Always see pretty girls with ugly guys?

[Anonymous]

[justboredlol]

This and these comments are so dumb. Do none of you realise that not every single relationship is about looks, money, or sex? Jesus.
First of all, what's "ugly" and "attractive" is different in everyone's eyes, and even if you meet someone you didn't find entirely attractive when you first met, if they have an amazing personality then everything else about them just becomes beautiful in their eyes.
I think a lot of these comments are just bitter people who got wronged by one person and think that ALL people of that gender are f*cking evil or something.
Plus, women TEND to be more conscious of their appearance, so of course they're going to look like the more attractive one in the relationship because naturally that's how they usually want to come across, and can you blame them? Who doesn't wanna feel pretty? Jesus. Think before you answer ffs

[SjE78]

Exactly... beauty can never be explained as just physical appearance, no matter what society would have people believe, and as such runs deeper and is more varied overall to just one thing...

for me personally beauty is what a person is on the inside, who they are to all around them...
for the next person beauty could be a physical attraction, someone else might just need them to make them laugh, or for them to stand against them and show courage for them to see their inner beauty

what is to 1 is never the case for the next

it's refreshing to see someone else notice that though tbh

[LizzyHale]

Everybody tells me I’m into ugly older men. And I know it am. It’s because the best looking women are the most insecure about themselves. The more pretty you are, the more pressure you have to constantly prove your prettiness because that’s what everybody expects since your out on a pedestal at birth. So having a man with no looks garuntees me that I won’t have to worry about being pressured to be pretty anymore because at my worst we are in the same league. If that makes any sense, that’s the honest truth. Not all this gold digger stuff. I had a crush on a 48 year old man that made as much as I did. That plays no part in why I choose uglier men.

[abc3643]

The top picture of Olivia Wilde and Salman Rushdie is misleading because 1) they are not a couple and 2) she's known him since she was a kid.


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Famous heirs and heiresses who inherited a fortune

Olivia Wilde
Estimated net worth: $20 million
Wealth inherited from: Andrew Cockburn

As a child, she hung out with the likes of Mick Jagger and Salman Rushdie, and when Olivia Wilde grew up, she became one of the most well-liked actresses in the biz. Wilde, who originally wanted to be a doctor, began her acting career when she landed a part on the 2001 drama The OC. She then landed the role of Dr. Remy ‘Thirteen’ Hadley in the TV medical drama, House.

[SjE78]

beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and isn't skin deep, it describes someone's heart and personality, how they are towards those around them...

to you those guys are ugly, but to them they are everything they wished for.

it would be no different if roles were reversed... and tbh I have found over the years a lot of shallow people tend to have issues with the combination of couples, and many of those cannot understand that it is their choice and their lives... but still attempt too ridicule and persecute them for being happy

[AmandaYVR]

Different criteria for choosing mates. So simple. Nothing more to say.

[Unit1]

Money?

Go on, unleash your feedback. I'll be all ears.

[AmandaYVR]

@Unit1 Well, thanks for the green light. And you're a hoot. But nah, I'm a bit bored of the topic, and I'm not going to waste energy on anon generic questions anymore. Only if they're really facing a true dilemma. Otherwise, not interesting to me to put more time in. Credibility of others matters to me.
I'll do some more in-depth mytakes about gender stuff later.

[Unit1]

Oh well. Too bad. Rest assured it wasn't going to be about never winning and argument like you see the bitter blues are doing

[GlitterFairy16]

It's not all to do with money. Planty of beautiful woman have had to learn from there own experiences but there is so much more to love than just the physical side of things. If a highly attractive woman dates a highly attractive man usually its less likely that man will appreciate and value her beauty and will just think he can have any woman he wants once this one gets old and less attractive.

Women like men who will feel lucky to be with them and as if her beauty would never compare to another woman who would give him a chance.

Plus a man who takes to much pride in his looks is a very unattractive traits and women like men who have more to them just looks, looks don't last forever.

