What is One thing you are Holding back from your SO but Don't mean to?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

I can't think of anything. After almost 25 years, my wife and I know each other very well. We trust each other and know how to communicate without judgement or defensiveness.

That doesn't mean that I blab to her about things that are irrelevant. For example, I don't tell her "I masturbated today while you were at work." It's not important.

30 years ago, I lived with one particular woman for over a year. I loved her with my heart and soul and still think about her. We reconnected on Facebook and even talked a few times on the phone about 20 years after we split up. About five years later, she passed away from a sudden medical problem. It left a hole in my heart that will never heal. I told my wife about the death of my friend because I needed someone to share my grief with. But there would be no constructive reason to go into how much I loved that woman or why.
I wouldn't trade my wife for the world. I look forward to spending the rest of my life with her. But telling her all about my love affair with another woman before I met her would unconstructive.

Dude_777 · Accepted Answer

Would rather not share here, because if she finds out through here, i will be in big trouble for posting publicly, but not telling her 😅. It will be an unforgettable major sin in her eyes.

ariadneR · Accepted Answer

Nothing.
Even if im too scared to tell him something, whether it be from embarrassment or I'm just scared of his reaction, uts better that I get it out there. He has never judged me for anything and Id rather he be mad at me in the beginning and work it out with him than keeping it from him and it eating me from the inside slowly. You know the guilt.

lanadelrey25 · Accepted Answer

A sexual fantasy I want to try with him. It's not that crazy or anything but he's quite shy and I don't want him to judge me.

humanearth · Answer

Nothing, really as long was we been together. It hard to hold anything Back from each other.

Like I can walk up to her and say. Damn hun, your breath smells like dog shit and she will just say fuck you. Then go on with her day.

But that kind of love doesn't happen overnight. That kind of love builds up over the decades

Leavesbound · Answer

Don't currently have a SO. In the past with one SO I kept from her that I wanted children after she told me she was "not a breeder."

REALSTEEL · Answer

Not that I'm holding anything back i just don't care about anything anymore after everything I have been threw i have my puppy he is my world thats all I need i guess

nolabels · Answer

I'm a total sex freak. She's completely asexual.

Wiredone · Answer

I don't hold back anything. We've been married to long for that

Marioz86 · Answer

It's hard to hold anything from someone you care about. I couldn't for long.

Iron_Man · Answer

When I had a long-term relationship I held back absolutely nothing

menina · Answer

Nothing. I'm single until 2025.

msc545 · Answer

Nothing at all. I don't do that.

douride2 · Answer

At the present time I don't have a SO.

llcanon · Answer

don't have a significant other no more-passed away

Nahid1707 · Answer

I’m not in a relationship 😊

dudeinohio · Answer

nothing

princeofromance · Answer

Nothing

CubaPirate · Answer

Sex occasionally lol

alexis6996 · Answer

My pussy lol

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