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I'll be honest with you...
I stop talking to very attractive girls for average looking girls fairly often. Its a shame that it has to be this way, because obviously I would rather my girl be the prettier one, but the average girls personality makes her actually more attractive than the physically pretty one.
There are two personality types that cause pretty girls to lose guys.
1) High Maintenance (HM)- No guy wants to date a girl who is high maintenance. These girls typically have been given everything they've ever wanted from their parents, and they expect the same treatment from guys they date.
Here are some examples of things that happen on a date with a HM chick that I instantly know I won't ask her on another date.
- When it comes time for the bill for whatever we're doing, the HM doesn't even offer to pay. She just stands there, like, "Umm so hurry up and pay already, what are you waiting for" That is the biggest turn off ever.
Your normal chicks always reach for their pursue and offer to pay half, to which guys will gladly decline because we want to pay since this girl offered and appreciates it.
- The second thing about HM - they are very concerned about Designer brands, and even brag about how much their pursue or watch cost. That is instant turn off. Think about what that conveys to a guy. It is saying, if we get together and things work out, I will be spending your money wastefully on materialistic things. No guy wants this.
The biggest turn on, is a girl who is proud to be frugal and shop for good deals.
2) The other end of the spectrum is People Pleasers - Other very pretty girls are very concerned what everyone thinks of them. And they become different people depending on whose around.
They don't have an identity of their own, they just want to be whoever they think the person there with wants them to be. Huge turn off as well.
Unfortunately average girls are just more down to earth, girl next door type, and they are easier to get along with, and easier to trust.
I wish it wasn't this way, trust me. Because this literally just happened to me. Two dates in the past week. One girl was really pretty, but extremely materialistic and made me not attracted to her.
The other girl is just barely cute, but her personality was so awesome, that I'm actually really attracted to her.
I wish yall pretty girls could figure it out! Cause I promise we guys would much rather a down to earth pretty girl, than a down to earth average girl!