Like if they reach a certain age and still don't have a girl
Should ugly guys give up on girls?
What Girls Said 14
"Ugly" is only determined by perception. You don't know if someone will find you attractive. It's far more attractive to see someone who is secure in themselves, who have learned to love themselves, than to see someone insecure, and so desperately trying to be physically appealing.0
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I get really nervous around good looking guys so I always go for the 'average/normal' looking guy. Mostly it's all about the insides and that is why, when you meet a nice girl and got to know her, show her your soul instead of your moves.
Just don't give up! They are out there, just sometimes hard to find :)0
u r not ugly its just that the person's eye sight is very dull.. i don't think anyone is ever ugly0
No such thing... my stepdad isn't handsome at all! And my mom with him!0
No, maybe you are setting your standards too high. I feel that leagues don't exsist but others may feel differently especially young people.0
No, that's dumb.0
maybe don't go for pretty, mean girls0
No, you can find your lover at all ages, even if you are 80 :)0
no girls are general0
No, a lot of girls value personality over looks so I'm sure you'll find someone. It will probably require more effort but it will be worth it in the end cause at least you'll know that they like you for you and not just your looks. Oh, and be realistic and go for girls of the same league0
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What Guys Said 20
Lets be real here, have you seen other guys who you would consider not attractive with a girlfriend before?
I've seen plenty and that proves "ugly" guys can always get a girl friend if they put in enough effort.
There are girls who care about looks and girls that don't (I didn't believe it at first but believe me it's true.. I've asked them IRL lmao). For the girls that do.. Tough luck. But if it's girls that don't care about physical appearance and you still aren't able to get them than maybe it's something to do with your personality?
There are also girls that consider themselves unattractive too and generally they are easier to get as a girlfriend because honestly they have lower standards, they aren't asking for much and if you still can't get them then maybe your standards are too high?
I've learned to realise physical appearance doesn't matter when you fall in love with someone. Have you ever had the feeling when you loved someone and then all their imperfections become perfect imperfections? When you truly feel that feeling you will understand.. It's really hard to explain.1
I think they shouldn't really give up, but they should go for women who are in their range, say for example an ugly whose rating is 3 out of 10, should limit his range to just women who are 3-4 out of 10 only, they should leave the extremely attractive women alone. They can never have them0
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Follow this dude, do some daygame. He's UGLY too, inspirational
Gold diggers are like prostitutes except you don't always get what you pay for. There are plenty of gold diggers who will get in a relationship with you or marry you.0
Giving up on girls is not enough , you have to act on it.. Go suck a dick with pride and turn into a homosexual.0
Maybe they should give up, but ugly guys better shot is with girl of their own league. :)1
No, women don't prioritize beauty in men.
However, good, honest, timid, poor men of low status probably should. And by that, I mean the bottom 80%.0
well if you turn gay, you'll definitely be having a ton more sex0
This probably won't help, but how about facial surgery?0
no, u work towards being dan bilzerian XD0
Wouldn't your time be better invested in self improvement then drowning in self pity?0
No because some girls have the incredible ability of not being o0
Why don't you just learn how to pick up girls?0
I'm ugly and I pretty much gave up, don't be like me and do that though. Keep on trying!0
i did... but if she is ok why not0
Nope. Heaps of ugly guys have girlfriends. Just stay in good shape.0
No. Dating gets easier, not harder for guys, so lack of success early does not mean lack of success later.
Second, to be brutal, women view men first as power objects, while men view women first as sex objects. THen on top of that, we add love and compatibility and all that stuff.
A 40 year old guy with an ugly face, a good job, some muscle and high maturity can get laid easily.
How's your career going?
Do you lift?0
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