[GlitterFairy16]

For example, these women in the pictures are successful and rich on their own accord even before they probably met these men so i don't understand why they would feel the need to marry a man based on his income

[Unit1]

Very nice try! I asked the opposite question just yesterday here

Have you ever seen a rich man with an ugly or fat girlfriend?

To answer your question: Not really. But I don't doubt there are beautiful women with ugly or fat boyfriends. I just don't recall seeing more than one-two unconfirmed times. I do remember one beautiful young woman (20 i think?) holding hands with someone, who looks like he's 60 years old.

[Asker]

I see it all the time maybe its because I live in a city

[Rab1901]

Which city?

[Unit1]

How ugly are we talking about? Like just ew not my type ugly or ugly like deformed face and 150 KG with glasses and neckbeard type ugly?

[Asker]

Ugly like fat neckbeard loosing hair ugly

[Unit1]

Point made and taken!

[MrMilti]

Its because of the difference in how the sexual market value (SMV) of the genders are rooted

- Women become attractive to men, when they are good looking, nurturing and young

- Men are attractive to women, when they can provide for her, are wealthy, famous or otherwise influential.

Its an evolutionary thing

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

No way. I love being independent and strong enough to provide on my own... also while causing a bit of trouble I'd the guy thinks he can be "in charge"

[MrMilti]

No one said, that you cannot be strong or provide for yourself. But that does not change, what people find attractive.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

I guess we disagree
Im a woman and it’s not those things for me

[MrMilti]

And it is perfectly fine to disagree, I dont have a problem with that 😉

So in theory: Would you date or marry a man, who has no job and still lives with his parents, but otherwise treats you really well and is good looking? Or would his lack of success be a no-go for you?

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

It would depend on our relationship. If he's honest, trying to make a difference for himself and if I'm attracted to him as a person. Meaning he has integrity. He could be the hottest guy in the world but if he lacks hard work, motivation and character he wouldn't be my type. Now if he was hard working, had a reason for living there and independent and my friend and we had an emotional connection I'd probably date him. And try and help him get some independence to lead a life he'd want. Money is not a factor. Success is based on happiness. Money can come and go. Life can change. Circumstances change. You could have a man with a full head of hair that goes bald (like my husband who started to thin when we were engaged) it bothered him and his family. Never me. Bc I loved him for who he was (and he is nice looking by the way) we had our ups and downs and in my dating life before him had lots of boyfriends. The chauchy guys that thought they were so hot and tried to flash me money for tips in the bar (I was a bartender and waitress while putting myself through university) I was never attracted to that. Money flasher's, arragonce will never ever be slot had ever been a turn on for me. I've had a lot of boyfriends and many by what standards to shallow people think are so hot. I've had dated many people but it was never on looks. Every single one of my boyfriend's , including my husband, started off as friends first. And to this day, I am still friends with ever single one of them

[Mollynotgemma]

What defines ugly! No one is ugly... yes there are people I don’t fancy. But doesn’t mean they’re ugly!
I do believe good looking women end up with what is deemed as an ugly bloke! Because women genuinely love a personality!

[brennanhuff]

people act like there aren't caring, nice , charming men who are also quite handsome. ha. You'd think beautiful women would go after these guys who are like complete packages...

[jeemm]

What's the question?

If you're asking why it happens "always" then look beyond appearances. Wealth, power, emotional stability, strong sense of self, confident and other things that make those men attractive to those women.

[AaronKrieger]

Sometimes people fall in love with someone because of their personality and past actions to where they find their appearance mroe attractive because of that. Like I've found girls that are pretty to not be attractive simply because they have an awful personality.

[samiammm]

I do get what are you trying to say.


In reality we remember such odd couples a lot more.
That's all.


By your logic all the good looking guys won't have any pretty girls left for them.
It ain't like that.


Also I don't think pretty is the only thing that matters to people.
A beautiful lady could marry an ugly looking guy because of other reasons including his personality or his brains.

