Is he the one for me?

[Anonymous]

In 2017, he was put on the sex offenders list, in 2015 he got dared into touching a kid when he was 18, he bloody did it.. I’m getting judged a lot over my relationship with him, I never abused a child. Two months ago I was being followed, bullied over dating him. He cheated on me last year, I would catfish snoop and hack.. now his cat fishing the guys I talk too he acts too clingy. I’m over 18.

[PrudentGuy]

If you loves him then you forgives (overlooks) his past. But be prepared that he brings problems to your life.

And of course, it's almost impossible to change a person. Hence of he abused you physically before, then he'll do it again in the future. Are you willing to be abused by him, again? And again?

Finally, his past may caught up with him. Are you ready to share the burden with him?

Yes, love conquers all things. It's whether you want the baggage, immediate and or future.

[kat2001]

He hasn’t abused me. Me and him see each other 4-5 days a week. I told him to catfish two blokes one of the guys are talking dirty to me one of the blokes he catfished groomed me when I was 16, that was 22, they still grooming me. His past I forgive him for since he hasn’t done it yet was a victim due to he was setup both have a disability he makes me happy and secure in a lot of ways. People use his past against him.

[kat2001]

I’m now almost 20. He was a victim due to he was setup into doing that when he was in the teen years. His not doing it now so I wouldn’t call him a pedo.

[PrudentGuy]

@kat2001 like I say, you are in love with him.

And yes, love is blind. For now, it's a good thing.

I'm just saying, forgive, bury the past, move on and don't care about other people.

Just be prepared the shadows of the past, and example is the case where people use his past against him bring to your knowledge.

It will continue to happen and are you prepared to live with him under those shadows?

If yes, you really love him.

[kat2001]

Yes I’m prepared.

[PrudentGuy]

@kat2001 🙂🙂🙂 I know. Your so much in love.

All the best and may this be a blessing to him, and you.

[kat2001]

I dumped him coz he told me to stop being overweight I didn’t trust him he was checking my sister out behind my back ewwww

[PrudentGuy]

@kat2001 ☹

[kat2001]

I came back to message him, to tell him my sister was saying he has the hots for her that I don’t want the relationship to end he wasn’t cheating on me with her my sister assaulted me as a child she always courses wedges in between my relationships she bent down in front of him he looked. He said to me I almost broke his heart that he cried. So he may realise that we still together so I sent him a voice message.. o_o telling him my sister thinks he has the hots for her telling him I still want be with her and want some alone time see him again soon. Just depends on his reply

[Anonymous]

Well his not a pedophile, due to he still isn’t abusing children. His past is bad. You need stop telling him to catfish blokes you telling him to do it than him doing it isn’t a excuse, he gives you time to yourself. You trust each other.. don’t see a reason why you should breakup.

[Opinion Owner]

He makes you happy and secure. His not hurting you or abusing you..

[sheikalana]

He's clearly not the one for you. How can you see the red flags and ignore them? Grow up and have some self respect.

[Anonymous]

Which of those things makes you think he is the one?
He is the one for you if you're a really evil woman

[Cookiemonster56]

My friend hasn’t committed any crimes she was telling him to catfish adult blokes, they both have a intellectual disability. She thinks his past isn’t ok it’s the past. She doesn’t know whenever she’s with the one or not.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cookiemonster56 Who tf are you even bruh?

[kat2001]

I dumped him

[Opinion Owner]

@kat2001 Oh ok so you are making numerous accounts huh

[kat2001]

I kept deleting accounts whoops. Keeping this one

[Luckycharms12]

Fuck that to much hassle

[kat2001]

I dumped him

[Luckycharms12]

Better off