Girls, How to respond when your lesbian friend your nervous about sleeping with her?

[Anonymous]

My friend is lesbian & I've been into women the last few years but never acted on it.
I was over at her house the other night, staying over.
We got talking, then ended up kissing & feeling eachothers bodies.
We didn’t go any further as she knew I hadn’t done this before.
How soon in conversation do I bring it up next time I see her? If she wants to take things further?

[Emii_Urashima]

What is stopping you from going all the way? You had a perfect opportunity. She probably thought you didn't want that, so she backed off. You should let her know that you enjoyed spending the night with her and you look forward to doing it again.