[Beth12345]

Ugly men are articulate. They know what women want to hear and they know how to say it. If you want to attract women, learn to speak very well but don't lie to her. I fallen for an ugly man before, he rejected me tho. He said, "You are very tempting and beautiful but I'm talking to the girl of my dreams. I would never damage my chances with her.". His rejection didn't hurt, if anything, it give me hope. I'm still hoping to find a man who loves me as much as he loves her. 😭

[Avicenna]

Although attractiveness is generally subjective, I'd imagine that even wealthy guys are more likely to be attractive since it is easier to eat a healthy diet and take care of your body when you have more money, and it's especially difficult for a low earner.

[ShortCircuit]

Those girls really aren't all that pretty, and are probably even less pretty without makeup. But yeah, those first two girls are still quite a bit more attractive than their partners, though not by as much as you might think. As for the third example though, I genuinely think they're in the same league.

[aficionado]

It is all about money! All these supposedly 'ugly' men have wagonloads of cash, and that's what gets them these 'pretty' women.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

#1: Some women feel more secure knowing their man is less better looking than them so it makes the woman look like she is the superior one who gave him a chance instead of the other way around.

#2: Women can also feel secure knowing no woman will desire her ugly boyfriend or husband.

[Asker]

Nah I dated an ugly guy and his ex wanted him back bad also his friend that's a girl

[Anonymous]

They are not ugly. Just because someone isn't specially attractive looking doesn't deserve to be called ugly, there is average in between. Only the first guy is look-wise clearly out of her league, but he's much older too. Confident, rich and powerful are qualities women value more. Men want hot wife to fuck, women want a high status provider.

[eschneider]

when you can and have had what-ever you want, you tend to learn what you find attractive. I have dated some of the prettiest girls and not so pretty ones. I don't remember their looks, I remember my interactions, and how naive I was, or how superficial I was when younger. I still miss a few of the ones I let get away.

[modelUN242]

Only Hollywood and celebrities, not likely with everyday people, unless the guy is a software engineer who makes good dough and knows how to converse well, sure. But high IQ is generally coincided with good looks.

[Finchie40]

Because looks aren’t everything , their will always be someone more attractive or hotter then we are. , so that shouldn’t be a reason to not fall for someone , their inner beauty is what’s most important

[AlexisSlim]

Most ugly guys aren't full of themselves and their personalities usually make up for what they lack in physical appearance.

[Flower7]

Maybe they like them for their personality. Sometimes a guy who's not physically attractive can start being perceived as attractive if he has a good enough personality.

[StephenCF]

It’s all money. Would Donald Trump have dated Melania (or any woman like her) if he was a commoner earning minimum wage?

[Sarahr123]

Melania looks like a man

[Kimgary]

Yea if you are wondering why that happens, they take care of ladies more, something most men need to learn now

[OurManFlint]

Not true.

[rjroy3]

How do you know that's not just your superficial nature talking and that the guy is really a cool dude whom you'd like if you got to know them?

[drearyknight187]

Money. Some women will use their attractiveness for money with and get with a rich old man or some ugly prick because he's rich.

[TonyV]

The top guy is old but none of them seem that ugly, and the girl in second pic isn't thaaat pretty. also looks areant that inportant ro everyone.

[genericname85]

girls are superficial in different ways than "visual looks". if a girl is with a ugly guy, you know that guy can bring shit to the table that she really wants.

[Cryptic-Game]

I'm pretty sure they care about their wealth over their appearance.

[DizzyDesii]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But they could've been with him for status, respect or money purposes

[DizzyDesii]

Celebs date down in hopes that person will put up with all their BS. They want someone who values them and won't cheat

[michael1469]

Well either $$$ or...

[Anonymous]

It's because those guys have money and or fame. I doubt you'd see a real good looking woman like any of the ones above with an ugly guy that's an average middle class person

[Asker]

I have in person pretty girls with ugly guys all the time

[sensible27]

People sometimes overestimate or exaggerate the importance of what they don't have.

[Anonymous]

That's because those ugly guys are successful. No woman is going to date a bum.

