So.. she asked me a lot of questions about being bi, but here are some. "Who do you think would become bi first?" "How do you know that you're bi?" and more.. she has this album in her phone called "The People I Like" and her phone fell on accident then i saw a girl in there but she thought i didn't & one time she was typing "stupid stuff" and acidentally sent me "I like girls btwđłđ" and deleted it as quick as she could but i saw it but i didn't get in the chat so she didn't and still doesn't know i saw that.. how can i ask her without making it stupid? (i got this picture since i screenshoted it before she saw that i saw it)
I think my best friend is bisexual. How do I confront her without making her uncomfortable?
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Why is this the sort of thing youâd need to confront someone about? If she wants to bring it up, sheâll bring it up.
Iâm bisexual too, and most of my friends donât know, because it doesnât matter. I wasnât interested in dating anyway for a long time, and now that I am, Iâm more likely to date guys anyway since there are more straight guys than there are gay women.
Straight people arenât expected to have some big coming out confession. I donât see why members of the LGBTQ+ community are. Whatâs the point? Theyâll find out if and when I ever end up dating a woman. Until then, it doesnât matter.
Your friendâs sexuality doesnât change who she is. It doesnât change her relationship with you. So why make a big deal out of something that changes nothing. Sheâll bring it up if she wants to talk about it. Until then just leave it alone.
Just ask her: "Hey, were you asking me all these questions because you're bi?"
Lol. I'm always asked that when I reveal something about myself (and how I would ignorantly ask bisexual women how they knew they were bisexual. I mean, how did I know that I am straight?). But I wanted to get to know them and was interested in not being close-minded.
I doubt she would be offended if she's asking questions about bisexuality. :)
I don't think you need to confront her. If you truly want an explanation, wait a little bit. Maybe she's attracted to girls only sexually, but not in the way to have a relationship with them. I have been with a girl who was just like that.
First to all these kinds of questions are very inappropriate, especially at your ages. Don't pressure her into anything and never assume without somebldy telling you directly. As long as she isn't making you uncomrtable, leave it alone. People are confused as it is.
I don't think there's any need to confront her about it. Looks like she definitely is, but that doesn't mean it needs to be talked about if she's not comfortable yet.
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