Always see pretty girls with ugly guys?

[Anonymous]

[justboredlol]

This and these comments are so dumb. Do none of you realise that not every single relationship is about looks, money, or sex? Jesus.
First of all, what's "ugly" and "attractive" is different in everyone's eyes, and even if you meet someone you didn't find entirely attractive when you first met, if they have an amazing personality then everything else about them just becomes beautiful in their eyes.
I think a lot of these comments are just bitter people who got wronged by one person and think that ALL people of that gender are f*cking evil or something.
Plus, women TEND to be more conscious of their appearance, so of course they're going to look like the more attractive one in the relationship because naturally that's how they usually want to come across, and can you blame them? Who doesn't wanna feel pretty? Jesus. Think before you answer ffs

[SjE78]

Exactly... beauty can never be explained as just physical appearance, no matter what society would have people believe, and as such runs deeper and is more varied overall to just one thing...

for me personally beauty is what a person is on the inside, who they are to all around them...
for the next person beauty could be a physical attraction, someone else might just need them to make them laugh, or for them to stand against them and show courage for them to see their inner beauty

what is to 1 is never the case for the next

it's refreshing to see someone else notice that though tbh

[LizzyHale]

Everybody tells me I’m into ugly older men. And I know it am. It’s because the best looking women are the most insecure about themselves. The more pretty you are, the more pressure you have to constantly prove your prettiness because that’s what everybody expects since your out on a pedestal at birth. So having a man with no looks garuntees me that I won’t have to worry about being pressured to be pretty anymore because at my worst we are in the same league. If that makes any sense, that’s the honest truth. Not all this gold digger stuff. I had a crush on a 48 year old man that made as much as I did. That plays no part in why I choose uglier men.

[abc3643]

The top picture of Olivia Wilde and Salman Rushdie is misleading because 1) they are not a couple and 2) she's known him since she was a kid.


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Famous heirs and heiresses who inherited a fortune

Olivia Wilde
Estimated net worth: $20 million
Wealth inherited from: Andrew Cockburn

As a child, she hung out with the likes of Mick Jagger and Salman Rushdie, and when Olivia Wilde grew up, she became one of the most well-liked actresses in the biz. Wilde, who originally wanted to be a doctor, began her acting career when she landed a part on the 2001 drama The OC. She then landed the role of Dr. Remy ‘Thirteen’ Hadley in the TV medical drama, House.

[SjE78]

beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and isn't skin deep, it describes someone's heart and personality, how they are towards those around them...

to you those guys are ugly, but to them they are everything they wished for.

it would be no different if roles were reversed... and tbh I have found over the years a lot of shallow people tend to have issues with the combination of couples, and many of those cannot understand that it is their choice and their lives... but still attempt too ridicule and persecute them for being happy

[AmandaYVR]

Different criteria for choosing mates. So simple. Nothing more to say.

[Unit1]

Money?

Go on, unleash your feedback. I'll be all ears.

[AmandaYVR]

@Unit1 Well, thanks for the green light. And you're a hoot. But nah, I'm a bit bored of the topic, and I'm not going to waste energy on anon generic questions anymore. Only if they're really facing a true dilemma. Otherwise, not interesting to me to put more time in. Credibility of others matters to me.
I'll do some more in-depth mytakes about gender stuff later.

[Unit1]

Oh well. Too bad. Rest assured it wasn't going to be about never winning and argument like you see the bitter blues are doing

[GlitterFairy16]

It's not all to do with money. Planty of beautiful woman have had to learn from there own experiences but there is so much more to love than just the physical side of things. If a highly attractive woman dates a highly attractive man usually its less likely that man will appreciate and value her beauty and will just think he can have any woman he wants once this one gets old and less attractive.

Women like men who will feel lucky to be with them and as if her beauty would never compare to another woman who would give him a chance.

Plus a man who takes to much pride in his looks is a very unattractive traits and women like men who have more to them just looks, looks don't last forever.

[GlitterFairy16]

For example, these women in the pictures are successful and rich on their own accord even before they probably met these men so i don't understand why they would feel the need to marry a man based on his income

[Unit1]

Very nice try! I asked the opposite question just yesterday here

Have you ever seen a rich man with an ugly or fat girlfriend?

To answer your question: Not really. But I don't doubt there are beautiful women with ugly or fat boyfriends. I just don't recall seeing more than one-two unconfirmed times. I do remember one beautiful young woman (20 i think?) holding hands with someone, who looks like he's 60 years old.

[Asker]

I see it all the time maybe its because I live in a city

[Rab1901]

Which city?

[Unit1]

How ugly are we talking about? Like just ew not my type ugly or ugly like deformed face and 150 KG with glasses and neckbeard type ugly?

[Asker]

Ugly like fat neckbeard loosing hair ugly

[Unit1]

Point made and taken!

[MrMilti]

Its because of the difference in how the sexual market value (SMV) of the genders are rooted

- Women become attractive to men, when they are good looking, nurturing and young

- Men are attractive to women, when they can provide for her, are wealthy, famous or otherwise influential.