[Daniela1982]

They either have money, connections, or a great personality.

[ScottSummers]

[ButtaGrey]

Trust, there are some ugly women with guys other women want. 😂

[Asker]

yeah I dated this ugly guy once and his ex tried to get him back so bad

[ButtaGrey]

Lmao 😂 Sometimes physical beauty can be offset by how one treats another. Rather be respected
by a decent girl than treated by shit
by a IG model.

[stickytoes]

The guys in the images aren’t ugly. If he’s actually ugly and a lot older she’s probably with him because of his money.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Nobody looks uguly the first person is just bald so what lol😂 she will loose her beauty as well and maybe it's just make up

[Sarahr123]

She’s ugly. Just the middle woman is okay looking with all that slap on. The other two are ugly. The bottom one looks old and manly. They’re really boring looking.

[Sweetener_]

Ugly guys deserve some love too

[nelly83]

Pretty is subjective. The women you uploaded above I wouldn’t call pretty. Maybe you think they are but not me

[cth96190]

Only if the ugly men have a lot of money and/or fame.

[SaraSmithishere]

I live in Los Angeles and work with rich people for a living, and I never see pretty women with ugly men.

[Freddy78361]

I only see pretty girls with rich guys.

[Anonymous]

Women date for money or power so if she already has money and she dates because the guy has powerful connections. Women date guys that are going to benefit them in someway, has little to do with looks.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Nope. Not true for all

[Opinion Owner]

@girlzruleboyzdrool actions speak louder than words.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Clearly you only see the actions you want to
Maybe you should surround yourself in new people and an environment if that’s what you’ve been exposed to

[Opinion Owner]

@girlzruleboyzdrool Soooo don’t go into basic society? Is that what you’re saying.
Since the general actions of females show this to be true.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Your blind to the rest of the world

[Opinion Owner]

@girlzruleboyzdrool No I am actually not blind to the reality of how women act. You are blind to the actions of other women and assume how YOU are is how all other women are.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

I said "not true for all"
You argued that

[Opinion Owner]

@girlzruleboyzdrool the NAWALT (not all women are like that) idea is a given, unless I specifically said ALL WOMEN... the concept of general statement applies. The only reason anyone uses the nawalt scapegoat is because they can’t handle criticismz

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Not true. I handle criticism well. But i have a right to disagree with you 😉
Unless of course you can't handle that

[Opinion Owner]

@girlzruleboyzdrool no you have every right to disagree with something but you’re not disagreeing you’re just saying “not all...” which is a ridiculous deflection because everyone knows it’s not all. You’re not giving any actual criticism.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Sigh... I think there's no point in discussing this. Guess we agree to disagree. Hopefully you open your eyes one day to all of the world not just part of it

[datingisdead]

MONEY! That's why. If you have money you can have your pick... 🤣🤣

But then again the women are only with them just because of that. So yeah 🤷🏼‍♂️ it is funny.

[SweetMIC]

These women in the photo though all have money too so not sure this is the best example lol

[datingisdead]

Maybe but it happens anyway 🤣

Even when the woman has money too or not.. Bitches only want someone else's money.

After all Dating & Love Are Dead... Not worth it & bloody shit! 👍🏻

[Anonymous]

Women are gold diggers.
Wait..
Lemme fix that...
ALL women are gold diggers.

That's why nice guys finish last and rich ugly assholes are found swimming in women.

[CaramelCookie]

What a douchebag

[Opinion Owner]

Go back to your abusive boyfriend if you wanted something gold coated.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

It's comments like yours why they Def. Wouldn't date you! Money has nothing to do with it. It depends on the girl you asshat
We are individuals. Just bc we don't have a dick doesn't make us all the same in our morals ad views you moron.
That's like me saying all men are dumb. .. like you... based on this comment

[Opinion Owner]

@girlzruleboyzdrool You're gonna say that with a straight face right under those images?

Out of the nice guys who treasure a woman and rich abusive assholes, only one of them is found covered in women.

