The best way to meet a homebody girl?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ok, so I'm looking for clever ways to meet somone who prefers to stay at home and:
1. Draw/paint.
2. Play difficult video games (fighting games, shooters, etc.).
3. Research Paleontology.
4. Compose music.
5. Build model kits or crazy ass megastructures in minecraft.
6. Watch anime/cartoons, nature documentaries, and sci-fi and fantasy movies.
7. Play with her cat... or her tarantula.
8. Build computers.
9. Invent/perfect food recipies.
10. Make cosplay outfits and other fantasy and sci-fi memorabilia.

This person isn't going to be out and about at bars or gyms or churches (non drinker, high metabolism, hates sports and exerting manual labor in general, and is an atheist)

They like the idea of going to something like comicon but they don't wan't to be the center of attention, and they hate crowds/parties, so they never end up going.

They might go to a library or arcade or zoo or science museum on very rare occasions, but those aren't appropriate places for striking conversation, and small talk annoys intellectuals.

This girl is only interested in a guy who also is a homebody who does all those things.

Whats a good method for meeting this kind of person? (other than gaming networks like xbox live, psn, steam, etc. since typically women hide themselves on those platforms to avoid guys)

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Lmao what an oddly specific list. I'm also uncomfortable with how many of those I qualify for.

Maybe go to one of those conventions and find the wallflowers?

[TheSpaceGnome]

This list is a reflection of myself.

It's not a good idea to break habits or preferences when looking for a partner, because it will result in self misrepresentation.

Also comicon doesn't have wallflowers, you go there to buy stuff while dressed in cosplay outfits or to sell stuff.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What I'm looking for is methods of meeting people while remaining home.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

My wife and I are near complete opposites. She is a planner while I am go with the flow. She is very country and I am more suburb. She is quick to anger and I am very chill. She has no filter and I am very reserved and picky about what I say.

Thing is, it works for us. It didn't distort anything about who I am. She is just the other half of me. She completes the parts im not and we compliment each other well. With 19 years of dating/marriage behind us and no signs of stopping, I think we made the right decision.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats nice. That kind of relationship dynamic wouldn't work for me though, I'm more a "two peas in a pod" kind of person.

I don't feel incomplete, let alone like half a person, I'm more the overachiever type, if there is something lacking in myself that I want to be part of me, I just learn that skill, and I would want a girlfriend that is the same way, always bettering herself with knowledge and talents in a never ending fashion.

I also don't get along with opposites (would just end up fighting all the time and then breaking up).

I want someone who doesn't change my day to day other then sex, comfort, relatability, and someone to challenge my skills, and do fun co-op/vs games with, and collab on creative projects with. Someone who by default fits right in to my existing lifestyle.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Overachiever example 1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sE2jy23iG2M

[TheSpaceGnome]

overachiever example 2: www.youtube.com/channel/UCggHsHce2n3vvbJf_8YKrMA

[Ez-Bri-Z]

That's the thing, we are both overachievers. She feels like she needs to take on everything. I am the type who needs to learn how things work whether I need to know it or not. We both constantly work on being a better us and that includes finding ways to work within our strengths.

I get wanting to have commonalities with the person you are with but it just sounds like you want to date female you.

[TheSpaceGnome]

overachiever example 3 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sj5qggy-fAU

[TheSpaceGnome]

thats exactly what I want, mentally anyway.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Anyone else would be boring.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

*shrug* good luck lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

Anyome else would also hold me back from being my best, and being my best, creating, honing skills, seeing/hearing/using the fruits of that labor is what make me happy as a person, I don't like attention though, so I never really show off unless it's to find a person who likes the subjects I like.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Anyone*