I was okay with this until equality became the driving factor in society. Now if you’re not willing to bring effort up front I have to assume you’re using me for food or something. I wouldn’t even pay for a first date if I really wanted a relationship with you if you putting it was guaranteed. Actually ide lose interest. I don’t like women that put out in first dates. Well no that’s not true I love women that put out in first dates but I don’t marry them... their sex fodder nothing else.
So if you were alone and no man bothered to approach you. Would you be okay living single without sex our children your whole life?
@VanillaSalt I would be okay with being single without sex but I will never be OK with settling for a lesser man. I am a beautiful and intelligent and educated young lady. I speak six languages fluently and am very cultured. Why should I settle? I won’t settle for any man who doesn’t make me happy. I know my worth and I am completely content to be on my own. I have family and I have other things that I can do instead of being stuck in a relationship.As far as kids are concerned, for now I want to focus on making a lot of money. If I have no kids in my 30s then I’ll go for a sperm donor and have my own kids that way. You don’t need to be tied to some man who doesn’t make you happy to have babies these days.I’m not that obsessed with sex either. Good porn and my fingers or a toy will do if I get horny. I’m not just gonna settle for someone because I feel horny sometimes.
It seems very one sided. All women I ask seem to not mind being single no kids or sex. So if every women’s okay with being single and alone what are men supposed to do? Do you think men care about your education or finances? I think it’s a real problem that women control everything and men have absolutely no say as to the direction of society and dating. I wonder how you will feel if you have a son and he realizes he has no power in society.
@Sarahr123 Come one! Six languages fluently? If you could do that you would be working for the CIA as a translator and making big bucks. And for certain you wouldn't be on this lame site. And beautiful? I would have to see a certified pic to believe that. *rolls eyes*
@Daniela1982 Oh shut up old lady I’m only 22 I just graduated recently. I was working for the civil service in England for a few months. We’re in national lockdown. I don’t have plans to work for the government anyway. And CIA? Everyone isn’t American.
@Daniela1982 it’s very common for people of my kind to speak at least three languages. Everyone isn’t a White American monolingual you weird woman. You’re so old and know nothing about the world. You probably have protruding teeth, no chin and small eyes and flat lips. No wonder you’re so jealous that you have to write this stuff. Fat old hag!!!
You learned 6 languages by the time you were 22? Get off it! OMG, you sound like one of the fake pink accounts who are really guys bullshitting. ha ha That would be the only explanation as someone as "cultured " as you pretend to be would be on this site.*rolls eyes again*
@Daniela1982 LOOL I didn’t learn I was taught them as a child. I’m Indian we all speak several languages. You dumbfuck!
Fight fight fight fight hissssss!
Hey gang, @Sarahr123 says she has a bridge in China to sell you cheap. Who is interested? Just pay her in girt cards.
@Daniela1982 why is your ass burning old lady? You’re nearly 40 and don’t have anything better to do than argue with strangers online. LOSER!
@Sarahr123 Woo hooo! The cultured leady speaks. Don't make false claims if they are not truel ha ha There are a lot of people in here with a 123 at the end. Does mean all those trolls are you too? That is why you say you speak 6 languages as 1+2+3 = 6.
@Daniela1982 Oh shut up you old hag. It is a well known fact that Indians speak at least three languages fluently. I have relatives who can speak up to nine languages fluently. Since you keep trying to refute me I can see that it burns your ass so badly. Why would I bother about a dumb gag username? I’m not a loser like you. I only use this site because of national lockdown. You are nearing 40 and have nothing better to do! 😂
Ah ha ha ha, you are so easy to rile up and call people names. So much for being cultured. ha ha By the way, is pig latin one of those languages you speak? Speaking 6 dialects of the Austroasiatic, Sino-Tibetan, Tai-Kadai and a few other minor language families and isolates, does not count as separate languages. It is mostly all rolled into one, unlike French, Spanish, or Italian - 3 different languages..
@Daniela1982 You are so pathetically dumb. Bloody uncultured dumb twat. Indian languages are far more different than French is to Spanish or Italian is to Portuguese. You’re too dumb to comprehend the difference between Dravidian languages like Tulu or Kannada to Indo European languages like Hindi, Bengali, Konkani or Gujarati. You are pathetic and will always be. Don’t even talk about French lool I speak fluent French AND English whereas you can only speak English. I also speak Hindi, Bengali, Konkani and Punjabi whereas you can’t speak anything. I can speak and understand several dialects of Hindi and Bengali too but yit just burns your ass so much you ugly old aunty.
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Yes and as you can see the ape in the video follows her instincts
@NamerOfStars You must have organized the Sadie Hawkins dances at your school along with "Mix and match" day.
@Daniela1982 No, I had... other priorities back in those days. But it always seemed stupid to me that a woman should simply wait to be asked out by a guy she likes if she's more assertive than he is; you miss out on a lot of potential fun that way.
