What makes a black lady attracted or more attracted to a white guy?

[Anonymous]

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I'm happily surprise with all the comments I gotta over this. I was expecting this to go down very sour. Thanks

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I decided to let her go! And this time I was officially told from her employers that her Second job offer her more hours, options now and she’s more happy now at her Second job now then she was at her first job where I was seeing her! I also found out she’s a single mom and it wouldn’t work out anyways. I hope you guys understand. Thanks everyone!! 😊

[Anonymous]

Well I have a type for guys who are different, means like a goofy loner for example. What makes me even more attracted to a white guy is when you can clearly see that he has no problem with other races (espacially black people) and loves learning about other cultures and is open minded. He is understanding and doesn’t judge as he respects the culture. That‘s what really turns me on about white guys.


I have a crush on a white guy on the moment who is very attractive to me. Not because he looks great, I mean he is average but it‘s his way of thinking, plus he is like I described earlier a goofy guy, a little shy and introverted, tall, quiet a loner who plays basketball (what I didn’t knew and made me even fall harder for him). He is just so cute and I know he likes me to but is probably too shy to make an approach.

[Asker]

This actually sounds almost just like me. I used to play basketball but only shooting the loops not 1on1 or the other games. My problem is from the start that I knew that she liked me but I started avoiding her because I only ride either Uber or bus around town and I'm very opened minded and all but Also I'm very playful and very kinky but not crazy enough to do MFM or more but FMF sounds very interesting but I consider that as a fantasy of mine and I been rejected because of all of those. For years since high school I been rejected, disappeared, let down, embarrassed, heartbroken and hurt awful lot and Right now she's wondering if I like her or not. Also I never and don't know how to make a move on a cashier who work small organic store before. I hate to admit I'm kind of scared about it

[Asker]

With your crush. Maybe he has problems making a move on you because he could be possibly feeling the same way like I am. If he accepts your phone number he'll might having problems calling you too because calling girls on the phone for the first time feels like a interview process. then after the interview process then it became a orientation then if either of you still very like each other then it becomes the Acceptance but with probation like you won me so far but I can still reject you at this stage too if I find any red flags. After passing their probationary periods they'll shouldn't find any reasons to rejected ya and hopefully both of ya don't raise any red flags.

[Asker]

Also from all this. If both of you are right or a match for each other then both of you should passed with flying colors. Also means when you find your matchs everything should be easier for the both of you but everybody has ups and downs.

[natured]

I don't think skin color plays a major role in the dating game anymore when you become an adult, yes i said it, a MATURE ADULT does not look at skin color or ethnicity in general. ONCE you are mature, you do not care about these things as much as you care about being happy and finding your soulmate that will complete you.

[Asker]

It's not the color. At the beginning we only chatted but she wasn't interested until few weeks later I said something then it flipped on her interests gauge then I had to tell her I only take Uber or bus around town but she's still chasing me then I started avoiding her with reasons then she started to get closer then more closer then I also told one of her co workers when she was very near me and heard me that I didn't drive any vehicles and they didn't care. Lately with me still avoiding her she's giving me a lots more eye contacts and when I'm in the front of the store then she walks and stands very close to me and just very recently I ran into her and we walked past each other she was much much more closer enough our bodies came in contact. Right now I'm trying to figure out if you serious about me or not because for years and year I had nothing but rejections, disappointments, embarrassment, heartbroken, hurt, played and so on. Right now she's at the store wondering for weeks if I like her or not and problems are that not others that I'm open-minded but I'm also very playful and very kinky but not crazy enough for MFM or more but FMF sound nice but only a fantasy of mine and most girls really not like very very spicy men like myself and that's one of my other rejections I get from people.

