Should guys who are ugly and funny looking just give up on dating?

[Anonymous]

I mean like I just have a strong dislike for myself like I fall short I see other people easily get girlfriends and the reality is my overall appearance is never gonna be enough. Now I have other things going on like being on the autism spectrum, having anxiety but my face is just gross and disgusting. I know people are gonna be quick to say I have low self esteem but the thing is most women don’t even like being around me. My appearance even stops me from making friends let alone trying to date

Updates

+1 y

Like I feel like women vomit when they see me

Updates

+1 y

Like people try to convince me not to give up on dating but it’s like no girl would ever seriously consider me. It’s gotten so bad that women lie about my looks I was rejected a few years back where a girl called me coventially attractive and chose another guy over me

[dreamstar72]

A lot of what you are is what you have on the inside, if you have nothing to offer then you are ugly on the inside and that is worst. I had friends in school especially this one short heavy kind of ugly plus his family was kind of poor, but you know what he had no problem in picking up girls. Why?, because he had charm and love on the inside.

[Asker]

The thing is man autistic people don’t know how to lie and that includes to myself. I can’t pretend like I could date or get a girlfriend when I can’t

[Sukituki]

There's always someone for everyone. You may think you are ugly and funny looking, but when you meet the right person, that won't matter at all. Being on the autism spectrum is not bad at all. I have two boys who are autistic and they both are very different from each other. Everyone has autistic qualities just some display it more than others. Don't get yourself down. Take time to learn about youraelf, change the things you don't like and can change. Take it one step at a time is all.

[Asker]

I can show you a picture and you can see I’m repulsive

[ct1243]

Beauty is in the beholders eyes ; why sell yourself short?

[Asker]

Because I’m hideous

[ct1243]

Wdym.. you’re hideous? How?

[Asker]

I’m repulsive like I make women vomit in their mouths

[ct1243]

You’re not that ugly

[Asker]

Yes I am

[ct1243]

I’m not gonna say prove it , but explain

[Asker]

So I’m so ugly you can take dating out of the equation I can’t even make female friends like I’m so hideous they don’t want to even be associated with me

[ct1243]

Wtf... I never been on a date with a man

[Asker]

Yeah it’s really sad and frustrating

[ct1243]

For you or me? I don’t have this expectation anymore

[Asker]

For me like I’m always so sad

[ct1243]

Aww hopefully you can find the someone who can accept you. I’ve given up on this expectation of love. When you’ve gone through it all you become closed off to it. I rather love on me now as I’ve been through too much.