You can call me dumb all live long day but you'd also be the first one to get on their knees once I pull out a stack of $100 bills.

I find prostitutes to be more honourable than you filthy low lives. At least they know they're in it for the money. But y'all gold diggers have the same line, "i Am nOt a GoLd dIgGeR. sOmE wOmEn aRe, bUt nOt alL".

Like any gold digger is ever gonna say she is one.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

BahHha you have mommy issues

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

The fact you find prostitute's honourable means that's the only action you get... BahHha you have to buy sex. Clearly you are lame to be around. Probably a narcissistic her who feels so down by all your rejection of the girls you do want
Not all girls are gold diggers but hey those are the ones you obviously notice
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Spoken like every generic gold digger. "i Am nOt a GoLd DigGeR. sOmE aRe, BuT nOT mE".

Every sex from a woman is bought. Directly or indirectly. Monetory or non-monetory.

With prostitutes at least, one doesn't have to deal with tantrums and uncertainty. You get what you pay for.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Guess life for you is sticking your dick in a hole you paid for... like the 200 guys before being in the same hole
Your def someone who girls don’t want to be with
You can e the richest in the world and you sound disgusting

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

You have to buy sex bc no one wants you

[Opinion Owner]

A prostitute's hole is much better than you, a gold digger's hole.

Like I said, every sex from a woman is bought, directly or indirectly, monetory or non-monetory.

You can't name a single woman who slept with a guy on the first date or otherwise without him providing or promising to provide any monetory compensation in return, let alone she herself providing or promising to provide because she genuinely liked him and wanted a future with him.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

@CaramelCookie yes!!

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

I feel sorry for you dude
You will never be happy for that outlook
People can truly be happy and money and looks have nothing to do with it
In your bubble world maybe but maybe you should try and open your eyes
Just maybe you could be wrong
My hubby and I started out as friends and both of us at the same income and both in college working for everything we have
And we did it together
And we never focus on what others have
Only ourselves and work as a team
If you’re not a troll and you genuinely feel that way? You’re going to be bitter
I’m actually sad that you haven’t been able to find happiness
Maybe stop looking around so much and face the man in the mirror

[Opinion Owner]

What's the other gold digger saying?

If someone is not a gold digger, then they're just ugly.

If your story about your husband is true, then I am safe to say you're so ugly that he is the best you could do. Because there is no way you wouldn't dump his ass if you were in a position were a rich guy would be interested in you.

Or maybe your husband is staring at a handsome inheritance.

[CaramelCookie]

Hahaha who hurt you sourpuss?

[CaramelCookie]

@girlzruleboyzdrool haha he’s just a miserable loser

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Baaha. I'm pretty confident in my appearance 😉

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

@CaramelCookie yeah. Must be ugg's, and rich and still can't get any

[mattl338]

I feel sorry for you. You either have mommy issues or you're too weak and spineless to where a girl changed you. Hating on a whole gender is toxic and you're apart of the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

@CaramelCookie Your mom

[Opinion Owner]

@girlzruleboyzdrool Confidence doesn't fix a bald head

[Opinion Owner]

@mattl338 Says the simp who prolly likes to be pegged.

[mattl338]

Lol if you have no other argument besides calling me a simp than I already won. Also you clearly don’t know what a simp is if you think someone’s a simp for standing up to someone who’s generalizing a whole gender based off the actions off someone who got his little heart broken and is so hateful and toxic that they label a whole gender as being gold diggers and shitting on them for no reason. Id say this even if you were a girl hating on men because that shit irritates me. Nobody cares that you don’t wanna date. Do you. However don’t hate on a whole gender for the actions of a few. Also educate yourself on what a simp is 💀

[Opinion Owner]

@mattl338 My argument was never about calling you a simp. It was about how all women are gold diggers and I gave multiple proofs as to why that is true. But you gave a rebuttal to it by calling me spineless who has mommy issues and that makes you the one without an argument. And in high probability, a simp.

