Girls, At what age should a Man give up on love?

[ForeverSingle1977]

40s

50s

60s

Never

[btbc92]

The question is do any of you people understand what love is at all? Love isn't what you actually think it is. Why would you want to give up on love cuz that means you would have to give up on your family, your friends, the things that you love come to think that you'd enjoy oh, your pets, you have to give up everything if you want to give up on love. Love is not with between your legs and love is not based on what you feel and what you desire sexually, physically, or whatever it is you think it is from an individual. You should not have to ask girls on anybody should you give up on love because again only you can answer that question. It's a choice to get into a relationship is a choice not to. The only thing that I can tell you that somebody who never dated and been involved with a man before, is that it is a choice to be celibate and it's a choice to find a partner. But you're going to have rational logical reasons to. Otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. It's not about age. You can have loved at the last day of your life oh, you can have loved at the beginning of your life, the question is what is it that you truly asking? Because sexual relationships is not for everybody. Just because human beings are sexual creatures that God has designed us, not everybody would use it for the right intentions. You got to figure out from the court in the root of your soul why you desire the things you do. And what it is that you are truly asking and seeking. Because no matter what it is that you think you want or need, it is better to seek Jesus and be part of God's kingdom going to be sticking to things down here on this Earth. Everything on this Earth but temporary. And you don't want to desire something that's going to be detrimental to you or hurt someone else.

You got to First understand what is your purposes as well as your existence is as a man. Until you find that out, you don't want to be seeking things in vain.

[ForeverSingle1977]

I appriciate the response... however a few things to clear up.
I just refering to love of a partner not family or friends... yet its a blind assumption that every single person on the planet has that.
Also its not just choice is the circumstances that make up that choice... being disabled or having a terminal illness. Even inexperience is a ligitimate factor. Also i dont think your response would work on people whom practice outside the teachings of Christ.

[btbc92]

Love is love. You don't know what the love of partner is because you don't understand the love of family and friendship. It's not a blonde assumption you must understand what true love is. Love is of God. And until you understand that then you are not practicing the way that you say that you desire. Do you say that is not going to work with people who don't practice this is why you are the way you are in life right now. Because you lack understanding. You're free to live your life hell where you wish. But as the saying goes Beggars are always going to be choosers. Look at Link from Ocarina of Time. Did he have family? Not really. He never knew his mother and father. And yet he understands love. The only had but one true friend who was a Kokiri, while he is Hylian. And yet he understands love. What are you talkin about?

[btbc92]

How can you expect people to be drawn to you if you lack that kind of faith? A woman cannot save you. I never dated ever in my life and you think a man is going to be able to save me? Nope. The only man that can save me is God and Jesus himself. No other person on this planet can do that for you except for those who have the kingdom of God within themselves and that is if they are led by God to help you. That's it. That The Facts of Life everybody must go through. It's a process in this life. For whatever reason God allowed you to be in this position physically, mentally, Howell way it is that you are struggling with, it is for his reasons. But if you have no desire to be healed, if you have no desire to come to him for help, that is now also your choice. This world is not going to care about you whether you live or die, but you have to choose to care or not. And I'm telling you that by experience. Life is too short. Life is hard as it is. Because at the end of this life where are you going to go? You need to make that decision. Because as we are born alone, we also do I alone. But that doesn't mean we have to go through all this by yourself. Because you can easily say you want and need a woman, but if you are not straight within yourself in a woman needs to depend on you, you're going to get off of it drag that woman down into a ditch with you. Now is that love to see someone else suffer? So just because you're stuck in a wheelchair, or crutches, or whatever it is that is holding you down, it's your choice to stay down if you don't want to get up. Even if your physical body is unable, your spiritual needs to be able to walk. You still got to walk, but it doesn't mean you can't have the help what matters is that you get there and you get to where you need to be. Not making excuses about it. Because where there's a will, there's a way, and as long as there is a God, Anything is Possible.

[ForeverSingle1977]

Not knowing the love of a family is a bad thing? Thats like saying to someone whom has not had food for days that you dont understand food. That does not help abandoned children or a 80 year old man with no living kin? Not everyone has the privliage living in a loving home let alone finding a partner. Its not understanding love which is not my approach... its the absence of it. Knowing it and wanting it in your life is not the same thing. Faith can help but faith is just words without reward. If you knew in your life that you would find true love only the last minutes on your death bed... would you live that life? Just because people of little or no faith do not deserve love much less find it?