[natured]

I have no Idea what you just implied by your reply, since your question is completely different from what you just commented here. I just think you need to chill

[Asker]

Simply what I'm really trying to say I'm not sure if she's has the same preferences as me

[natured]

It's not about skin though, it's not about society it's about your FEELINGS, you people have to stop overthinking and basing everything on looks and skin. If she's the right one she will love you no matter what you are or what you look like.
It's simple, but if you don't try you will never know

[Asker]

Yeah but I'm too kinky in bed and most girls don't like those men. If I was looking I'm only looking for closed M / F relationship. I do have my kinks but I'm not crazy or a fan for MFM or more, groups or dropping logs 💩 on her. Earlier She showed some else that I got my head itching.

[natured]

I think you should ask a separate question in that case... you're confusing folks out here

[Asker]

Ok. I'm chilled now then earlier. I'll keep it separate now.

[Avicenna]

Attractiveness is multidimensional, so it could be lots of things, including some that have absolutely nothing to do with race. Maybe they share a common interest.

[Asker]

I think it's the attractiveness, the vibes he's sending off to her without realizing it and the mirrorings. This is also a possibility the man she chase's goes after a more confident Caucasian woman and the girls he chases goes after a more confident African male.

[Citizenkirk]

If she is someone who enjoys the company of a nice, friendly guy, and he is a nice, friendly guy who likes being with her.

[Asker]

I liked on what you said. Thank you

[Citizenkirk]

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[jennifer_bloom]

I think it’s been proven that out of all races, white people have the highest tolerance for physical adversity so they might be raised in a culture where tolerance for the errors and hardships of marriage are higher than other groups

[Asker]

Maybe or could be why white woman goes after a African American man. She could thought that hardships with African American wouldn't be so hard but I got sad news all marriages have hardships. I hate to say but with my opinion that money don't bring any happiness. Girls with pure hearts but not the ones with their hearts filled with either gold or money. Pure Women will Chase a man if she find him attractive rather he has money or not or he has dick sizes either its micro penises sizes or his Penis size is big as a big blue whale 🐋 😂. she can finds him sleeping on the streets or finds him sleeping whos married to his work area then they give him a warm blanket with a warm cup of coffee to keep him warm so he won't get the chills. That's a sign of girlfriend / wifey material.

[Anonymous]

I am not talking about men in general, i am just talking about my boyfriend. So dont missunderstand and dont feel offended.

1) When he blush and his cheeks, ears, nose gets pink/rosy. Its so adorable. Especialy when i am the one making him blush 😊😊😊
2) its so cute when he gets nervous to even spank my ass. So i tell him to hit harder😂😂🙈
3) His cute reaction when i introduce about my culture, things he didn't know.
4) He gives a lot of compliments, gives me Good advices.
5) his reaction everytime i change my hair style is so cute. Its like he is dating a New girl every time.
6) his body is attractive. Beautiful hair, beautiful eyes, and he is funny.
7) great sex
8) He works hard🥰🥰🥰

[Bklynbadboy12]

I love this thank you for this response you see so many people post negative responses its great to hear a good one

[Opinion Owner]

You are welcome 😄

[jerdanro]

I'm happy for you both. It sounds like a good relationship.

[SpiderManFan2002]

She likes the way he looks, she likes his personality, she likes who he is as a person?

[Asker]

Even when he doesn't have any licensings or vehicles do to his very good circumstances.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

You can't really say anything about the color of their skin, love blossoms everywhere! Just be you & the rest will follow!

[Asker]

I know but what's hold me back is my preferences and I'm not sure if she has the same preferences with me. Example I'm more spicy then habanero in bed and most girls don't like that. That's what's holding me back from people

[Asker]

I know, but what's holding me back is my preferences and I'm not sure if she has the same preferences as me. Example I'm more spicier then habaneros in bed and most girls don't like that. That's what's holding me back from people

[burlen]

For the same reasons that get people attracted to others. For the same reasons that get you attracted to others.

[jerdanro]

The same reason a lot of white women like black men. Or anyone is attracted to anyone. It starts with what you find physically attractive and then you get to know eachother.

[Asker]

Maybe because the white women can't find a decent guy in her race and maybe some of the other. It also depends how she was raised and treated. Im sure some of them were born in a African-American communities or neighborhoods and townships with large African-American Town folks or school that there were only not so many Caucasian folks or other races.