If you were really standing up for women, you'd be bring facts and proof, but the simp that you are, you just want to be classified as the wannabe "brave" guy who calls others spineless and hopes to get laid.

And it's not generalizing if it's true. And you know that since you got nothing else to say than that I have mommy issues.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

@mattl338 well said

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

I don't even know what that means

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Let's discuss your mom then... shall we?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They don't even look that bad and what is ugly to you isn't ugly to anyone so you can speak for yourself.

[fred_durst]

very ugly rich guy still have chances with girls thousand times better than most good lookin guy with empty wallet

[jwhitt89]

I've never seen an ugly guy with a pretty girl in real life. I've always seen pretty women with good looking guys. So, I don't believe it's possible for me.

[simplelikeme]

Most of the time...🤣🤣🤣
It's clear she's not there for the looks lol

[OddBeMe]

I think it shows women are more thoughtful about partners.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes.
The first question in my mind is always 'money or social status' if I see such unbalanced couple.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think Olivia Wilde is with that guy, I think she is with Jason Sudakis, but they are with ugly rich guys is why

[mrgspoter]

Yes but do you ever see ugly guys with no money with prity women now pat that guy on the back lol

[Anonymous]

No those guys are better looking than those girls. Even with all that slap on they look ugly. Their features aren’t nice and they’re boring looking and unexotic and look old.

[Asker]

I think the guys look worse unexotic? white? what features

[Opinion Owner]

Those women have small eyes, they lack facial harmony, their chins are big, no definition in the cheeks, the bottom one has a long and horsey face and is too pasty, they have way too thin lips, masculine features. The middle one only looks okayish out of the three but she isn’t even amazing or exotic. Those men are probably rich but they choose some ugly women. All these women look at least 40+ and the bottom one looks 50+

[Asker]

they have jawlines if that's what you mean

[Opinion Owner]

Only the middle woman has a nice narrow v shaped feminine jawline. The bottom woman has a manly wide jaw and the top one is plain and ugly.

[Opinion Owner]

Teachers in my school looked better than those women without dressing up, professional makeup, professional photography and professional hair stylists. Even those teachers were called plain so what are these women lol?

[Asker]

haha you are funny yeah they look ok I guess I do see better looking people in person

[Machiavellio]

Often the lioks on the outside reflect huge contrast on the inside. Don't let appearances fool you

[chriscdi]

which means they have money

[TheFlak38]

yeah. how to detect a rich guy.

[DamnSam]

*hint

Maybe personality counts a bit too

[DCooper]

Haha good one! :p

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Sometimes personality and charm play a role tok

[brennanhuff]

yeah, but it's weird for such beautiful women to be with ugly dudes even if he has a nice personality. It's very binary thinking. It's like assuming, ugly dudes have nice personalities and charm and handsome guys are jerks or not so charming. You know there are many good looking guys who also have personality and tons of charm. Though they more often or not are womanizers, which may be why some pretty women stay away from them because of all the attention these guys would get and competition and jealousy it might create for even a beautiful woman to be in such a relationship with said man. But there are plenty of guys that are good looking, with charming personalities and are good guys. Then again, with that combo that probably aren't single and the women who are with them try to stay with these guys for good...

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

@brennanhuff yeah but not everyone goes after only looks
And besides maybe those guys are attractive to them...

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

@brennanhuff I've dated some guys that weren't amazingly hot but we're super fun to be around and get into trouble with. Personality cuts for a lot and maybe these guys have the charm that the other guys didn't. Of course you can have both but does t mean those personalities will mesh

[Prof_Don]

Looks only matter beyond a certain threshold.

[MannMitAntworten]

Only in Hollyweird. The reverse in life otherwise.

[Asker]

I use to live in new york saw it all the time now I see it all the time where I live now

[MannMitAntworten]

I live in a tourist town. I definitely do not doubt you. Just not what is the norm from my own observations. I do occasionally see the dopey looking guy with a wow looking gal. However more often than not, the reverse was true.