How to know if a guy not interested in sex and is honset about what they want for a long term and not looking for a short term dating?

[Anonymous]

G@g Keep deleting my questions when they not a duplicate. I just wondering if a guy isn't interested in sex and is looking for a long term relationship and be honest. I know some guys will pretend to be interested in long term to get what I want from me. I been talking to guy on Facebook. He only not reply to me once.

Other times that he has been on he has replied more then once. I know I am get a bit jealous of some women when I did have a relationship with guys.

I know that I shouldn't be jealous other women if women tried to see if a guy is faithful or not. We been talking about what I dislike and is a deal breaker that cheating and he said he Also dislike cheating and lier. He said that I feel sorry for you to get friend's that lie to you.

[Paolaa988]

He won’t talk about sex right away with you. Most guys are interested in it but you have to find a gentlemen who’ll take his time and be polite with you. He will be interested in your personality, your interests, getting to know your heart then that’s when you know. If he tries to pressure you then you know he’s just interested in short term and only sex. Sorry about that I’ve come across guys like that too and it sucks. Finding the right guy takes time.

[MzAsh]

Every guy is interested in sex. But to make sure he also is interested in a long term relationship, you have to vet him him discriminately. Ensure he takes you out in proper dates and puts in the necessary effort to get to know you. Don’t go to his house or get into situations where sex will happen.

[beldath]

The best way to tell is to not talk about sex outside of saying that's not what you're interested in. If his joking is sexual frequently, that is a sign of what he wants. I used to joke about it all the time, but I always wanted a serious long term relationship. But if you weren't interested in sex, I would have moved on.

Also, make them wait a while before having sex, and only do it if that's what you want. The guys just looking for booty won't wait very long, especially if they're around your age.

[Asker]

not talk about sex. just ask a guy if they're looking for a long term relationship. if they No , they are not interested in that and only want to have sex. some guys pretending to be interested in long term to tried to get into a relationship and they will change into a toxic person

[beldath]

I'm talking about after your conversation about what they want in a relationship.
Saying that you're not looking for sex will only scare off a handful of people. Most will try anyway weather they want a real relationship or not.

[beldath]

Until most guys are older, all they can think about is sex. Especially nowadays where porn is easily accessible to everyone. When I was a teen, it was still hard to come by. If I'd had access to what is around now, I'd think relationships should be more like what's seen in porn.

[Asker]

What about guys with a learning disabilities. That is has austism. They would be more likely to look for sex or prefer to have a relationship with another learning disabilities women. Depends on austism person.

[beldath]

Pretend you're in their shoes. Would you want to date someone with issues, or someone more "normal"?

[Asker]

Wow. How rude. I also has an learning disabilities...

[beldath]

Why is it rude? Do you prefer people that are similarly challenged, or someone that's more "normal"?
It was a legitimate question, especially since you say you're in that group.

[Asker]

. my experience with learning disabilities men will be asshole or players. other guys might be more toxic. I am on the mild side of a learning disabilities. I would prefer to have a mild to moderate leaning disabity if possible.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Don’t get physical (more than kissing) on the first date would be a good start

[Asker]

is there anything else instead of kissing or physical

[Gwenhwyfar]

Holding hands and kissing are okay

[Asker]

is there other thing. that not about holding hands. i

[Gwenhwyfar]

What do you mean?

[Backwindow]

If you know that when you talk about sex, you want to fuck. His intention means to have sex.

[Asker]

I am not interested in sex. I will say that I am not interested in sex. since I am only looking for a long term relationship and will find a way to get one or another.

[Backwindow]

I understand you are looking for a man with whom you will fall in love for a long time, but men want to relax, so they talk about sex. But your lover may fall in love with you if you do the right things. I want to convey my experiences in this regard to you. Text me.