[btbc92]

Faith is what you choose to do as is love. Until you understand this, then you're not understanding the basis of life. for some people, they do better without having one. Others need one. And did all those that want one oh, and then there are those who don't. And to be honest in a sense it is true. Because just because you know what it's like to eat, it doesn't mean you fully understand what you're eating. Just like it does not mean that you understand what food is truly about because food is many thing is not just a physical substance. You ever wonder why the Japanese they say "Itadakimasu" which translates "Thanks, for the food!" Because they're not just giving thanks to the server but they also given thanks to Nature where'd they received their physical substance. America we don't care about food. We don't even care about nature, we don't care about animals, we don't even care about our own kin. People will sell you to the slaughterhouse if it means they'll get millions of dollars.

Do you not understand the faith of those who are abandoned on a video man who doesn't have living kin? Do you fully understand loneliness? Because not every child as abandon is the same just like not every 80 year old man with no family is the same. Some people can go through this life without the need of other humans. But there are plenty of us who cannot. God understands our needs, but he still has his will in our lives and the purpose that needs to be done do the calling. He calls for us.

[btbc92]

Know your approach is that of desires. But of worldly desires and it desires to feel and touch a woman. Because you think that is what you mean but it truly is it. You need to be healed from the spirit inside and out. You can't know something and wanting it, because again you don't understand it. The truth is my concern is that of God. I have to love in me because through my mother God Made Me In Love because my mother always desired love and before her death 6 years ago to cancer, she never truly felt as if she was loved. But threw me through the conception of Me, Be A True Food Kitchen or not, God has given her the blessing. God is in control. He created you, he knew you before you know him, he understands what you were asking. But he also know the intent of your heart. And if your intent of your heart is selfishness than no it may not be given to you.

[btbc92]

Or, or, he can't permit you, but he may permit you to see what you going to do with that blessing. Are you going to take care of it, or are you going to destroy it. He will allow you to be tested if you are so quick to ask for things you do not understand. But understand this. If somebody ends up hurt. If God forbid somebody ends up dead, if somebody ends up suffering, because of your actions, because of the thoughts in your head, because of the works of your hands, guess who's going to be held responsible? It's going to be yourself. And the ones who have to live with it is yourself, and those who chose to participate with you. Do you really want to ask and wish for something you may end up regretting? That's why you have to know through wisdom what you are seeking.

[btbc92]

Because you think that's what you truly need and it really isn't*

A woman cannot follow a man who doesn't know himself.

[btbc92]

How do you not know the things that you are struggling with right now is not a test to see what you're going to do?

[ForeverSingle1977]

That is a whole other discussion and I more of a student of Sam Harris, Richard Dawkins and Christopher Hitchens.
Overall its asking a lot to have faith after decades no matter what religion you practice... and religion should not be a factor since love effect all walks of people on the planet.

[btbc92]

What I'm seeing is that you are going through a testing in your life. Pretty much similar to my own testing that I recently had to go through. I'm not entirely too short if it's the same testing or trial that I had to go through, but it definitely sounds similar. But it seems like to me at least when what I'm sensing, you're being tested with this, and you're being tested with your disability as well as what is happening to you physically to see what you're going to do in your life. Remember that that is also forces out here that wants to see you fail. There is no such thing as generational curses, there is such a thing as a lot of things a lot of people think it's fantasy or religious or not true. You be quite surprised how very much deceived human beings have become because of what Satan have did. But if you don't understand what you're going through, if you don't understand what you're dealing with, then you left blind.

[btbc92]

See this is your problem. You choosing to be an ignorance. I made it very clear before this has nothing to do with religion but I practice no religion. I practice the things of God. It's not a whole other discussion we are talking about you. I ain't talkin about Sam Harris cuz Sam has got his own life. I ain't talked about Richard Dawkins, he's got his own life. I ain't talking about Christopher Hitchens, Christopher Hitchens how's it going to life. They live in your life, you ain't living desk. Don't drag a minute. We are talking about you. Because first of all God as a said it's in control. Even for people you think that I'm not religious. He is in control of all of that. And you do not understand what love is. Because not everybody who says they love got lost. Not everybody who says they love do love. And not everybody who you think got love to lead us. For every and everything can affect people of all walks of life. The planet is like a womb, what you choose to do with those decisions while you're down here, it's text you as a person. None of these men that you want to live can give you that answer and yet your student of something you don't understand.

You say you are a student of there but do you think these men actually give a damn about you? Because if they do you need to ask him to help you. You need to ask him to get you a woman, you need to ask them to heal your back, to heal your disability coming to heal your mental problems come on whatever it is that you're struggling, you need to go and seek them because it's clear you worship these men as your gods.

[ForeverSingle1977]

Wow your into this are ya? Well this question is not about myself... its just a question. A man's worth should not be measured by how much love he recieves but what he gives to the world. More over a Man or a Women should not be measured by whom they have in their lives. A Man with a family is worth a single doctor that saved lives in hospitals... or a lonely soilder pulling a mother from a burning truck. but we are on the same page on that. Your input is heard and appricated.