Why are guys on dating sites so weird or ugly?

[Anonymous]

[AndyFo]

I guess you would have to define your version of weird and ugly, both of those words are heavily subjective and depend on ones personal point of view. I do not consider anyone ugly as we are all unique, but too many people are ready to judge someone because they don't fit into their version of how a person should be. I am sure someone somewhere thinks your weird and ugly too, so a free piece of advice, you really want to move away words like that. But I digress I am off topic.

Its not only weird and quote unquote "ugly" people who join dating sites. A lot of people of all backgrounds and walks of life join dating sites, the reasons someone does so is too numerous but most people do it because of lack of choice in their actual lives, some people are picky, whatever the reason is up to the person. If you want a better answer than that, you need be more specific.

[DCooper]

Probably because those platforms have developed such a reputation as a waste of time for 90% of guys. So what's left? Probably a few chads ordering takeout pussy, and some dudes who don't expect any responses, so they don't think it's odd that they don't get any.

[Asker]

Online dating really is a waste of time. Most people on there are fake anyways or just straight up crazy.

[DCooper]

Those sites do provide material for a few youtubers to do entertaining roast pieces at least !

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not sure but I had the same experience. Even the hot ones were weird.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thanks 😊

[Anonymous]

I think mostly weird, obsessive, and have many complexes

[slatyb]

Because many guys who are unsuccessful in getting dates offline join dating sites. Some nice attractive guys also join dating sites. I did, and my wife did, and we're both normal and attractive. I have several colleagues who met their girlfriends online, and they are very nice and successful young men. Just ignore the weird and ugly ones, and focus on the ones you find attractive.

[Anonymous]

You should make a fake male profile and take a look at some of the women on there too.
They're not all hot, that's for fuckin sure.
Dating apps are full of all kinds, but in reality a lot of the best people were already snatched up in person.
They never needed apps.

[Asker]

Why would I make a fake male profile? That’s pretty weird. You do understand girls can change their settings to see both genders right? So there is literally no need to “pretend” to be a guy.

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't know, I never needed dating apps.
I just checked out one a long time ago to see what it was about.
There's a lot of nasty people (Male and female) on those apps. There's legit reasons why a lot of them are single and it's usually their personalities or lack of.

[Asker]

Omg yes! I remember one of my old friends telling me to join POF and I just couldn’t get into it. I had it for about 7 months and I ended up just deleting it for good because I hated it so much. I hate how guys lie on their profiles or they are either too desperate or just straight up nasty. It just wasn’t my thing but it was perfect for my now ex friend because she was a slut who only used it for hookups anyways.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, those apps are odd.
There's fuckboys messaging every single woman asking for sex. There's attractive women messaging 15 different guys at once, hooking up with the few hot guys that are hooking up with all the other women.
It's not exactly the best place to get to know people in my opinion.

[Asker]

And what’s even more odd about online dating is you never TRULY know who you are talking to on the other end. I had went on one date with a guy and he was not even the same guy in the picture. I blocked him immediately after that. Even when I called him out on catfishing me, he still continued to lie so now for now on, I HAVE to meet men in real life. It could’ve been a set up or worse, more than one person having bad intentions. I’ve been pretty lucky but It could’ve came out much worse.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah those apps are creepy to me.
I can literally meet women anywhere.
Work, the beach, on Gag, facebook, Instagram, but the best is to meet women through friends at parties and other get togethers.
I like to meet as friends first and really get comfortable with them to see if there's any chemistry.
I hate dating apps because it's too forced and the expectations are ridiculous.
I want my relationships to develop naturally.

[Asker]

I agree.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s a two way street when it comes to weird & ugly on dating sites & I tried sites before & got rid of them because I prefer offline dating instead.

[Anonymous]

Because many women tend to look down on dating sites you view it as the last act for the desperate. It's why so many women on them have chips on their shoulders. I'm sure in your minds it makes the men appear less desirable with the assumption they're less in demand.

[LawCalmDown]

Because people that date online are usually losers; they can't get a date unless they are behind a screen.

[FakeName123]

Because your standards are too high. The quality guys you seek are already elsewhere with girls that are better than you.

[MTC29]

These days, dating sites are the venue of last resort for many men. This is why you get the dregs.

[Bricealan]

They find a girl the normal way, by social connections

[AFellowWeeb]

Why are women's standards so high?
Why does all women on dating sites want a +6 ft tall guy?
etc...

[Asker]

Because we can have high standards for the ideal man that we want. Why would a girl want to date a short guy? You wouldn’t want to date a really tall girl now would u? Lmao

[AFellowWeeb]

Why is it wrong for a guy to refuse a fat girl or a single mother then?

[Asker]

I don’t see anything wrong with not wanting to date a fat girl. I don’t like fat men or men that have children. Everyone has different standards. Some people don’t care and some people care about what their partner looks like a lot.

[AFellowWeeb]

women in general say this

[LogicBomber]

Because unlike women, we can’t wear masks of makeup.

Women without make up generally look like gollum.

[ronaldo75]

The same reason so many women on dating sites are emotionally broken, trainwrecks, over the hill or unlovable. Dating sites are for the desperate.

[Pogi-Paddy-2]

My question is why do women on dating sites always ask for you to send them money?

[Asker]

I’ve never been the type to do this when I was using dating apps but I had an ex friend that did this. The reason why my ex friend would ask men online for money is because she didn’t have a job, had 3 daughters and she just wanted men to take care of her and take her on vacations because like I’ve said, she’s low income and just desperate.

[Pogi-Paddy-2]

It isn't the responsibility of a man on a dating app to take care of her whether or not she is low income with 3 children.

[Asker]

Exactly. She was really really weird. I decided to stop talking to her. And she was a slut anyways. All she used dating apps for was to fuck any guy. She was extremely hyper sexual to be nearly 40.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because the ones who aren't weird or ugly are picking up girls IRL, not on the internet.

[Anonymous]

For the exact same reason that chicks on dating sites are so weird and ugly...

[Anonymous]

I can't help being who I am. Ugly weirdos need love too.

[pjf1958]

That pretty much answers itself

[es20490446e]

Just dating strangers is weird.

[Asker]

This literally makes no sense. Everyone is a stranger to you at first. Even some of your closest friends started out as a stranger.

[es20490446e]

Yeah, but dating is too serious too soon.

[es20490446e]

No surprise dating fails so often these days.

[Anonymous]

Sure, whine more about your priviledged position.

[SamFromFL]

They can’t meet girls irl

[SalvatoreCordileone]

Because its a dating site

[In_Trance]

Good looking guys never have to resort to them

[slatyb]

Not all good looking guys are meeting women they want to date. I'm attractive for my age, and I'm pretty picky. If I were single I would be dating online because I know very few single women my age that are attractive and available.

[In_Trance]

Seems im not the only one of this opinion. But you do you

[slatyb]

I already did. I met a woman on match. com. We're happily married now.

[Shihab91]

i know, right?