If a woman has humor and wit then that is super sexy to me.
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Being incredibly gentle and kind. I don't know why but I absolutely fall head over heels for a guy like that especially if they're good with animals and or kids. I want to find a man with a draft horse personality. They're just so gosh darn sweet that it's impossible not to fall for them and I really love it when they pick me up, or give me their baseball cap unprompted, or offer me some of their drink. Also being picked up and cuddled or loving/understanding eye contact is a huge turn on. Which is kinda embarrassing but oh well
I love a guy who has a good sense of humor and does not take himself too seriously. I also like playful guys since I'm playful myself. A good listener is definitely sexy and that trait is hard to find nowadays in men. I also like guys who are adventurous since I am adventurous too. The sexiest is when a man is independent and can take care himself.
Savoring the 'AFFECT' her alluring flirtatious teasing draws forth from a 'gentleman'-ly guy TRYING to restrain his evolutionary animal desire! Her warm breath or just the tip of her tongue... in One's ear!
As the legendary 'bad girl' Mae West famously teased, the palm of her hand lightly caressing her co-star's trousers inseam:
"Is that a rock in your pocket? Or, are (intimate parts of) You just 'happy' to see ME?"
Research AC/DC's ballad: "YOU Shook Me ALL Night Long" lyrics! <3
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Not afraid to be little kinky , but not freaky, little naughty, little shy at times, one who can command a room , Knows how to turn heads and make people want more , yet is sweet and humble never over the top. Has my best at heart and hers as well but sometimes throws caution to the wind live on that edge now ands then. I have that person and much more. she is great and i couldn't be any luckier. unless she was a twin and they both were here second thought check that, just one i wouldn't hold up to two of them. LOL
Availability, presence, loyalty.
Loyalty especially (most people get hurt as children and then avoid being loyal to those they actually like for fear of getting hurt again - beyond that fear, if you can handle your own choices and preferences and feelings - you can re-do the sweet 16 (or do it right for the first time if you missed it))
Weird, wonderful, but not easy (therapists don't want you to stop paying their bills so they turn you into psyche, the Greek tragic character, and then analyse, dissect and delude you into remaining tragic, because they themselves were hurt and misery needs company )Wit is the sexiest trait for me.
I would say "confidence" broadly, but not really, it's really when a woman is quick-witted and not afraid to ruffle people's feathers in the process.
It doesn't faze me personally, I will smile even if they are being witty and a little insolent even at my expense.I like when girls are clumpsy not because I wanna play the protector/knight what ever it just boots my confidence because it shows to me that they trust me with their imperfect character traits.
It also helps to bond with her and reduces the anxiety of showing my emotions to her.A woman should have intelligence on topics and think for herself and I don't mean being some Fox News or CNN junky or a zombie-following Democrat or Republican supporter. Because it's easy to regurgitate what a 160 or so word limit Tweet mentions about the news and act smart by what a news anchor or a podcast host says. I am not saying it's bad but for me real intelligence is doing research. It's easy to have flawed views about a certain country or religion because the media keeps spewing out their narrative. A girl should know different religions, ideologies, political topics. Also it's a major plus if she a sense of humour as well. I know people won't agree with my first point but that's something I look for in a girl and I find attractive.
Confidence
(admittedly they are a few others lol)Intelligence. Followed by a (legitimate) sense of humor, something VERY rare in women.
The ones I find least attractive are confidence, stupidity, shallowness, and narcissism.Fiesty, sophisticated and never overly sure of herself. But like a lawyer you goes all out on playfulness in bed. I'm talking the UwUs and Ara Aras, butt plug tails, twerking and slobbery goodness. All part of a well balanced personality trait. I'd never stop busting
When my S/O becomes focused, and animated when she shares her fascination with me regarding abnormal psychology. Her face lights up, her smile. She becomes incandescant. truly extraordinary.
Someone with an open mind and who can assert themselves when necessary
1. HONESTYYYY!!
2. LOVE FOR ONES CULTURE AND COUNTRY i. e nationalism.
3. SELF RESPECT AND MORALS.
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confidence is key... to me.
with the right kind of confidence, there's a lot of things that can be sexy about women. Flirting, my god flirting is above all the best trait, being able o flirt witha loved one and laugh or get inside jokes from it all is fucking amazing, would trade anything for a girl whos good at flirting with me
If someone is protective of me and my son. Nothing gets me going then a man willing to protect us at all costs 😏
If she have a lot of selfconfidence. And be friendly and happy
Intelligence. Real intelligence and not feigned intellect in that she pretends to be informed with superficial knowledge on a small array of subjects, but real and deep intelligence.
Confidence, wit, sarcasm, kinky, funny, protective, in charge.
A willingness to fight or even kill. Not like a criminal, obviously. I mean more like a warrior, or cop/soldier or a hunter. It's hot when a woman can shoot a feral hog dead or beat a creep senseless.
I would have to say confidence. I hate it when the person I am with does not have it.
Must be confident but not cocky โ๏ธ
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