So that means i'll always be alone
I thought that way too once. However: 1. there are ways to do this online that are less difficult.2. Your best bet is to find a common interest, from day hikes to sports to hobbies, and see if there are women interested in it too. Lots of Singles groups exist for this.
Online dating ruined dating. Women have access to all men over the ones in their area... best options are only the best looking men. How you fight something like this? All guys get plastic surgery?
Problem is I'm too shy to do anything
Well get over it. You can't expect her to do all the work.
That's true, i'll make some effort
Yeah, that can be a problem. Sometimes you just have to force yourself to do it. Better to embarrass yourself once in awhile than go without. Even guys who approach women all the time don't have more than a 50/50 success rate.
@Daniela1982: No. It's never good to embarrass yourself. If a woman doesn't show interest then its a waste of time to even go talk to her. Better to move unto a woman who does desire you.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Thing is, women aren't always alert to a man's intentions. They may have other matters on their mind at the time. Some people just smile at others when passing as a force of habit, rather than frowning. Would a guy think that is a sign that she is open to being approached though, just because she smiles, because she probably smiles at other women too? I would think if a woman was interested in a guy she would show a bit more than a smile. However, I'm sure a lot of girls are a bit shy too if by themselves but might be a little more emboldened if with other girls. You just never know but don't try and look more into it than it is, just a smile for instance. It doesn't mean she wants sex and may be just going about her business.
But now you can get into serious trouble talking to women in public. I can provide several links which ended in men being arrested for doing nothing... including a guy arrested for rape when he helped change her tire. Now I won’t stop to help a woman change her tire.
@VanillaSalt Well he must have done something. I mean how do you know he didn't? Lone women are easy targets. Just had a woman who went on a road trip here and she was found dead. She apparently met someone who didn't have her best interests in mind.
He was arrested for “pushing her down and raping her”. He actually stopped and help her change a tire. She changed her story in court he brushed against her chest. There was a brief moment it could have happened but she didn’t react. The man lost his job and was about to go to jail...Until his lawyer checked video footage across the street showing he did absolutely nothing wrong. She suffered no consequences.
About 7-8 years ago I was in a rush and got into a woman’s way while she was after milk at Walmart. I said excuse me and held the door open for her... she blew up and stared screaming at me “no you don’t talk to me!”. If I wasn’t caught so off guard ide have back handed the bitch to the floor for being a shitty person...
@VanillaSalt Women who cry rape falsely should go to jail. I'm really surprised he didn't sue her or press charges. Any woman who does that is a cunt!
How you gonna do that though. Most claims are not done in front of a camera. You can’t send women to jail for not having proof to convict a man of rape... and the man never got his job back.
@_Troian_ If your read my my image above you can see that it is a man's job unless he is a mama's boy and needs mama's permission to talk to a woman because he has no idea what to say to her. You know, like the old caveman cartoon of a caveman with a club hauling his woman off to his cave? Do you ever see the female hitting on the male in the animal world?
@Daniela1982 Well I also approach to woman first and start the conversation, I don't have problem with it but the thing I criticize is "expecting everything from man". If I liked a girl and wanted to speak with her I'd at least expect her to stare at me, smile.. make it a bit obvious that she is interested and want to communicate.. that's how I'll approach her. However if she is interested but prefers to not show her feelings to me even for a bit, then nope I won't approach her.. cause no one would want to be rejected for nothing, it's also woman's duty to make it a bit clear to man and call him to flirt with her glare.. isn't it?
@Daniela1982 You gave me an example from animal world, yeah I also think the same way.. I like to be the hunter who hunts the female and I don't have problem with it but as I said, if it's not "a bit" obvious from her side then I won't give it a try cause no one has so much time for it.. or even tho if she is interested if she tries to play hard to get, then I'll stop speaking with her lol.. I don't have time for it. There should be effort from both sides not only from men, otherwise I'll get bored and won't want to communicate.As I said, it's cool by my side to be the one who start convo etc. However there are a lot of men in the world who suffer from psychological problems and they just can't communicate with women, and they are a lot by the way, not even minority.. so what they gonna do if they like a girl? I know guys like this around me, just because she always wanted him to approach they couldn't even meet and communicate, just because she didn't want to get over from these taboos she ruined herself from her love to him and he was also ruined lol.Women should also think men have psychology, not every men is same.. yeah by nature men should be the one who approach usually but if he can't do that then women should assist them, it should be like a teamwork.
Sounds fair to me.
So you don't follow pointless traditions
Hey, your 6th grade school teacher doesn't count as that is a childhood crush.
@novian Hush! We are discussing who approaches who. If you don't care you must expect them to hit on you. But some Ho on a street corner hitting on you while her pimp waits in the wings is not the same thing.