr guy but don't change for anyone. You can still be healthy and chubby and look pretty
Girl, you have a nice body and you are pretty too.
I personally would never talk to that guy again.
Plus, the way your posture is in the first pic is what everyone's body does when they slouch.
If he is already critisizing your appearance and you are not even dating yet, best believe that he will find other, "flaws" that he likes to point out later on. This is a warning sign that he is a judgmental person. This could slowly negatively effect your self esteem--If you let it that is. So, I would be cautious of this guy.
I'm not a guy, but that also applies to guys. I will have no problem dating a chubby guy and i think men are attracted (many) to chubby curvy girls.
I'm okay with it, but I think everyone should work on themselves continuously throughout life.
to be honest you look good and i dont think you are chubby maybe between fit and chubby I mean one can always be more fit but I would have no problem dating you as youn are now... in 2 years
That's a shitty path to go down. Trying to change yourself for someone else's preference. Move on and find less of a douche
YOU ARE NOT CHUBBY! If he wants you to change your body to be with him, then he's not the right one for you.
Try the no contact rule with this boy... no MAN would ever say that to a woman he finds attractive and just in general wouldn’t say it regardless..
Move on he's dumb and will make you always feel insecure about it.
Your a beautiful girl and I actually wouldn't even call you chubby you just look healthy to me.
If he has a perfect body then you can make a reasonable effort to drop the 'baby fat'.
If he has love handles, then he also has a lot of nerve.
Okay honey he is a moron if he is claiming you are too fat for him! The picture shows you with rolls yes but literally everyone has those when they sit like that unless they have NO body fat. Don’t let him treat you like that!
I don't understand why guys rip apart girls bodies. I say only change if you want to not for a guy!
Yeah it’s sad how others rip others apart on looks, sexuality etc
I don’t think you are chubby but I think your too young to be posting these pics here.