[ohshee]

First of all she doesn't see color second of all she knows the person on the inside and third of all it's called love

[Qdbrown]

The issue with black women is their attitude. They tend to be nicer to other races, and they are very hard on their own men. So hard that many black men avoid them for long-term relationships.

It would take a special submissive, easy going black woman to even be near dating or marrying a white guy. They are out there, but they are rare. Most black women are nearly militant in their beliefs about men, and very combative.

[Asker]

She also could be one of those rare types if I don't make a move then she's gonna do. she's also showing some signs of being high quality

[Qdbrown]

Don't ever get serious with a girl that akss you out. The power dynamic goes out of your hands, and she will lose respect for you sooner than later.

[Asker]

That didn't happen and won't happen with my brother's wife " white " when she made the first move on my "Portuguese" brother where our mothers ancestors were from Pukikī and my father's ancestors came from Germany LONG LONG before the great world wars.

[Somegirl408]

i find them to be irresistibly attractive. like they r hotttttt. i wonder if guys feel the same about white girls?

[anylolone]

What ever makes people attracted or more attracted to other people.

[Anonymous]

White guys treat them better usually from what my ex told me who was black and I’m white and I’ve this from other black women

[es20490446e]

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[kitkills]

That's true I think anyone would like Keanu Reeves

[es20490446e]

@kitkills Next opening line: "hi, I'm Constantine"

[Anonymous]

his pale skin and the possibility of having a mixed baby with "good hair"

[Brendlolita2]

Omg.

[Curious_Pepper]

That's weird but i have heard Asian girls say something similar

[Opinion Owner]

@Brendlolita2 just keeping it real, i've heard so many black girls say that because they have self hate issues

[Opinion Owner]

@Curious_Pepper it's self hate, they favor all other ethnicities so the baby can come out looking "exotic"

[Mamaganja]

It’s sad. As a black/white individual myself, I can honestly say that my dad told me that the only reason I’m mixed is because he used to get picked on by his family members about how dark he was and that he “better not have children with a black woman” because of how dark his kids would be. Fetishism of mixed children is sickening and some of us grow up with identity issues and no sense of belonging.

[Opinion Owner]

@Mamaganja yess I relate so much being a mixed person as well these are the things we hear
I don't identify with either side because i'm not accepted by them fully and the teasing gets old fast

[Omario2049]

Obviously hypergamy. Massa is the highest man around.

[DreamChaser02]

Personality and preferences?

[acooke-13]

It depends on her preference.

[Anonymous]

Skin color contrast thingy

[UnicornU]

Maybe he’s just her type?

[Asker]

I think it's other way around

[JamesRandiDebates]

She wants to move up in life.

[Asker]

That or she couldn't find a decent guy in her race and she wants to see on whats out there as a confidence lady. Money or not and dick size or not.

[jimmy2]

I don't know but inlove them too

[Asker]

Some but not too often that Black girls do Chase white guys how are racists. if she finds the white boy attractive she'll go very slow on him. If the racist white boy with a good heart he'll might go after her. I'm sure there was people and members in those controversy groups has fallen with people who were and been targeted. Like bullies marries their bully victims or the bully victim goes out on revenge from taking his bully on date night then plan on opening her asshole up then after finishing up the deed then fireworks happen unexpected then date number 10 happens. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Who* are racists*

[Anonymous]

Maybe Cute personality

[Anonymous]

He has a job, a car, a house, even an education...

[Asker]

I think all that doesn't matter to her.

[Opinion Owner]

So she likes white meat...

[JesseJayNeak]

It's called feeling

[In_Trance]

Big dick energy

[Livv-x0]

Maybe he just loaded either with 💵or a big 🍆

[Asker]

I'm sure he doesn't have money or loaded unlike his cousins and I'm also sure he's not big as a Black stallion tornado 🐴 or a
big blue whale Monstro 🐋 as he keeps telling people if size matters and then the human race isn't satisfying you that's when you look elsewhere but don't tell us who you find.

[Anonymous]

Ladybug lolololol