How can you tell if a guy or girl is desperate?

[Anonymous]

[likelyOK]

I would say some women are not necessarily desperate but will go after a guy regardless if someone they are friends with has been with them before or if he has red flags that to me is desperate.

other types of women are women who are desperate to get married and I think men can tell by their conversations, and them wanting to move fast.

Desperate men walk a fine line between desperate and thirsty as hell. A Fuckboy can come off as desperate but really he may be already having sex with someone but can’t wait to hit up more randoms and does things like be bold and drop in DMs on Instagram. It comes off as desperate also if he goes after low quality women but really this MF is thirsty as hell.
The other type of desperate man who is not so much horny but lonely, I kinda feel bad for him. He does things and puts up with behavior that shows he does not value himself.

[Biancam13]

They will hook up with anyone and everyone. They will keep trying it on with you even after you’ve expressed disinterest in them. They will constantly talk about their conquests because they crave and are desperate for attention and validation front people.

[FilmGuy93]

Girls - If she's always flexing for attention and posting self validation posts and stuff. There's nothing more cringe and pathetic than a woman who is always posting up about how hot she is.

Guys - If he's always super quick to post up about respecting women and that sort of thing.

[HateMetaL89]

Needy

Require too much attention

Share everything from the beginning of the relationship

Texts too much

Guilt you for not givng enough "caring"

[ragequeen]

They have claimed to have "found the one" with every person down the road.

[milkcry]

guys who are desperate may be clingy, needy, need reassurance or constant attention. they will constantly need female attention or a female to baby them. they’ll constantly text you or worry if you don’t like them or if you’ll leave them. they will, most of the time, act like women! a lot of guys are desperate now a days. and that’s fine.. some girls like that! i however prefer someone a bit more assured, as i myself can be a bit clingy and insecure and i want someone more confident to carry me and help me.

[modelUN242]

My boyfriend and I are “desperate” for each other 😂😂. We’re pretty clingy, talk everyday, make up quickly after an argument.
I would say he moved thing pretty quickly but I was okay with it.

[sheikalana]

They want all your attention and when you're not together they expect you to be available for them 24/7. They get mad if you don't answer their calls and messages immediately.

[red324]

I don't get mad but I expect a call back later in the day. Or the next day

[red324]

I think you're describing clingy.

[Walamagicc]

I can tell when a guy is desperate when he doesn’t give me enough time to reply to his texts. An ex that’s desperate would probably beg and plead for another chance or blow up your phone.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

You can tell that about me from the first word i say to a girl. (including this afirmation)
All my life i whas desperate for girls and that why i don't talk whit them in real life

[GnatSocks]

Desperate is not clingy. Clingy is when she wants all your attention. Desperate is when she'll finally go out with me.

[red324]

Clingy, desperate and persistent can all get lumped together in one shape or form. I know when it comes to getting a date I'm definetly not one to give up at the drop of a hat, but I don't blow up her phone about it everyday either. I'm sure my persistence scared them away but I don't care.

[GnatSocks]

@red324 I see them as all different and even having different places they come from. Clingy is an insecurity while dating. Desperate is a drop in standards to find anyone. And persistence is just a shameless dating tactic.

And if you have to be persistent, you already scared them away, you're just sealing the deal.

[red324]

That's true. I say I have nothing to lose at that point so I'll just waste their time at that point like they wasted mine.

[Anonymous]

I mean if you promise to be a guys friend and he wants to hangout a lot then he’s not needy more like he wants friends if they are needy you will see signs during the relationship mostly controlling

[Iron_Man]

When they talk to much telling you they can do this and that Selling themselves to you

[Wise4myage]

Desperate people are usually very clingy to the point it drives you nuts.

[red324]

What do you consider clingy? If I date a girl I expect to see her at least once every couple weeks and maybe talk on the phone every 3 days or so. That's not too bad is it?

[Wise4myage]

@red324 No, that's fine. Clingy is pestering her every day and blowing up her phone.

[red324]

I don't want to talk to a woman everyday. Lol I have better things to do. Let some time pass and then your convsations will be better because more things will happen that you can talk about between that time.

[Wise4myage]

@red324 I agree.

[H8INCHES]

Why does that matter? Are desperate people bad people?

[Ousaf1]

Most of them don't have self respect so...

[H8INCHES]

@Ousaf1 That's not BAD, that's SAD.

[Ousaf1]

That's bad too you can't deny it

[AnggieGirl]

Desperate for a parking spot or to get though a yellow light? Your question is incomplete.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Won't leave you the hell alone.

[Asker]

Haha this is so true

[WA786K]

This is happening to me and yes that is true 😅

[Asker]

@WA786K OMG I had that happen to me as well haha, he would ask for my snap like 20-30 times.

[WA786K]

Eventually they will stop but. This one girl some times trys to come near my group and talk loud or even if I appear in the area she will instantly start to increase her pitch. Guess just have to ignore her 😅

[WA786K]

Yeah, it's ennoying but just have to focus on your self not worth wasting energy. One you loose interest on a potential partner or even get rejected but plays you. Just ignore em and stay well far away from em *as possible*.

[Asker]

@WA786K thats good advice thank you and so true, that girl sounds like an annoying pest. She probs like that around a bunch of other guys too so its definitely not just you. In my situation I just ignored the dude and tried to keep my distance eventually I told him I had a boyfriend and he finally stopped. Thank goodness I don't have any classes with him anymore

[Luckycharms12]

Most common would be texting a lot.

[Skankhunt]

Being obsessive and needy behavior.

[Clairvear69]

They open an account on GaG

[Vetis]

So unfunny

[Anonymous]

asking this question gave you away