Should I feel uncomfortable by my lesbian friends?

[Anonymous]

Ones bI the other ones full lesbian from my understanding. Very stereotypical lesbian couple the bi ones pretty feminine can’t really tell she’s gay/lesbian while the other is more butch shorter hair tomboyish, but I’ve noticed some behaviors form them that have only progressed as time has gone on. Used to I wouldn’t see them do anymore then a quick peck, holding hands, and just… normal stuff but as we have become closer as friends they have gotten very expressive. Such as making out, sometimes climbing all over one another, even touching, among other things. Nothing too outrageous but stuff like that.

They also share a lot of information with me about very intimate parts of their life that I won’t get into detail on because that’s not what I want this post to be about.

The clothes they wear as well have been getting more revealing it used to be casual clothes. Dresses and just normal girly clothes for the one girl and for the other one she used to wear pretty baggy clothes. Now it’s crop tops, short shorts, and for the others it’s sports bras as well as short shorts.

I used to blow it off as “okay they are lesbians there is no way” but they act very odd around me now. They also giggle and laugh a lot when I get up. Sit close to me and make sexual jokes.

The tomboy was my original friend. She’s always made sexual jokes and stuff but she was basically a guy friend. But ever since she’s introduced me to her girlfriend her demeanor and behavior around me has completely changed. Hell she barely hangs out with the other guys anymore.

[NicholasRedone]

I'd feel territorial about my girlfriend or wife if she said her closest friends were close to her 😋😂💔 "oh no she didn't" lol sassy vibes 😭 😆 I mean I'd feel like I could be cheated on by her with another Man, her with one of her friends, crikey yikes 😬 😳

[Anonymous]

Sounds like either they're farming your reactions for their own entertainment
OR
One or both of them want or at least did want to sleep with you

[Asker]

Anything is possible but some
If it’s been more
Overt then others.

[Anonymous]

Damn, so much overanalyzing something that shouldn't affect you in any way whatsoever.

[Asker]

There’s a lot of details I’m
Omitting because I don’t want the perverts to ruin this.

Problem is the girl I’ve been friends with for years now is acting very differently and I don’t think it’s normal with the level of affection they’re showing oen another

[Asker]

Yeah…… I did something

[Asker]

Here’s the thing. I became too close with them and they got very expensive doing everything but taking their clothes off and having sex. They would give me the side eye when I was sitting there during their make out sessions. Sometimes making eye contact. At first I would get up and use the bathroom or make myself a snack because it felt awkward but eventually I became more comfortable.

I hard the details of their sex life. The passion. Everything. I could see how passionate the girls really were.

I finally brought it up. I asked them why they are so expensive in front of me. I had told them that I appreciated that they trusted me when they told me that they just trusted me and felt comfortable with me. I agreed that I really trusted them as well and…

Indont know. We started talking sharing experiences we had together. They confessed that they both really thought I was handsome and that they really appreciated what a understanding guy I am

[Asker]

I asked the tomboy one Kenzie about all her sexual jokes. Especially when she would make comments teasing me about my size and just other things like that. Because as friends. We have talked about our sexual past. I was aware that she was with another dude before but that she didn’t enjoy it at all and felt disgusted by it.

She wears her sports bras and Sarah wears crop tops a lot. But she said I was different and that she had never felt feelings for a man the way she feels for me. As well as Sarah does as well and Sarah is bisexual she’s not a full lesbian as Kenzie claims to be.

She told me that because we have such a strong connection. So after more taking I expressed that I also really thought it was beautiful how expressive they are and how much they trust me. That it was awkward at first. Sarah put her hand on my heights as Kenzie took my hands.

They began kissing one another next to me still holding on to me smiling at me. I have in…. I started kissing too.

I’ll leave out the parts. But I never was involved with anyone as passionate as they were. It was beautiful and expressive. I felt pleasure in ways no woman has ever done. The sensuality of the entire thing was mind blowing as well as how long they went. I was completely exhausted and fell asleep between them. It was wild. It was passionate and aggressive at times and other times ir was so slow and sensual.

I still can’t believe it happened but we have been hooking up regularly. I’ve also been going out on dates and having deeper conversations with them. Possibly becoming a trouple.

[Asker]

I genuinely love the girls and care about them a lot. Outside of sex they are great friends and really looking back. I had a lot of benefits that would come with having a girlfriend. Besides sex. But they comforted me when I was going through things. Talking to me. We would many times to hang out together as friends.

I never expected it to take this turn. I was scared but at this point I’m glad it did. I feel amazing. It feels so good.

[Asker]

Both girls are just genuinely great and sweet people. I never wanted to cross any lines or make them uncomfortable. We all genuinely had so mxun love and respect for one another.

Even after this all happened we are super close. We talk about everything. We do so many things together. But most people just see me as their friend. Both our friend groups cause we don’t want to awkwardness especially if we don’t continue doing things together long term.

Bur. They’re so great. I know a lot of people don’t understand our situation. I've known lesbians but none that acted like this.

[Anonymous]

What would you feel uncomfortable about? They're not going to be interested in you.

[Asker]

That’s what I thought but they have been very forward and I did ask them about it

[Asker]

Issue is that we became too close. Opened up too much and created too much of a connection.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, entering the world of friendship dynamics with a touch of mystery! As a relationship guru, I’d say communication is key. If their behavior makes you uncomfortable, it's totally okay to express your feelings with them in a friendly and open way. Everyone's comfort zones are different, and mutual understanding can help maintain healthy boundaries in any friendship. Remember, it’s not just about tolerating each other’s quirks but having a relationship where everyone feels at ease. 🌟 Keep it light, keep it real!

[Fury_storm]

no sounds like they're just being friendly

[Asker]

Thanks. I did leave some details out so that people don’t focus on that. They used to be very friendly in the beginning. But I feel like there’s something else going on

[Asker]

Maybe it is. Maybe I should beint it up but I don’t want to make things weir d

[Asker]

They can sometimes be very friendly and normal. But a lot of times they act very differently around me then they used to

[soe11]

• You shouldn't my dear.