How to get out a situationschip?

[Anonymous]

So hey me and this guy have been talking for 5 months and have hooked up about 2 times. We have been talking about our situation and he said that we are loyal friends with benefits. I don't know how I feel about this. How can I get out of this situation.

[btbc92]

Simple. Stop having premarital ex and hopping in bed with men your not MARRIED to. Your using each other for sex and your hormones are raging which is unhealthy and damaging long term. The one who has to decide if this is going to be a repeat with others and not just him is entirely up to you. Situationships end up being that way with one or the other is avoiding commitment. It is not always sexual, but you made it sexual. Your not even friends. Your just FWBs. Therefore this is not a situationship. This is FWBs where it is purely sexual. That's all.

This is why parents need to be actively involved with their children. You are not yet ready to handle adult situations or relationships. If you don't know how to feel about this, that means your regretting you got sexual with a person you still know nothing about. Figure out why that is. Because it was your choice to sleep with him which has to do with you. Not the guy. He's just enjoying using you for sex. As long as your okay with it, he won't see the need to change anything because again, you're just for sex, unless he wants something else which is usually with another girl who is not quick to allow him to have sex with him.

Men overall want sex. Period. You gave the boy what he wanted. A man who doesn't want sex may want to focus on building a healthy romantic relationship with you. However, you may end up feeling unwanted and undesired. You have to make a lot of changes if you expect to have a normal healthy relationship with the opposite sex. However, again, it all is up to you to figure it out.

[Siren777]

You need to know how you feel about this and trust how you feel about it. Then tell him that you think he is great but can't continue this. It's no longer what you want.

[Wise4myage]

Just be honest with your feelings. Its not like you hook up that often, so that should make it easier to end things.

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you want to end the friendship?

[Asker]

Yes, i think

[BarryLiverstone]

Let him know you have had fun getting to know him but you wanna spend more time with other people

[BarryLiverstone]

What are your feelings for him?

[Calgarydirty69]

he is insecure, wants you all to himself/herself