Its an evolutionary thing

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

No way. I love being independent and strong enough to provide on my own... also while causing a bit of trouble I'd the guy thinks he can be "in charge"

[MrMilti]

No one said, that you cannot be strong or provide for yourself. But that does not change, what people find attractive.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

I guess we disagree
Im a woman and it’s not those things for me

[MrMilti]

And it is perfectly fine to disagree, I dont have a problem with that 😉

So in theory: Would you date or marry a man, who has no job and still lives with his parents, but otherwise treats you really well and is good looking? Or would his lack of success be a no-go for you?

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

It would depend on our relationship. If he's honest, trying to make a difference for himself and if I'm attracted to him as a person. Meaning he has integrity. He could be the hottest guy in the world but if he lacks hard work, motivation and character he wouldn't be my type. Now if he was hard working, had a reason for living there and independent and my friend and we had an emotional connection I'd probably date him. And try and help him get some independence to lead a life he'd want. Money is not a factor. Success is based on happiness. Money can come and go. Life can change. Circumstances change. You could have a man with a full head of hair that goes bald (like my husband who started to thin when we were engaged) it bothered him and his family. Never me. Bc I loved him for who he was (and he is nice looking by the way) we had our ups and downs and in my dating life before him had lots of boyfriends. The chauchy guys that thought they were so hot and tried to flash me money for tips in the bar (I was a bartender and waitress while putting myself through university) I was never attracted to that. Money flasher's, arragonce will never ever be slot had ever been a turn on for me. I've had a lot of boyfriends and many by what standards to shallow people think are so hot. I've had dated many people but it was never on looks. Every single one of my boyfriend's , including my husband, started off as friends first. And to this day, I am still friends with ever single one of them

[Mollynotgemma]

What defines ugly! No one is ugly... yes there are people I don’t fancy. But doesn’t mean they’re ugly!
I do believe good looking women end up with what is deemed as an ugly bloke! Because women genuinely love a personality!

[brennanhuff]

people act like there aren't caring, nice , charming men who are also quite handsome. ha. You'd think beautiful women would go after these guys who are like complete packages...

[jeemm]

What's the question?

If you're asking why it happens "always" then look beyond appearances. Wealth, power, emotional stability, strong sense of self, confident and other things that make those men attractive to those women.

[AaronKrieger]

Sometimes people fall in love with someone because of their personality and past actions to where they find their appearance mroe attractive because of that. Like I've found girls that are pretty to not be attractive simply because they have an awful personality.

[samiammm]

I do get what are you trying to say.


In reality we remember such odd couples a lot more.
That's all.


By your logic all the good looking guys won't have any pretty girls left for them.
It ain't like that.


Also I don't think pretty is the only thing that matters to people.
A beautiful lady could marry an ugly looking guy because of other reasons including his personality or his brains.

[Beth12345]

Ugly men are articulate. They know what women want to hear and they know how to say it. If you want to attract women, learn to speak very well but don't lie to her. I fallen for an ugly man before, he rejected me tho. He said, "You are very tempting and beautiful but I'm talking to the girl of my dreams. I would never damage my chances with her.". His rejection didn't hurt, if anything, it give me hope. I'm still hoping to find a man who loves me as much as he loves her. 😭

[Avicenna]

Although attractiveness is generally subjective, I'd imagine that even wealthy guys are more likely to be attractive since it is easier to eat a healthy diet and take care of your body when you have more money, and it's especially difficult for a low earner.

[ShortCircuit]

Those girls really aren't all that pretty, and are probably even less pretty without makeup. But yeah, those first two girls are still quite a bit more attractive than their partners, though not by as much as you might think. As for the third example though, I genuinely think they're in the same league.

[aficionado]

It is all about money! All these supposedly 'ugly' men have wagonloads of cash, and that's what gets them these 'pretty' women.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

#1: Some women feel more secure knowing their man is less better looking than them so it makes the woman look like she is the superior one who gave him a chance instead of the other way around.

#2: Women can also feel secure knowing no woman will desire her ugly boyfriend or husband.

[Asker]

Nah I dated an ugly guy and his ex wanted him back bad also his friend that's a girl

[Anonymous]

They are not ugly. Just because someone isn't specially attractive looking doesn't deserve to be called ugly, there is average in between. Only the first guy is look-wise clearly out of her league, but he's much older too. Confident, rich and powerful are qualities women value more. Men want hot wife to fuck, women want a high status provider.

[eschneider]

when you can and have had what-ever you want, you tend to learn what you find attractive. I have dated some of the prettiest girls and not so pretty ones. I don't remember their looks, I remember my interactions, and how naive I was, or how superficial I was when younger. I still miss a few of the ones I let get away.

[modelUN242]

Only Hollywood and celebrities, not likely with everyday people, unless the guy is a software engineer who makes good dough and knows how to converse well, sure. But high IQ is generally coincided with good looks.

[Finchie40]

Because looks aren’t everything , their will always be someone more attractive or hotter then we are. , so that shouldn’t be a reason to not fall for someone , their inner beauty is what’s most important

[AlexisSlim]

Most ugly guys aren't full of themselves and their personalities usually make up for what they lack in physical appearance.

[Flower7]

Maybe they like them for their personality. Sometimes a guy who's not physically attractive can start being perceived as attractive if he has a good enough personality.

[Kimgary]

Yea if you are wondering why that happens, they take care of ladies more, something most men need to learn now

[OurManFlint]

Not true.